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Q: I have whit bumps along the bottom of my penis. Its not from intercourse because i'm still a virgin. could it be from mastrubating too much? I only do it once a day
haha im a grl its weird but ama help you out becuz i c no1 did yet. so its not from masturbatin dunt worry, its normal but it might come from sweat there is nothin wrong wit dat but if u wanna help urself out use cream "NIVEA" dat might help! hehe i feel weird now but hope ive helped bye now

Q: i am 13, and my boyfriend is 14. we are both goth-like, and we love each other. we do have sex, but all my friends say i should go to the counselor and tell her about it. but i have nothing to tell. can anyone think of why i should or should not go the counselor?
i have read some things people wrote 2 you! but ma advice is diff. i think you do need a councelor because your r too young to have sex, 13 and 14 is really young! if you dont b carefull then you will become pregnant and that wont b pretty at 13! you wont have time 4 skool, or you bf, just b carefull and tell an adult before dis whole sex thing get 2 serious

Q: Ok well i am overweight i guess you could say. for the past couple days i have been doing crunches and pushups at nights, and i have been eating mostly liek low fat non-flavord yogurt and stuff like that. I am also in cheerleading and i have practices 2 times a week. i will soon be starting v-ball...how long do you think results will come to being skinnier??
I've been always thinkin I've been overeweight but sometimes, i feel just better when ppl tell me dat i'm really not then after they say that i look in the mirror and i know i'm not so I think you just need a kind word because every1 is pretty in a diff. way! Maybe if you take that deep look in the mirror you will find the real you, the really pretty you, but if you think that you are fat and you really wanna be skinnier, i think biking is the best way to loose weight easily, you dont have to stop eating but just eat less then you did b4! I hope i've helped you!

Q: I've been Depressed like forever. When i was little i got really bad mentally abused by my mom and to top this all off i'm fat. Well i'll use the Word Big. I'm not ugly or anything and I look normal, well, Good porportioned, not like a big stomach and stuff...I'm 5'8" at 200 :( It really isn't fair. I've been Depressed and Very low self esteem. Right now i'm trying to do exercise and eating less. But I don't know what i can do to cheer myself up or Feel better about myself. I have plenty of Friends, I get along with anyone, I'm the funny girl...But i just don't feel the way about myself as people see me. I just got rid of my addiction of self mutilation to myself and I need to cheer up to become Happy and get the energy to lose weight. I just want to feel good about myself...and It's quite hard :(
I know Exactly how you feel, and i really think i could help you out, my dad left me, my 2 sisters, and my mom! Why I still dont understand, I thought i could never get out of my depression thinkin that i was the UN luckiest kid in the whole wide world! The only way I got through it was thinkin that I'm not the only 1 wit problems, That it could b worse! I 2 have gr8 friends and family, I sometimes feel like I'm fat too! i'm 5'5 and 110 pounds! for me dats like WOW! But I just say to myself I'am beautiful and no1 can take that away from me! I dont know you but every1 has something to worry, about so just dont think about it, think about the good things you have like friends, and If you need any1 to talk 2 I hear that you can go talk to a profecional phsycologist, that may help, but I hope I've helped you!

Q: I am fat. I am about 5'0 and I wear a size 13. If I measer my stmach of my vignia area ( if you know what I mean.. It is two inches, so I really want a flat stomach. I go to cheerleading every saterday & sunday from 3 to 5 and we work out alot! That is so exercise. I was to loose weight ( enough to get a flat stomch) as soon as I can, like in two weeks but whenever I can. I hate perople calling me fat so I want to be skinny so I will look good in a two peice. I will go to realy good levels like extreem levels (as long as it is not starving myself). I am also really picky, the only vegtable I like is corn. So help!!

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ok if you are really up to this, first you cant depress yourself, you cant let people get into your mond, with this fat callinf, cause every1 is beautiful in their own way, second of all , all you need to do if a little job once/twice a day, drink water, and ride the bike, that helps! if you need anymore help visit my column, Thnx! hope i've helped

Q: ok so my family has 1 computer that has internet..and me and my sister fight constantly about it. so my mom decided that we get the computer every other day. so like i get it today all day and she gets it tomorrow all day..then i get it the next day...and so on..but i think thats totally unfair..cuz i like to talk to my friends everynight/day. so can someone help me with coming up with a plan or somethin to make it so we both get time on the computer everyday? thanks
I know EXACTLY how you feel, we used 2 have 1 computer too, but now we each have our own computers, the only way you 2 could go online each everyday is just by setting 2/3hrs a day each, or you Both could play online some games, r 2 player games , and if its about the friends, then try to use the phone or meet 4 movies, but you should have a talk with your mom if you could, you can even set up you get 1 WEEK and your sis. gets the other, ! II hope i've helped

Q: ok i just met this guy throught my friend who is a year younger than me and we got really close cause we went to 6 flags togther (thats when i met him) so now i think he really likes me and i dont know if i shoulkd go out with him i really like him but my friends said i shouldent go out with him b/c he is a year younger
Hey, I think that if you really like this guy, and if this guy really likes you, i think you should go out with him! As i say every1 deserves a chance if he has made you happy so far, but most of all it doesnt matter what I say or your friends, you have to find the answer in you, Age doesnt matter! Hope i've helped

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I am 13 years old, and my five year old brother has just started kindgergarten. I am afraid there is something terribly wrong. In just a week and a half, he's gotten a dozen reports from his teacher saying he was being bad. my brother is not a bad kid, and the allegations are (in my opinion) completely bogus. Just yesterday, my family and I recieved a call that my brother had been fighting on the playgroung. So we went over, and found out that it was just a few hits--nothing serious, but his teacher got together with the assistant principal, and they want to suspend him for "fighting" Is this teacher stepping over the line? I had bad experiences with teachers when I was at this school, and I'm afraid that because we have the same last name (and darker skin tone), he is being discriminated against.
I think that if you had a bad experience with the SAME teacher then I think that the teacher is a lil harsh! But if you had a problem with ANOTHER teacher then I think that your brother did something bad, then he got punished! But If I were you I wouldn't worry! Most teachers love to punish kids Its just their way of showing their tough! So I think you should just have a little talk with your brother, until you suspect anything, then just explain to him violence is not the answer!

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