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[Name] Stephanie
[Nickname] Sparkles, Pimpalicious
[Screen name] x p l i s i t 15
[Birthday] 2/15/89
[Age] 16
[Astrological sign] Aquarius
[Location] New York
[Sexual Preference] I like guys, lol
[Marital Status] Not married but ive got a man
[Religion] Athiest, haha j/k. Catholic
[Eye color] Blue or green, depends on light
[Height] 5 8
[Shoe size] 8
[Parents still together] Yep
[Siblings] None
[Pets] A dog and a rabbit
[In school/graduated] High School Sophmore
[What do you drive] I dont yet, but ive got an eclipse sittin in my garage waitin for me when i get my permit!

Stephanie In a Nutshell: Im 15, i have a boyfriend named kevin who is very hot(and a soccer player *grins*) i play basketball and run track-distance only, i suck at math, i hate school, and im a huge flirt!

If ya got questions for me drop em in my inbox!

advice

can a girl get pregenent from anal sex

nope. your butt has no connection to your vagina. But if a guys cum gets on the area around your butt...then you can get pregnant

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what is the difference between giving heads and s blow job! i kinda know what they are but then someone used it in a weird way and i just want to make sure i have them straight! thanks a bunch!
love ya!

Theyr the same thing hun. Dont get confused lol

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What kinda of sounds do you make when ur having sex or when ur gettin figered. like moaning but what can you say or are suppose to say.
P.S. ill rate too

Alot of people dont make sounds...

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okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..



no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!!

wow, the first thing i would do is tell my parents because what if he got you pregnant? Tell your parents to take you to a doctor immediatly! The report this to the police, he raped you, dont let him get away with it

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I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!

When i lost mine i felt like i had this voice in the back of my head saying that its something i shouldnt have done yet. But i got over it after a couple of weeks, im 16 and just lost mine in December. But it wasnt what i had imagined it to be. Your first time is always akward or so ive heard. The guy couldnt exactly..uh...last too long, and it wasnt like.."magical" lol. I hope yours wasnt horrible!

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what are the risks of letting a guy eat you out?

The risks for you are very slim unless you have a cut or something "down there" and he has an STD. For him, if you have an STD he could probably get it.

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I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.

U CANT GET PREGNANT FROM SWALLOWING! God, if u didnt know that you shouldnt be giving the guy head in the first place!

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how do u get tested fo a sti?im worried

go to your doctor or a gyno...

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I have two questions. It might get a little confusing because I myself am confused. I was at my boyfriends house yesterday and we started doing sexual things and we had sex. The thing is, I'm not sure if you'd consider it to be having sex. We only were doing it for five minutes tops and neither of us "finished" (I didn't have an orgasm and he didn't cum) So my first question was if you would consider that to be sex. The second part of my question is that the first minute or so, he did not have a condom on but I do know that you can get pregnant off of precum. I know there is a certain time where you are least fertile around the time of your period. I had my period the week BEFORE we did that. Someone had told me that you are most fertile the week after you have your period and then another person said that it was the week before. Could someone clear that up for me? I really need some answers. Thank you SO much if you can help! And please, do not say that you "think" that this is when you are least fertile, I need a straight answer. Thank you again.

Yep, thats sex hun. And the second part, the most fertile time is 14-17 days after your period as far as i can remember, but every girl is different. I guess its about 2-2 1/2 weeks after the last period. Anyways its less likely that your pregnant but its still possible. I say your chances of being pregnant are slim.

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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help

Its tough. Dont rush into it. Find someone u love and make sure they love u back b4 u even thing about having sex with a guy. IM 15 and lost my virginity not too long ago, but i trusted the guy so that made me feel more comfortable about it. And ur not a slut if u have sex with one guy..and only with the same guy all the time.

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Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex?

Not all teenage guys want sex! Mayb u just have bad luck with finding the guy u want. There are guys who want relationships and usually there the last ones u expect, trust me i know. Your gonna find somebody!

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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE

Well if ur sure that the condom didnt break and if he pulled out im sure u have nothing to worry about hun. Im kinda the same way, ill have sex with my boyfriend and my period ends up being like 4 or 5 days late, no big deal. If you were bleeding after he fingered you im sure your not pregnant. And dont stress yourself out because that will make ur period later.

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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!

It means he likes what u were doing and he wanted u go go deeper, lol. No big deal.

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Does sex always hurt the first time? My friends say it does... but are there any ways for it to not hurt at all?

Unless your cherry has been popped from using a tampon or being fingered or something like that...yep! Its not that painful, but i suggest stretching it out a lil before you do have sex.

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