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ok iv really like this guy for a while, and hes the first guy that iv actually reaaaally been interested in. wev kissed and stuff befor but wev never gone out. During the summer i kno he liked me because he was really protective and stuff.but now he wants to do like sexual stuff with me , and i kind of want to but im not sure if hes using me or not. Also i dont want to seem cheap, but its kind of hard because i do wanna do that stuff and i really liek him. usually i lose interest in guys pretty quickly but this ones got me crazy haha. so what should i do? how do i find out if hes using me? (link)
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ok..im 14 && lost my virginity at 13.. if your a virgin u should really keep it for a while... because you want to do it with the right guy... I didnt listen to that advice i hated hearing but now i feel the same way... itd prolle be better if u dont do sexual stuff if your not going out either...
~Shelly-boo~
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ok so me and my boyfriend have tried having sex once before but it hurt really bad and a few other things happened and it just didn't work out completely. my question is, are there any way i can make it hurt less?
he fingers me right before and says im wet/relaxed enough but then as soon as he tried to put his penis in he couldnt, even though i felt i was relaxed too. also, the few times he did get in it hurt really really bad, i get that it's supposed to but are there any ways to make it hurt less?
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If it was your first time then it probably hurt so bad because you "popped your cherry"... I know it hurts a LOT...I wanted to cry my first time...my second time it only hurt for a couple of minutes...My boyfriend fingered me right before sex too...it helped the first time... Like snickerzz11 said try the lubricant...it might help!I hope this helps or at least prepares you for the next time! (but im not sure if it will!)but good luck...~Michelle~
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