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If you don't have sex at all, can you tell if your "Cherry" popped? or is it like, you never really know when it did. Again, if you HAVE NOT had sex. or is it like, it seems like a period? I'm just a little confused is all.
when your cherry pops all you notice is some bleeding.
i wouldnt say its like a period, because it isnt as much blood as you would get while on your period, and it definiatly doesnt last long at all.
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Well, the other day I was talking to my boyfriend and he asked me "how far I wanted to go". To be honost, I really don't know. I had planned to stay abstinent until marriage, but I know that as I get older, I might lose my current, or future, boyfriend if I don't want to do very much sexually. I mean, I don't know. I'm only 14 so I think i'm to young to be "sexually active", but it seems as if everyone's doing something like that.... I just don't know what to do...are guys going to pressure me to do this stuff when I get into highschool? I guess i'm just afraid of being the last person considered "prude". Thanks, any advice welcome.
i think being abstinent until marriage is like the biggest challange to overcome, because to be honest, you will feel pressured or tempted to have sex in high school and college. and for the people to actually stick it out until their wedding night, i have the up most respect for.
dont ever feel obligated into doing something just because it seems like everyone else but you is doing it.
and just a heads up, your not going to be the only person who enters high school that is a virgin, and i gaurentee you wont be the only one to leave that way.
theres a lot of talking that may be going around between people, but that whole 'everyone does it' is seriously so far from the truth. i promise you.
remember to respect yourself and what you believe in. when your ready, you will know. dont listen to any one who trys to tell you different, because their opinions dont matter when it comes to you and your personal life.
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I do not know where to start but to make the long story short i hate my self and my life I am 25 years old i am not capable of having any kind of relationship cause I am the person you want call when u r having bad times however I am never there when u r having good time. Moreover,I finished law faculty but hate it so never practiced.I have done my master degree on something else, event management, but hate it as well. Right now I do not know what I want to in my life. So I have start to think best thing to is commit suicide....do you know the easiest and quickest way to do it.
suicide is NEVER the answer. im sure you may hear that a lot, but its so true.
your only 25 years, and believe it or not, you still have so much more living to do. life works in mysterious ways sometimes you know? right now your getting this curve ball thrown at you but you cant let that get you down.
overcoming something is such a great feeling.
my advice to you is to look into a job that has your interest. you need to find something that you love doing everyday, because if your not even interested in your work, you will be misrerable going to it in the mornings.
as for the relationship issue, everyone has their downfalls when it comes to finding someone. im sure im not as expierenced as you when it comes to love and all that becuase im only 18. but i believe its so worth the wait to find someone who truley and deeply cares for you.
have you ever heaqrd the saying 'Love is the closest thing to Magic'? why wouldnt you want to live your life and expierence that for yourself? everyone deserves a wonderful feeling like that.
the people that you surround yourself around now may not be the right people for you. so branch out, and meet new people.
i hope you do reconsider your actions and realize that you are a special person who deserves a great career, a ton of close friends, and someone who loves you more than anything; vise versa.
hope i helped (:
I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me?
im really sorry about your loss. i could say i know what your going through and how you must be feeling, but that would be a lie. i personally have never been put in a situation like you are right now. but if i were, i would just pray each and every night. god works in mysterious ways and i believe that a little prayer can go a long way. this is the time to have friends near you, it might be good to talk to someone about what you are feeling. there is always someone there to listen. good luck, and i hope everything works out for you.
hi sorry if this is personal. you dont hav to answer if you dont want to
but what does sex feel lyke???
simply amazing to be honest. i dont know how else to describe it.
ok so im a guy and i was jus wondering if many girls like to get their anus fingered or not? haha i know its weird but i cant help but be curious
thannnkksss
its totally up to the girls thought about that. every one has thier different view. so when your messing around, if you dont want to go for it, you can talk dirty to her and just ask her that way. have fun!
ok sooo my bf and i were talking and i told him that i like to sleep in his sweatshirt instead of pajamas. and he knows i dont wear a bra when i sleep (too uncomfortable!!) so he was like without a bra and i was like yaa and he said thats cute and hot. soo i was wondering how sexy/hot do guys think it is if their girlfriend wears their hoodie without other clothes besides panties when they sleep? thanx :]
i definatly like wearing my guys clothes to bed.
its really comfy since its bigger than what i usually wear. all the guys that i know have something about seeing thier girlfriends in just thier shirt. i guess its just a fetish of thiers.
im kind of scared for sex ed because i think it will be embarassing especially learning about it with guys... and im really not looking forward to it. i think it will be akward. is this normal? and can you please share your experiences?
this is completely normal.
when i learned, they split up the girls in one room with a female teacher, and the boys went into a different room with a male teacher. so im sure that made it a lot more comfortable for us. your just going to be learning how your body works. its not as bad as you think it will be.
dont be scared!
Ok if someone has anal and oral sex but not vaginal sex, can they consider themselves virgins?
every one has thier own opinon on what they classify has a virgin or not.
personally, i think if its anything other than vaginal intercourse, then your still a virgin.
How do you know if you are ready for sex?
when your with someone you really care about and are comfortable around, then you just kind of know when your ready. it will come to you.
I dont know why...but im always "excited" i guess you could call it. No matter where or what im doing, i get random erections and its driving me nuts...anything i can do to stop these embarassing "Attacks"
its normal for all guys.
you could justbe going through the stage of your life that no matter what you think about, it gets you excited.
its just a phase.
so i guess you just roll with it
When girls give BJ, I heard they swallowed the cum. is it true?
you can either swallow or spit.
some girls dont like the taste of cum, so they spit.
but if you dont want the cum in your mouth at all, you can have him give you a heads up when he's about to cum, then finish it off with a handjob.
How do you know when you have an orgasm? Like how does it feel?
i dont really think there is an exact definition to describe an orgasm.
it can be different for every one.
but its kind of like feeling something that you cant control, that feels amazing.
once you reach climax, you will know.
ok so i get extremely turned on when i watch gay guys (or just 2 guys) makeout and stuff but im a straight female so i was wondering is this normal?? i know its hott for 2 girls to makeout to guys and when i see guys holding hands i think eww but when they makeout i think its so hott esp when they get into it. is this ok and/or normal? thanks so much! :]
its very normal.
i think its hott when i see two hott guys making out.
theres nothing wrong with that.
Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks.
well my first time was definatly not how i would have imagined it at all.
try to make your first time as special as it could be, bc you will remember it the most.
i was at a new years party with some guy i knew for a couple of weeks, and it just kind of happend.
i wasnt dating him or anything, so i regret that time more than anything.
it would be really cute if you guys had a romantic dinner first, and when your finally ready for the foreplay and all that, make sure the mood is perfet. dim the lights and have lots of candles all around the room.
cute music in the backround can set the mood too.
just do whatever you feel comfertable doing.
have funn!