Hi! I love to give advice. All of my friends say I'm really good at it. I'm sure alot of things you ask me, I'll answer based off of experience. I've been through alot, and I know alot. I really want to help you, so please don't be afraid to ask :]
Love,
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Okay , So i am pregnant at 14!!! I am a christan and i no i was not suppoed to do this but i was broght into temptation.. and i am not sure how to tell my parents or my church family? Will i have to move to a different church? (link)
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I'm so sorry hun. I'm Christian too.[Well, I'm Orthodox, but it's a Christian religion] Temptation is a bad thing, and, trust me, I've done it too. I think you should start off by telling your parents. Sit down with them, and be calm. They're more likely to freak out more if you're freaking out. It really depends on your church. But, I'm sure your parents will know. Good luck!!! Keep me updated :]
Much love,
xmcrgirl5x
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my mom grounded me for having sex...im 16...wtf...i can do what i want, im almost an adult...sex doesnt have to be about love...how can i make my mom get me out of the house, i want to continue having sex and doing fun shit while i still can...*jer* (link)
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Um...are you serious?
Ok, heres the deal.
I'm 15.
I've had sex with ONE guy, we were in a very long relationship, and he gave me genital herpes. I'm not proud of it, but I'm just playing the hand I was delt. And, if that happened to me after having sex with someone I LOVED, (and yes, it IS about LOVE) then imagine what can happen to you while you're doing every guy and having "fun"?
In my opinion, "fun" isn't about having an STD or getting pregnant.
Are you protected?
Do they use condoms?
Do they have STD's?
I mean, seriously. Don't put yourself in the position where it could ruin your life. Sure, you may think you're almost an adult, but clearly from reading this, you're far from it. Any "adult" would know it was about love, and would respect their mom. Rate me as low as you want. You needed to hear that.
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hi i am a sex addict i have never acctually had sex but i do it to myself all the time is this bad i mean i am just so addicted i need help on knowing if this is bad.....please help. (link)
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Hello there :D
Well, technically you're not a "sex" addict, but you just masturbate alot. Don't worry. It's not a bad thing. It's normal :]
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ok i dont know what sex, blow jobs, vagina, and cum and sperm is but i do know what a pnis is ... so tell me what it is please and also what is a dildo? what is a condom? what is a vibrater? what is a breast? and last but not least... i know what hormones r and all but i am sorta confused... i know i am ready for sex so don't tell me i am not or i will hate you i am horny and my friend says i need sex (link)
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Um, are you serious?
Ok, let me explain.
Sex, is something you do with someone you (usually) care about, and basically penis goes inside vagina. You can figure the rest of that one out.
I mean, how can you SERIOUSLY be ready for sex, when you don't even know what it is?
Get real.
Vagina, is the female genital that she urinates, contracts a child, and has sex with.
Cum and sperm are the same thing.
If a sperm cell reaches the egg, it's what impregnates a girl.
A dildo is a sex toy, same with a vibrator.
A condom is what the guy puts on his penis to help reduce the risk of pregnancy and std's and sti's.
And a breast, is a female body part located on her chest (they usually have two of them), that her infant might feed from.
Dude, your friend obviously doesn't know what they're talking about.
If you're horny, masturbate.
Don't just give it up.
Considering I just had to explain all of that to you, clearly means YOU ARE NOT READY FOR SEX.
Do you even know what the consequenses are?
Can you handle raising a child if you (if you're the girl) or your partner (if you're a guy) were to get pregnant?
I'm guessing the answer is no.
Can you handle an STD?
I'll assume no.
Don't have sex.
I can't make you not do it, but I can give my opinion.
Go ahead and hate me.
I couldn't even believe that this was a serious question.
But, I hope I helped.
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my boyfriend gave me genital herpes and I asked him to go get checked out and he pretended to get checked out. I asked him over and over did he get checked out and he finally said that he didn't go. And he keeps saying that he didn't give me the STD, but I know he did. What do I do? (link)
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Oh my god, the EXACT same thing happened to me dude! He still doesn't think I got it from him. In my honest opinion, if he doesn't believe you got it from him, and won't even go get checked, he isn't worth your time. He gave you an STD that you'll have forever. I'm going threw the same thing, and it's hard, but, it's better if he isn't in your life. Me and my, now ex boyfriend broke up, and things are getting better. It'll be hard at first, but, it'll probably be for the best. You don't need someone who isn't going to trust what you know for a fact is true. But, just do what you feel is right, and I'm here if you need anything else. Feel free to message me anytime with any questions you may have. I'm always here and happy to help! Good luck, and I hope things work out!
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last night i had sex with my boyfriend and for the first time in like three weeks. I'm almost positive that he wouldn't cheat on me but i guess i don't know i'm really confused and kinda scared. Sorry for graphicness but i was pleasuring him orally and i felt these weird little things on him.. and i was just like what ever which was stupid but yeah. Now i have them on the opening around my holes and they burn... they look kinda like little taste buds or something.. is this an std or what? (link)
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Sweetie, go see a doctor NOW!
I'm always here if you have any more questions.
xmcrgirl5x
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hi.. im 17/f... and ive had a partner whom had herpes... we didnt have sexual penetration but he did rub himself on my part down there... and my question is, can you get genital herpes like that? lately ive been getting these boil like things on my genitals and theyre full of pus =/ sorry for the graphic images just in case... and they leave scars :'( plz help ..also..ive been getting sick more frequently (link)
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I have herpes, and, yes, you can get it that way. That's how I got it. Go to a doctor immediately. I'm so sorry hun, I hope you don't have it. It's horrible. But, go to a doctor.
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how do you know if you have herpes (link)
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Genital herpes-You get canker sore type things
Like, Oral herpes-you get horrible cold sores.
I hope to God you don't have it.
Go to a doctor and get checked though.
Don't wait.
-xmcrgirl5x
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okay so me and my girlfriend like to mess around. but like when we start to get really into it she says she has to stop cuz her whole body just gets tickelish to the touch.
is this uncommon?
is there anything to do to prevent it?
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Don't worry. This isn't uncommon. The same thing happens to me too lol. It's been going away the more we mess around and stuff, because I've gotten used to it. I'm not sure if it will work for your girlfriend, but, I think you should give it a try. Good luck! :]
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Hi, I'm 15 and a girl. I want to try and get on the contracptive pill but I'd rather not tell my parents it is cos I am sexually active. Is there any medical reasons that can help me get on it? My periods are irregular and I get bad period pains, Could I get put on it to help that? thanks x (link)
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Yep. That's one of the reasons I'm on it. And, they help acne and stuff too :] So you could also tell your parents that. Buttt, if you get put on Yaz, which is the one you'll probably be put on, [my doctor said it's the best one for period regulation and pain] the side effects SUCK, and they last for about a week and a half to two weeks [just to let you know. I didn't know about them, and I started taking it, and I felt like, al;fjalsfjas] but, it's worth it, especially if it's to help prevent pregnancy. Good luck!
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I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on march 9th. He withdrew and didnt cum in me. His precum should be clean bc he did not previously ejaculate and he went to the bathroom beforehand. A few days later we did it again and withdrew that time as well. We did it a third time a few days later and this time i took a Plan B pill the next day just to be safe. I usually get my period about the first of every month. Its usually a regular cycle and it stays the same. I should be getting it in the next 5 days. Im totally worried. It seems like Im having the early symptoms too. Im not sure if im imagining it though. Maybe Im just paying closer attention. The symptoms i have are the sore breasts, frequent urination, headache, nausea, and fatigue. Note: Im also getting over being sick and the nausea is only my stomach feeling queasy. And my stomach hurting has been hurting on and off since before the time we had sex. We havent done it before the 9th and we havent done anything that would get me pregnant before then either. I dont know if Im pregnant or not. Are my chances really high?
Also I dont want any answers saying how stupid we are and lectures. Whats done is done. I just want advice. (link)
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The chances are high, but not as high as they would be if he had came in you. I'm sure you don't want to do this, but, if you can, [without your parents finding out] I'd really suggest going to a doctor, or planned parenthood and getting checked. You'll probably have to wait untill you get or don't get your period though. Or you can get a test at a pharmacy. Even if you do get your period, you should probably get checked anyways. My best friend had unprotected sex, and got her period, and she was pregnant. Now, about feeling sick, you night have the flu. Your simptoms seem like the side effects I was having when I started birth control, which is strange. But, just try to get checked by a doctor, or planned parenthood, or an at home pregnancy test. I really hope everything goes well sweetie! If you have any more questions, feel free to ask me! :]
Oh, and, I agree with you. What's done is done. It kinda annoys me when people sit there and lecture, because the person knows what they did was stupid, and they were asking for advice, not a lecture.
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does anyone know how to make those blueish bracelets they are from a soda cap seal and they are used that when you beak them you have sex with someone my boyfriend wants me to wear them to spice up our sex life please help (link)
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That's interesting. At my school, it means you make out with the person lol. But, you cut out the middle, and you hold it inbetween your hands for a minute and warm it up [it helps it stretch better and not break] and then you stretch it. Lol have fun dear :D I hope I helped.
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So when I go down on my bf, some stuff comes out of his penis (not sperm) its like, before he gets off and its kind of salty.. but i know its not sperm because its clear..and theres just a little bit. He has never actually ejaculated in my mouth, so i dont know what cum tastes like. so my question is, What is it? and if you know what it is, Does it taste the same as sperm?, and if not, What does sperm taste like? (link)
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It's pre-cum. I learned in health that it does have a few sperm cells in it, but, I'm not really sure, because my health teacher didn't know what she was talking about half the time. My best friend told me it tastes pretty much the same. But, actual cum tastes more salty. I hope I helped :]
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umm well..my boyfriend ate me out..sorry this is kind of a weird ? but like is this weird cuz im only 14(female) and he fingered me like 2 weeks ago and a week after he did that i got my period and now this happened..i feel like something could be wrong with my vagina..any advice??
sorry kind of a stupid question haha.
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Wait. Are you asking if it's weird that you got your period a week after he fingered you?? :/ Sorry, I got a little confused. If that's what you're asking, then, it's pretty normal, depending on when you should get your period. You have nothing to worry about! :D [unless you have bad pains or anything.] I hope I helped! :]
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Alright....my boyfreind and i have been together for a while now and we have sex and whatever....ok my problem is that he has no problem like getting hard and staying hard before we start having sex but like once he puts on the condom its hard for him to stay hard....i don't know what to do and sometiems he just gets frustrated and we stop...i dont know what to do? (link)
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Hey! My boyfriend kinda had the same problem. With him, he got nervous, you know, because after the condoms on, it's like, oh god! it's happening! you know? But, Maybe try some more foreplay, and stuff. That's what helped us. If it doesn't, maybe there's a problem, and he might need to go to a doctor. I hope things work out!!! :] Good luck!!
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i'm 16 yrs old and sexually active. after being touched, my labia minora usually gets bigger, which makes the clitoris more sensitive to touch. i've been sick lately and yesterday i noticed it was larger even when not being touched, and it seems a little sore. this is still happening the next day, and i'm just wondering if anyone knows what's going on here. i don't want to get worried if it's nothing big. thank you in advance :) (link)
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Normally when you're horny, it will get bigger, and that's what happens to your clitoris. But, if it's appening when your not, and you're not being touched, you might want to see a doctor. I'm sure it's nothing that big, so don't worry. Stress is never good. I'm sure all they'll do is check, and if something's wrong, you might just have to take some pills. If you don't want your parents knowing, I'm sure PlannedParenthood will check you without telling them. I hope I've helped!
Good luck sweetie!
-xmcrgirl5x :]
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how do you break your hymen...like...can you break it by a vibrator..and your finger? (link)
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You can break it by doing many different sports, ect. Yes, you can break it from vibrators, and getting fingered. And of course, by having sex.
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16/female. in march im turning 17 and i havent had sex yet... all of my friends have done it already.. so i feel weird when they talk about it around me. some have boyfriends and some have just done it with radom guys at parties (which i dnt want to do).
i feel that im missing out and that im ready to do it for the first time but i dont have a boyfriend and i want my first time to be with someone i can trust and that i can remember it as being spacial.
is it weird that i havent done it yet and everyone else has and the fact i will be 17 soon.. my sister is 19 and she did it when she was 15 so i feel like i should of already.
thanx (link)
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Don't worry. It's completely normal. Don't do it with some random guy. You have a good point. Your first time should be something special that you can remember, and should be with only someone that you trust and care about. You're not missing out on anything. In my opinion, wating until you've found someone you really care about and trust, will make it all the more meaningful. You're doing the right thing.
I hope I've helped :]
Good Luck, and, when you find the right guy, all I have to say is, have fun! :]
--xmcrgirl5x
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what is the chance you could get pregnant if you have sex with a boy who is not wearing a condom but you are on birth control (link)
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The chances you can are pretty slim. Not a lot of people who are on birth control and don't use condoms get pregnant. My best friend's on the pill, and she never uses a condom, and she's always been fine. But, you never know.
-xmcrgirl5x
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I want to give my boyfriend a hickey, so how do I do it? Thank You in advance. (link)
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When you're kissing him, just start to kiss his jaw bone, then move down to his neck,[or where ever you want to give it] and pretty much make out with his neck [or various other part of his body]. You might have to suck kinda hard. You can bite him if you want to, but, try not to do it too hard. That might hurt him. Good Luck :]
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