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Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help. (link)
way toooooo early. im 14 and i don't plan on it till im like married.


Is there anybody on this site who can tell me their story about losing their virginity when they were young(12-15)and not regreting it? It doesn't have to be first hand accounts either, it may be stories you heard from other people too. (link)
12-15. thats way to young. don't even think about it missy


i am really good friends with this family, theres 5 kids. four sister and im friends with all of them the oldest sister is in 10th grade then 2 twins who are in my grade and a younger one whos in 6th [im going into 8th]
im really good friends with all of them
anyways so lately the oldest one has told me that she wants to start smoking/pot and stuff
she asked if i would think of her any differently/etc i said no i wouldnt think of her different although i dont think smokings the best thing.
she just messaged me that her and this guy [who i also know, not really friends with or anything] are going to meet up next week and smoke. im not sure if its pot but it might be.
i wasn't exactly invited to go with them but like if i really wanted to, i could and it wouldnt be like a big thing.
but im not really sure what i wanna do because as i look at it i know a lot of people who smoke/drink and other stuff.
i kind of do want to see what its like but im an athlete and im afraid it would mess me up too much.

i really dont know what to think anymore.
sorry, kind of long.
13/F (link)
If you have a feeling that it isn't right, chances are, it's not. Smoking is completely stupid and there is nothing good about it. If your friends want to smoke, let them. You can't control them, but as an athlete, it is not in your best interest to pick up smoking. It's not only illegal to have if you're under 19 (they changed the age) but it has more of a chance of damaging you at a younger age. Good luck! Make the right choice!


First of all, do NOT answer this question if you don't know about singing!


An opera coach told me that I have a really incredible voice and that I could have a really, really big voice if I stopped singing with tension. How do you stop singing with tension?

I can't afford lessons though, because I'm really not rich and my family's broke. (link)
don't think too much about how you're singing. think about why you're singing. and that should make you feel better and ease your tension. you're obviously singing becuase you love it and if you really think about how much you love it, the tension will go away instantly.


Hey does anyone know a good recipe for a good strawberry smoothie? Or any other kind? thanks a bunch!!! (link)
Great question. Start off with some vanilla ice cream in a blender. Then add as many strawberries as you want. Then add about a teaspoon of sugar. And top it all off with milk. Then mix it in the blender and drink!! It should be great! Good Luck!


Okay so I know this isnt under the right catergory I just didnt know what to put it under.

Does pro-active really work ? Like the commericals say. Does it really clear you skin up well & prevent later break outs ? If so where can I buy it at a good price ? Because I dont want to order it from TV. Thanks in advance. (link)
Finally! A question that I really want to answer! My skin sucks! Like really, it's awful. As soon as I started using proactiv, my face cleared up! I thought it was a miracle, but after about a month and a half, the proactiv stopped working. It was a nightmare! The other day, my mom took me to a make-up place. I got into a conversation with a woman who previously had acne. She said that she had used proactiv before. She had the same sitation as me. If you do get proactiv, use it until it stops working. Then buy some other skin product, like Clinique Foam Acne Cleanser. Then, once you run out of that, switch back to the proactiv. Good luck!


I always had straight hair...or that's what I thought. Since I was little I always had hair long as my butt and it's been straight or well that's what I thought.
When I decided not to take a bit off but cut until my chest area...I realised I really needed a straightener and so I bought one the same day!!! I had no advice on it and when I got home it worked but it took atleast 1 and 1/2 hours to finish and that's something I'm not willing to take. My hair is thick and still longish but I want to cut it a bit and in steps.
I'm not sure if I will cut it though but I need to buy a new straightener and that's a fact...cause I'm on vacation right now and my hair is a mess w/o my old hot iron. Please tell me a good type that will be fairly cheap. Around $100 CND-$ 100 US.
Something professional maybe with a ceramic heating plate? (link)
I recommend either a CHI or Paul Mitchell. They're both great. I think they're around $100. Here's a tip for straightening your hair. Leave the bottom layer down and clip the top layers onto your head. Then straighten the bottom layer and release a little more hair from the clip to straighten. Continue until your whole head is straight. Doing this reduces ridges in your hair. Good luck!


I am seriously getting stressed here! My best friend told me yesterday that she was through with life and she wanted to kill herself! I've been through this before with another one of my friends. It turned out that that friend wasn’t going to commit suicide she was just really depressed but I had told someone. Now it’s happening again with a different friend so I told my mom this time. I let her read the conversation we had and then my mom was just like "All I see here is a very angry child trying to get attention." I don’t see it that way though. My mom had said that out of the 100% of people that say there going to commit suicide, 98% don’t and 2% do. My friend said that sometime before high school is over she's going to kill herself. I have 4 years to convince her not to, but I tried a ton yesterday. She said its not helping and that I shouldn’t be her friend anymore. I love being her friend and I understand that she's trouble from home life (her mother doesn’t trust her!
Her brother doesn’t like her, and her dad abused her but has stopped). What should I do? I really don’t want my friend to kill herself but she doesn’t understand that! (link)
There isn't much you can do to save your friend. But try telling someone that she really looks up to and cares about. Have that person really talk to her about what she's thinking about doing.I know that whenever I feel upset, talking to someone i really care about helps me. Try a teacher she loves, or a pal that she's had for a while. Good luck.




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