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My name is Alexis Inderlied. I am 14 years old almost 15. I have five sisters and one brother.
I live in a very small town.Population- 1,200 people, so there is like a total of 200 students in our school from k-1 to 12th grade. I have many problems in my life. but i feel as if i have no one to talk to. I resently moved out of my parents house. now i live with my grandma. I have straight A's, and i am a freshman in high school so there is my first problem... Goshhhhhhh high school!!!!!!
E-mail: lexi_m_07@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: oklahoma
Age: 14
Yahoo: little_alexis_lou@yahoo
Member Since: October 31, 2005
Answers: 3
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Hi I'm a 27 year old woman but dress like I'm a lot younger. I was wearing a pair of tight track pants that showed off my figure. They were not slutty, but just the style right now and I also wore a black jacket. Anyways these two older men were sitting on a park bench when I walked by, one man said "that's a little tight".
Also two days ago me and my friend who is 33 (but looks 25) were at Tim Hortons having a coffee. We were sitting outside and these old men were sitting behind us. We were not talking to them but they were eavesdropping on our conversation ( which was about men). When we left they jeered at us and said BYE GIRLS.
Why do I always get this reaction from older men? I am not a slut and not a flirt. (link)
im 14 and i drees my age im not saying you need to dress older but dress like you feel and who the heck cares what those guys care , hun if you think you look good then you do.


this may take a while but please help
when i was younger i was sexually abused by my grandad (my mums dad), the i got sexually abused by my brothers friend then i lad i used to no tryed it on with me and he frightened me and i said not but he forced me to do things with him it did not used to bother me but now i cant stop thinking about it and it up sets me and when i was about 7 my mum nearly died of cancer i lost my auntie and my grandad ( my dads dad) through cancer my mum and dad have split up and now my other grandad (mums step dad) is having strokes everyweek and i think he is going to dye i am getting my life on track just got a new job and every thing but my past is getting in my way i cant even go out and have fun any more and i think i wil lose my job if i let this stuff get in my way what can i do to try stop thinking about this please help me. (link)
omg , i am so sorry, i know you probly told you parents and they didn belive you well , iv been there. you need to never be alone always stick with trustworthy friends. friends are what help you through times like this as for you geting back on track with your life . thats wonderful.if you beleive in god you should realy go to people at church they can help . you sound like a person that has been through alot. but god and friends is what can help you the most.


God bless. alexis


my friend lets call her Lina one day i always go ot my cousins locker after school me amanda and jessie all go down there and my friend lina said one day she flipped out "Fine no wants to walk with me then ill go by myslsef!" everyone got mad at her because she yelled at all of us so i was mad at her but i had already asked her before to go up the mountians with me and when we did we aurged and aurged and then the next day at school her and mycousin got into a fist fight!And lina wants me to help her but i can't go against my cousin!I told her i wasn't picking sides and now she will be my best friend sometimes and others she is my worst emeny! (link)
I know exactly how you feel, you just need to stay out of it and give your friend a few days to cool off , alot of good friendships rune becuse of silly things like that.




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