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Hey everyone!!! I have gone through alot of problems in my life similar to yours, so i think ill be able to help alot of you. I am always open to new questions so ask away!! i hope i can get some great feedback from you all!!!

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I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something?

Im the same age as you, and alot of boys in my school try the same thing. They try and be such great gentlemen. But girls are different, we ususally want a bad boy. Not in the larger sense, but in the case of like skaters. The skaters just attract to us more easily. I mean yea its great to have a really nice and sensitve guy areound, but that can also be dull. And no one wants to have a dull relationship, everyone wants new exciting things, and girls think that they wont find that in the good guys that always play by the rules. It may be kind of hard to realize but everyone wants something different so maybe you need to find someone thatw ants a good guy like yourself. The skaters just catch the girls eye easier so the girls obsess about them even more. Dont worry about theres nothing wrong with being a gentlemen infact its a great quality to have, some just may not see it yet.
good luck...

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What does "Heritage" mean ???

heritage is Something that is passed down from preceding generations; a tradition.
or:
The status acquired by a person through birth; a birthright: a heritage of affluence and social position. ...there you go

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what is the best diet pill to take to lose weight?

hi,
DO NOT TAKE DIET PILLS, there are sooo many other ways to loosing weight that are natural and healthy!! you will only be setting yourself up for a dead end with diet pills. they can lead to diseases and they can make you VERY sick. if you want to lose weight than try a diet or workout everyday, just dont do anything that can harm your health like patches or pills ok?
please done...good luck

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Okay welll... 13/f and i am getting a white discharge in my underwear and it does not smell good at all. I have started my period so its nothing like that i mean it might involve it but its not warning me or anything. Never have been sexually active either so i dont know how to clean better down there and have tht stuff stop coming out. also. how are you and what are u supposed to be cleaning with down in tht region?Does it help to shave?

hi...

shaving should help a little but there nothing you can do really about the white discharge, it just is a bodidly function that some get and others dont. its like anything else just get used to it..any more questions drop one in the inbox...good luck

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i am certainly not a fat girl, but i am not the skinniest either. i am pretty happy with the way i look, but i want to drop a few pounds/make my stomach flatter. i already know exercises for that & i do them every night, so that's not my problem. the real problem is that i am addicted to chocolate. i want to be able to eat some chocolate maybe once a week for dessert, but i wind up having it everyday, sometimes more then once a day. it's not like i am a horse eating until i pop, but i tell myself i am not going to eat it but then an hour later my mouth starts to water & i can't resist some. i need a way to stop this temptation. how can i take control & not give in to having chocolate? what works for you or other people you know? i need some good tips, so if you have an idea that would be great! thank you!

ok, i use to be the EXACT SAME WAY...trust me i saw this on a show and it works completely!!!!
alright so what you do is pour yourself some water with a few drops of lemon juice in it and this may sound wierd but a TINY bit of olive oil. this has worked for everyone i know of... so just try it and if it doesnt work than i have a few more ways so just drop one in my inbox...

hope the craving stops...good luck

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ok there was this boy,
and he is my best friend's ex boyfriend.
but she still has feelings for him.
but he broke up with her.
but first time I saw him I had a crush on him too. I didnt tell my best friend, I couldent do that to her! but he had a football game and they won. my friend went to go to the rest room after the game. and I waited on the bentaches the the boy came up to me and sat by me. he said hi. I thought my friend would say it was ok just to have a confersation. then so we talked. the bathroom was like a couple minnets away. then right when my friend came she saw me and him holding hands!
she got mad but after a week she forgave me. that friday we were planning to go to a party. and he was there. soon my friend decided to leave but it was his house and he told me he had to show me somthing. I told him no beacuse of what happened. he talked me into it. then it was his room and you know what happened next yes we had sex.
but now at school I see him and he smiles. I hate keeping this from her.
I think he really likes me but so do i. but my friend will hate me!!!!! what do I do!!!!!!!??

What you neeed to do is you need to tell your friend the truth, she will never forgive you if you keep hiding this from her. yes she is obviously going to be upset but you know if shes your TRUE friend evetually she will forgive you it's just it may take a very long time. But the best advice i can give is to tell her and hope for the best.
Now as for this guy, dont go there, shell be mad enough about what happened she doesnt wanna have to deal with you with him also, and if he would do that to his ex-girlfriend with her best friend than he cant be trusted. because he wont change his ways and how will you know if he does that to you.
What you need to do is put yourself in your friends shoes...
Your friends will be with you forever, he wont....trust me, tell her and leave him behind, hes not worth it...
need any more help just ask...good luck

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