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I am still a virgin and I want to know if I am ready or not. how can I know! and how will I know if i am ready! Everyone eles is doing it why shouldnt I? please help thanks
*~*Crystal*~* (link)
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If you're not sure if you're ready, don't do it. you don't want to end up regretting it. just because everyone else is doing it doesnt mean you should. people do tons of stupid things and they end up regretting all of them.
you'll know if you're ready to have sex if you can handle the consequences. will you be able to raise a child, or decide whether to give it up for adoption or carry it to term? would you be able to pay for doctor bills and medicines if you contract a disease? if you can handle all that, go ahead and do it. its kind of a big decision in my eyes. if you do it, use a condom. but think about it first.
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Hi Zoe,
I have a very basic problem and i hope it's not very serious. my problem is that i keep thinking about having sex with with every good looking girl i see, even if she is my freind, colleague or any known person, even if a girl is married or respects me. My mind keep thinking about having sex. Is this normal or abnormal, caus some times i feel guilty about all this. Note i don't have a girlfreind. (link)
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thinking about sex is normal. i think youre better off, because a lot of people will THINK about having sex with everyone they see, and they'll actually do it. that can be quite unhealthy. you can go right on ahead thinking about sex all the time. masturbate or something. have fun.
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people need to ask more sex questions cuz i love to answer them its fun people ask more sex questions (link)
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i agree.
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whats a blow job? (link)
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oral sex on a man. someone puts a penis in their mouth and has a bit of fun.
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Hi. My name is Brian and I am entangled in a love triangle. We have sex quite often. But I'm starting to wonder if it's ethical. Becky and Beth are thinking of making it a love square. I really want out but if I try to escape they'll castrate me and force me to eat my severed penis then shoot me. What should I do? (link)
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i'm sure they wont do that. just tell them you dont want to do it anymore. i'm sure they'll have plenty of fun on their own.
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does it hurt to have sex if it is your first time?i eman is there a lot of pain involed for the girl? (link)
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for some girls, it hurts a lot. for others, not so much. usually, there is pain. most females have a hymen which is a peice of skin kinda of covering the opening of the vagina. during sex, this is broken, and when skin is broken, it hurts and bleeds a bit.
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i want to do it on prom night but what if my boyfriend forgets a condum i mean should i wait till he gets one or shouldi go make him buy one? (link)
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go buy some yourself! girls can do that, too, y'know. its your responsibility just as much as it is his.
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ok so im 17 and i was wondering i have read that guys prefer the girls to swallow there cum after oral sex is this true or would they rather us to spit everytime i ask guys they say either way but i want to know seriously what they prefer i know it would be different for different guys but what would most of them seriously want (link)
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not all guys are the same.
if i was a guy, i dont think it would make a difference. if you dont want to swallow, you dont have to. and if you tell a guy you dont want to and they try to get you to do it, say: "i'll tell you what. how bout YOU taste it, and then you can tell me to swallow."
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Look I really love my boyfriend weve been together for 3 years and I want to take it to the next level(sex)and he wants to know if im really sure oh here's the catch im a virgin he knows of course so what should I do???????????? (link)
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if youre second guessing yourself, you arent ready. sex, especially for the first time, is something you really need to think about. just because youve been together for 3 years doesnt mean anything. just know that sex is a great thing when youre emotionally ready for it. if you decide to do it, use a condom!
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like almost 2 years and we want to have sex but i am a Virgin and i dont know how it would fell can i get some advice explain how it fells and what i should do (link)
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well. sex feels good when youre emotionally and physically ready. its a wonderful thing you can share with someone, seriously. the first time a girl has sex, it usually hurts, because the penis breaks the hymen ("pops the cherry"). to make sure it feels good, make sure youre "wet" enough. if your vagina is dry, it will be rough and painful. foreplay is helpful, or lubricant. and use a condom!
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Okay, I'm a sort of goody-goody. I don't do drugs, I don't have sex, I've never had a boyfriend, etc. etc. A lot of my friends don't believe that oral sex is something bad. i understand that it's something that a lot of people do, and I also understand that it could be much worse, but I really think it's gross, and I just wanted some people's opinions on it. Is it "naughty" to have oral sex?
*Just Wondering* (link)
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if you think its gross, its gross. i dont really have an opinion on it. youre not stupid or naive or anything for thinking its gross. its actually smarter that way. you can still get STIs from oral sex, including HIV/AIDS. STIs are what is gross.
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okay so me and my boyfriend just met a month ago and we're already having sex. I really enjoy it but i think it s too soon! what should I do?
Love,
Horny Baby (link)
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if youre having second thoughts, stop having sex with him. youre not ready for it yet if youre second guessing yourself. talk to him about it and see if you can just stop for a little while.
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ok well im a female and im really curious about sex but i wont until im married so in order to pleasure myslf i have to finger myself but im not sure how to i mean i know im supposed to like put my finger in my hole but i dont get pleasure by diong that so what should i do and how should i finger myslf well how do i finger myself? (link)
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a lot of women respond better to clitoral stimulation that penetration. try just massaging around the outside of your vagina (called the vulva) instead of just fingering yourself.
also, theres a place that i'm sure youve heard of called the "g-spot." imagine that youre facing another woman and you put your finger in your vagina and make the "come here" motion with your finger. thats where its located, on the outer wall of your vaginal canal. try finding that, you may be happy.
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I heard this ad on the radio for these parties... they're like tupperware parties, where women get together and buy stuff... only we're buying sex toys instead. Since I've got all these boring married coworker gals who are always inviting me to their make-up parties and kitchen selling things, I was thinking of setting up a sex toy party.
I'm totally serious.
Would this be a bad thing to do with co-workers? What exactly is a sex toy party? If I call the shop that's offering this thing will I get suckered into some awful deal my friends will never forgive me for? (link)
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go ahead and go for it. that sounds like it would be such a blast. call the place and find out exactly what youll be doing so you can let your coworkers know, and then they wont feel uncomfortable (if they would have at all).
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