Gender: Male Location: Lebanon Age: 15 MSN: jad_iskandar_95@hotmail.com Member Since: July 9, 2010 Answers: 12 Last Update: October 11, 2010 Visitors: 1729
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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ask one of your friends to show you their facebook account. look for the group again on their facebook account, take a picture of it and prove it to him. If he's dishonest with you in more things than just facebook, then you should consider leaving this relationship.
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After I ate dinner today I just went in the bathroom and threw up. Like, out of the blue I got sick for no reason. I haven't thrown up since or anything and I wasn't sick before I ate. What does it mean when you just randomly throw up or something? The vomit looked normal to me and not like bloody too (link)
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It's either you've been poisoned from the food or you may have diarrhea or an upset stomach that would cause vomiting.
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Im 17/f , & I will be 18 in Nov. Michael is 16 & will be 17 in Oct. He is the youngest guy I have dated. We have been dating for 4 months. He's my first serious relationship I have had since my ex Thomas in 06'. When he first asked me out, I said yes, but I felt like I made the wrong decision cause I was scared of what people would think of him cause he isn't the cutest thing in the world, but he's sweet. I gave him a chance, cause I didn't want to be shallow & miss out on a good guy. After 2 months, I told Michael that I had an ex (Thomas) coming over to see my family cause he was really close to them, & Michael didn't care at all; he trusts me. Thomas & I sat in his truck just bringing up our past, & it brought back a lot of memories. He said he still loved me, & that when im 18 he was going to ask me back out, cause he is 21 & his parents weren't okay with the age difference. He was aware about my new boyfriend. We didn't do anything, NOT EVEN HUG. After he left, I started having mixed emotions about if i wanted to be with Michael or not, so I talked to him about it, & explained how I felt to him; days went by & I had a feeling inside me that I felt guilty, but I had nothing to feel guilty over. I finally broke up with him; I felt happier; but than again I felt as if something was missing. When I left him, he cried & was very hurt; we talked & got back together cause we both thought it was Thomas's presents that I was feeling this way; and we also thought that it was the fact that we barely hung out with each other. So we started hanging out alot more & the mixed emotions went away. We had sex once a couple of weeks later. Ever since then we have been fine until Friday; I told him I wasn't in love with him but I do love him; he said he was in love with me. My mixed emotions are coming back. I brought it to his attention again, & he says its cause Im on my period, cause last mixed emotions happen while I was on my period also. I feel as if our relationship is boring. We have tried new things, but our relationship doesn't get any better to me. When we hang its like we are bestfriends, but I know I like him as more. Looks aren't everything, hes a good guy which makes me like him more.We use to be able to talk on the phone for hours, & now I dont like talking to him any longer than maybe 10 minutes on the phone cause he irritates me. The littlest things he does gets on my nerves, & I don't understand why. I use to love to kiss him, but now I don't. I have no problem cuddling with him, but its only when I want too. I dont want to hurt him, cause he has treated me the best that I have ever been treated & he had a rough past where people would just walk out of his life & I dont want to be like that. Sometimes I find him immature, even though he really isn't. He just doesn't think before he speaks. He has tried to change himself to keep me, but I dont want him being something he's not. I know its not lust, cause we aren't all over each other, & I dont like doing sexual things with him. I just really don't know what to do.I've been thinking that maybe it's the fact that I like the idea of having a boyfriend, but Im not too sure. I don't want to break up with him, and than regret it, but I dont want to stay with him just to get him more attached to me and than hurt him more. Its like when I break up with him, I feel heartbroken & I want him back, but when I take him back, I dont want to be with him. Im lost, and confused.
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Hey.
You shouldn't had sex with him if you dont like him. that will get you more attached to each other. You're feeling that he's immature because he's maybe younger than you. If you're not too confident about your relationship, just tell him what you feel and dont worry about feeling heartbroken. ITS NORMAL. it will go away in a few days or weeks. Maybe you love Thomas and thats whats leading you to being irritated by Michael.
You gave michael a chance and its ok if you broke up. Hope I helped.
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This is going to be a long post. It has been 8 months now since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who was my first lover (but I was not his first). I did reconciled him after his birthday in May over the telephone but I did not tell him how did I felt deep down inside me. Over the telephone, I told him that I can't be his friend just yet because I need the time to heal myself. He told me he understood what I am going through and he knows what to do right now (distance himself from me). On early of July, I went to Bangkok with my group of friends for 5 days (my ex was there too). Things got awkward at first, but I did not want to affect my friends who were stucked between us and acted as though I am okay and cool with the situation between my ex and I. We had fun clubbing, eating, gossiping and taking photos together.
After the trip, I did not contact my ex at all unil last week, out of the blues, my ex messaged me to ask me out for lunch when I was working. He was still the same, ordering food for me like what he did when we were couples and it was his treat for the lunch. I did not think much and took it as though how a normal friend treats you.
Then 3 days later, I heard rumours that my ex is going after a girl but they are still not hooked up yet. I felt hurt, sad and hopeless like how I felt after I broke up with him. So I messaged him after having a drink at the bar and told him that I do not want to follow him down for work on thursday because I do not want that girl to misunderstand our relationship. My ex told me that "who told you I am after her? we are just friends. u're thinking too much" and the very next day, his best friend finds me on messenger. His best friend told me that my ex called him to tell him about that girl, he wants to get to know her first before making any moves (try to understand her, compatible anot when they were together). I do not know who to trust at that moment and my feelings of getting hurt and sad came back.
Then I tried to reach out to my ex by asking him to fetch me down to my workplace to settle my stuffs on thursday and he agreed but he has to settle his work first before sending me to my workplace. I went to alot of places with him to finish up his work and we did talk alot of things during our journey from his family, to his business and also his friends. During lunch time, I was suppose to treat his a big meal since I still owe him but it ended up he paid for the meal and he asked me to take it as I was accompanying him that day. He did remind me alot of things, he told me that my christmas present for him was the most outstanding colour and nice design out of his other underwears. And I noticed that he always flirts with me by touching my hand, arms and also thigh. I also noticed that when I was having lunch with him that day, he looked on my neck to see what necklace was I wearing. I did not wear the necklace he bought for me on my birthday.
When his mom called him, he was jokingly saying that his mom asked me to stay for dinner with them. Then he was supposed to fetched me home, but he asked me whether I was in the rush to go home anot because he asked me to go for a movie or to go out for a walk with him before sending me home. He even told me that he can be that particular someone to taste my food since I know how to cook now because he's my boyfriend. He even gave me a mysterious smile when he sent me back home and said I still owe him a big meal. I thought of treating him during lunch, but he rejected and told me next time, you will see. My ex also did questioned and tried asking me who am I dating right now but I made him curious by not letting him know. But when it comes to me teasing him with that girl, he went again "she is just a fren".
Does a normal friend treat their friends this way? Or I should put it in a way does ex treat their other exes that way? I do want to reconcile him again, whats with those flirting!! My other friends who are boys never flirt with me that way!! Is he still keeping tabs on me because our break up din really go well, we did not have a proper closure. I really do not know what his actions really meant or am I too sensitive in handling all this signs that he is giving me? (link)
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The guy still likes you! Rumors aren't always true you know... dont listen to them! try to reconcile with him again.tell him how u feel and of course he'll say yes
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what does this smiley mean? "_" ?
cause i only know ^_^and *_*
xDD (link)
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"_" is the same as -_-
it means the same way when you tell a joke and someone stares at you with the feeling that hes saying "its not funny"...
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So, my shampoo right now is Suave Strawberry Delight or something like that. It smells really good. I've had a lot of shampoos before, but this is my most current one..
When I wash it off and then dry my hair, my hair doesn't smell like anything. This isn't the case for most people. You can still smell their shampoo throughout the whole day. For me, there's not a hint of it.
If it helps, I use a palm-sized amount of shampoo, followed by conditioner. I wash them both with hot water. I blowdry my hair about ten minutes after, and before I do, I run my hands through my hair with Garnier Fructis Leave In Conditioner. So, that's what bothers me. I put so much product but the smell isn't shown..
Help me? Oh, and sorry for the long question. (link)
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Actually it does smell but you can't realize it since you get used to the smell of it! and if it helps, try to leave the shampoo on your hair for a while and to not waist your time, wash your body while waiting! Coconut-essenced shampoos also leave a wonderful and long lasting smell! hope i helped.
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what cell phone do you have and are you satisfied with it? my old cell broke and i need a new one. my service provider is at&t. i have no idea what to get.
i am thinking about a smart phone maybe, but seeing as how getting internet on it is expensive there's no point. but i want a qwerty keyboard like the motorola backflip or blackberry.
umm i guess it would be nice to also have good memory to store a lot of pictures and texts. that's it. any suggestions, please. thank you. (link)
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i advice you to get the nokia e72. it rocks!!!
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i heard that if you drink 8 cups of water a day then it helps your skin and makes you healithier. but is there a certain measurment? is it just 8 cups? like actual cups? or what? (link)
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It's not specifically 8 cups. Actually, it's 2 liters of water per day.
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I lost my email account to a hacker and I wanted to get my account back since I used it for more than 10 years and have many contacts. Please give me some ideas how to get it back. (link)
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Don't worry i had the same problem. Just contact a hotmail supporter and change your secret question after regaining it. Change your alternate email adress's password too.
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17/f
at my school there was this really pretty girl that i guess you could say i had a gradeschool crush on, but i'd never go out with her. maybe like kiss her at a party if i was drunk or something but not like have a full on relationship. i don't think of girls that way, i'm totally straight. anyways, i haven't seen her for months, let alone, thought about her, and a few nights ago i had a dream that she and i had sex. like full on sex. clothes off, kissing, etc, without going into too much detail.
why the hell would i have a dream like that when i'd never do that with her, or any other girl? (link)
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It's normal... Maybe you were watching sex and you thought about your frnd... ur brain mixes things up. if youre sure youre straight dont worry. it happens but try to think about boys so u wont have to think about her and have crushes on her!
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Ok so I have never like reall kissed a guy before and I don know how to. And please don't say you will figure it out it comes naturaly or something please!? Thanks alot! :)
~Kaiya (link)
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A kiss SERIOUSLY comes when you kiss. the only thing you have to do when kissing is tilt your head and kiss slowly without stress!
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16/female
helloo.
umm if you read my past entries, ive had this crush on my stepbrother for a while now.
people have told me that im crazy its wrong but i dont know... im just confused. not only that but its gotten worse. im like falling for this boy. we have sooo much in common but at the same time we have our differences. & lately we've become comfortable with each other. considering that it used to be soo akward around each other. but its like the more i learn about him, the more im drawn to him. i havent seen him for about 4 months now & usually when i dont see him a long period of time, the feelings start to fade. but they've gotten stronger. & its driving me insane like i'll dream about him; every song i hear it reminds me of him; even movies & tv shows. its out of control..
i dont know what to do.
any advice?
is this wrong? (link)
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It's actually wrong to be in love with your stepbrother... I can only give you some advices to help you forget him:
- Try to date a pretty friend of yours.
- Try finding a hobby.
- If you're christian, think about the sins.
- Try to see the negatives about him!
He's your stepbro so i cant understand how youre crushing on him. Anyway, if in a while (1-3 months) he keeps on getting to your mind, be sure to try to consult an ADULT ( OBLIGATORY and not a teen). It's been nice helping you!
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