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Hey, I'm 16 and cute and give excellent advice. I rate pretty high and Have been through almost anything you can throw my way. Just ask it and I'll answer the best way I can and I will always tell you straight up how it is. If you don't believe then just ask. P.S. It doesn't hurt to have me as your favorite columnist- that way I can share my wisdom with you when you ask me directly instead of chancing that I'll come across it. :-)
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I fooled around with my boyfriend last night hehehe, it was great but yes but, today i am so horny i have no idea whats wrong with me, i was watching tv today and it was a music video and i got fucking horny off of that!! ive never even been horny really before and now im SO horny. What the hell is wrong with me? Is this normal?
To answer your question yes it's normal. If you mean you fooled around but didn't actually have sex then you probably are way more horny than you might usually be. And if you've never been horny then you should know that when you are it's cool to pleasure yourself if you aren't ready to have sex with your boyfriend yet. But don't think there's anything wrong with you. Maybe what happened the night beofore just wasn't exactly enough to satisfy you o you just wanted more. Once you really get to know what each feeling you have is then you will understand why you are feeling soo horny when you've never felt that way before.
Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half this month and we have talked about having sex and i feel like im ready and i think he does to but i'm just kind of worried that something might happen and people act like i dont think about wat could happen but i do and i feel so emotionaly ready to have sex i mean a lot of people who respond to this will say i shouldnt because im to young and i should wait because im 14 but i mean if i feel comfortable and ready for it then dont you think i can. i mean no one can really stop me from doing it but i mean i dont kno i just need advice on wat i should excpect i kno its gunna hurt but like other stuff... and like wat are the most durable condoms? please answer.... thanx
You should go for it. As long as you use protesction, and let him worry sbout what kind of condom is good for him. You just make sure you see the box before so you know it's okay with you. Some girls bleed on their first time so you should expect to bleed about right after the first time. Just make sure you're ready and you should also think about birth control, but that would mean telling your mother (i think). And you and him need to talk about what if you get unconfortable and wanna stop. It does happen, and you need to know that if you say I wanna stop that he'll stop. Good Luck!
this guy really likes me to put it simply.. hes really depressed. i dont wanna be the reason weather someone stays alive or dies. thats to much. he said im the only thing thats actually keeps him from doing stupid things im the only thing that means something good to him. He said theres only thing that keeps him moving and happy is me. i guess he isnt wantedat home. he wont answer my calls.. i left 2 messages saying call me.. he hasnt yet. he wont answer my calls.. at all he always does. Even if he is on the other line no matter what. He says the sound of my voice can bring a smile to his face.. so why isnt he picking up? Its really scary.. and i want to call for help. i have my yellow ribbon card if any of you know what that is. I could call the suicide line.. but do i have to give my identity away.. or say specifically who i am talking about?
If he isn't answerin your calls but you know he's still alive then don't worry about it. If he was really going to kill himself he would probably done it. But I think what he really needs is time away from you and even when he is okay he may not wanna be around you that much. I hope thi helps.
okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/
You need to be a good friend, which means being there for her and no matter what the esult is not ditching her to do this by herself. She may find out she's not pregnant after getting attcahed to the idea of having a baby and she'll need your shoulder, adn if she is pregnant then you need to be there to help her through having to tell her boyfriend (guys can have some good or bad reactions to this type of situation, especially at 14). If she is too scared to get the test then you should get it for her. You have nothing to fear because well you aren't pregnant and you won't feel like everyone is watching you, like she probably would.If neither of you wanna get the test then she could make a doctors appointment and the doc isn't required to tell her mother. And if she won't so that then she will just need to wait and see if she misses her period (after missing 3 though it's almost definite, especially if she goets sick and such). The best thing you could do thoug for her is get that test, the sooner she knows the better. Good Luck!
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When you are having intercourse, does it matter if the girl is on the bottom or the top? What positions are are best for the guy and the girl? Me and my girlfriend have decided (after going out a year) to have sex and I don't want to mess up or hurt her. I've heard sex hurts the girl. Will she bleed? Also, does sex hurt the guy? I sound stupid, but the doesn't mean I'm not ready. I love her and that's as ready as I can be. I just want to know how to give her my best. -MB-
Look, it doesn't really matter. As long as you both are comfortable and if you aren't sure ask her. You may sound like an idiot but if she isn't then you don't wanna keep doing the same thing and yes usually a girls first time will hurt, but some pain is normal and other pain is from a bad position not right for her or you. It's just about not rushing through it.If you wanna give her your best then take your time, and let her know that your nervous that way she doesn't feel alone. Good Luck!
okay at skool the other day i leaked and it was all over my chair. i coverd my pants with my jackett. i was wearing a extreamly large pad. it went through. am i bleeding to much
this is my 3rd period
Okay, this is normal to be heavy and no offense but throw out that big thick large pad. The newer ones that are ultra thin work better and are probably going to be more comfy anyway. When you are heavy like this you should have a pad made for heavy flows and they do come in ultra thin. And grab some tampons because it does help sometimes to have a tampon and a pad on at the same time that way when the tampon is full you take it out and it would leak right onto the pad. This trick has helped me for 2 years and never failed me. Good Luck!
i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me
Look I'm not an expert when it comes to herpes but I think you should go to the doctor. Your doctor has to keep this a secret from your parents unless it turns out to be herpes, because then you would need medication. And most likely, girls won't want to be with you if you do have herpes nad yea they deserve to know if you have it before they do anything that involves your penis.
i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help
I think you should let him know your fears, but if you aren't ready fro him to knwo it's you start out by playing a game. You start naming hypathetical situations like would you ever have sex with a girl that is hairy,ugly,etc (non-explaining you of course) and then you say what if they had hair just........(name the spots) and then you ask him if he'd have sex or make fun of a girl who(and explain your situation) and see how he takes it. The trick is to start off the game with a description of something that's really not you and that way he knows the things you are listing aren't anything to do with you and then when he is on a roel answering the questions you throw your situation in there and you will know exactly what he thinks. But after you ask about your situation you ask a few more questions because that way don't seem obvious. Hope it helps
I'm not really one to ask this kind of question..But there's this guy. He goes to another school, I just recently started talking to him over the phone and stuff. We have a lot of chemistry. We always have something to talk about. So I just called him, I haven't talked to him since last night, and he didnt answer his phone. Do you think I should call him again or just wait for him to call?
You should wait for him to call you back. This may sound mean but, you'll thank me later, calling him more then once in about 2 hours time makes you look desperate and in a way means that you have nothing else to do. He may not be at home or with his cell so if you leave a message the 1st time you call he'll call you back later or you call him the next night and play it off like you didn't remember that you had called him the night before.