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hey my name is jess, i am 16 years old i have brown hair, hazel eyes, an am about 5ft3. i am also really weird i love scary stuff, i love looking at the stars am really into witchcraft!! and other spirtual stuff. i am out spoken and always say what think. i love to give advice, i have also been through alot!!!. i love all ma mates. i also love being me!!
E-mail: jess0905@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: sheffield
Age: 16
Member Since: August 25, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: September 18, 2006
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I am under age.. where can i find birth control pills ... do i have to go to a doctor or can i buy them over the counter? (link)
birth control pills can be got from family planin or the doctors, its ok being underage the doctors will still perscribe thm.


My boyfriend and I used to have no problems with fingering, etc.. However, everytime he fingers me now (I'd say it's been occuring for a month).. I start to bleed. Sometimes there will be slight irritation afterwords, but while he does it - it doesn't hurt at all. The blood is sometimes bright red, sometimes brown. We're both virgins.

We've discussed it and we think it might just be that his fingernails have caused little cuts and abrasions - and we aren't allowing enough time for them to heal.

While he says that my health is more important to him then messing around, it's still really embarrassing for me and a downer for both of us ( we can't really finish).

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dnt worry, its really easy to get cut wen the boys nails r sharpe or to long. its also really easy to get inffected if ther not clean so goin to docters wud prob b a gd idea, even thou it is embarasin lol. jus make sure nxt time is nails r cut n clean n leavin them time to heal wud prob b a gd idea.


i heard that if a condom was used properly it would work like 98 per cent...i'd just dont know how to use the condom properly since iam goin to have sex wiz my girl next week...so can give me some tips perhaps a site where i can see a visual scene to show me how to use properly coz i am afraid of gettin broken and my girl get pregnant.
tanx for help
justin R5'' (link)
when u buy i condom in packet it will always come wiv instructions of how 2 use it so dnt worry, also if ur girlfriend is on the pill it makes it more safe than just using a condom.


I've been Depressed like forever. When i was little i got really bad mentally abused by my mom and to top this all off i'm fat. Well i'll use the Word Big. I'm not ugly or anything and I look normal, well, Good porportioned, not like a big stomach and stuff...I'm 5'8" at 200 :( It really isn't fair. I've been Depressed and Very low self esteem. Right now i'm trying to do exercise and eating less. But I don't know what i can do to cheer myself up or Feel better about myself. I have plenty of Friends, I get along with anyone, I'm the funny girl...But i just don't feel the way about myself as people see me. I just got rid of my addiction of self mutilation to myself and I need to cheer up to become Happy and get the energy to lose weight. I just want to feel good about myself...and It's quite hard :( (link)
i think you shud concentrate on the inside more than the outside it sounds like your alittle lost you need to find out who you are. and be happy with that person, you need to pick urself up an start a new. it sounds like your a great person an every one loves you for who you are, now you need to learn to love yourself aswell x


i am turning 13. and i was raised to believe that turning 13 is very important.for my 13 th b day i want 1 thing...my real parents . i hope some one has tips on how to find them. my adopted parents said it does not matter who they are. theyre right buti think i have the right to know (link)
there are many ways to find ur birth parents there are many sites that can help
www.ukig.co.uk
www.adoption-search.co.uk
www.TheWebInvestigator.org
i hope these might.


what does pure soul mean? cuz someone asked me Who is the person you know with the purest soul? what does that mean (link)
pure soul means some 1 who is godd basicly some 1 who hasnt sinned


ok there is this guy that i like and last year he liked me i am not sure he likes me now though, anyways, everyone knows i like him, i had one of my close friends {that was a guy} tell him, he told him and said, you know that girl___ he said yes then he said, do you like her? then the guy i like just shruged, what does this mean? oh yeah i for got to mension that he is a year older than me, sorry so long! (link)
sounds to me like he does,if a guy dosnt like you he would jst say no! the shrug could meen he does but he is to shy u will never no unless u find out i say make a move!


hey okay heres my problem...i have this ex hes a senior and ima soph. like we dont reAlLY get to see each other a whole lot since we go to different schools and such well i he says he likes me i and think i like him too but im not too sure if he really really likes me we've done stuff together and one time...the last time i saw him....he wanted to take it all the way home...we didnt and im glad i didnt im so confused idk if he wants me just for sex or if he really likes me...hes really sweet and loyal to me and i do trust him idk if i love him though beause im confused if he just wants me for sex...what do you think or what should i do?? thanks in advance! (link)
if you are not ready yet for sex you should tell him if really cares about you he will understand and wait till you are ready.


Ok, yesterday, I was really stressing out. I had a ton of homework, I discovered one of my friends are a cutter, and I have like 3 major tests that I bombed. I spent an hour crying in the principles office.once i got home, I got really short on breath. My chest constricted. I got really nausious and i couldn't breath. i got really dizzy and i passed out. I have no clue what happened. Can anybody help me?? Is it serious?! does it like actually have a name, or is it just me short circiting.
ppplllzzz help.
i give 5s for reasonable answers!!

signed,
anxious and twitchy (link)
it sounds like u had a panic attack dont worry calm down and take deep breaths sounds like you have alot going on dont worry jst take it easy an do 1 thing at a time.


well i had discharge for about 5 months now.. but i really messed up on my other question i asked like this. But doesnt it mean you are maturing and your period is comming soon? if so should i carry pads in my backpack? (link)
Discharge is just i sign of a healthy normal body we disharge so tht our vigina can clean itself properly this is not nessaseraly a sign that ur period may cum but i think it would be best to carry some pads just in case! As u clearly have started puperty.




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