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Okay,
I know this is easy but I get confused.
I normally take my bc pill at 1;00pm
but because we moved the time forward
should I take my pill at 2:00pm instead?
or should i just keep taking it at 1?
what is the best idea?
I am sexually active, I don't want to take
chances thats why I'm trying to figure this out..
hahaha this question blew my mind! I take my pill at 1:00 too and I've still been taking it at 1:00 even after time changes so I'm sure it's fine! I love this question though I never even thought about that!
Is it easier to get prego when you have sex and your on your period? Or is it the same?
It's definitely harder to get pregnant when you're on your period, but it's still possible.
How do I make my husband last longer in bed. I love him with all my heart but the sex is just not fun. I give head like he wants and he lasts like a minute after that I almost never get off its fustrating.
Have him masturbate like 30 minutes before and there's a good chance he's gonna last alot longer!
What are the chances of getting pregnant if a condom and birth control are both used properly while having sex? I'm not talking about perfect use, but typical use. I already know the chances are slim, but for those who know the typical use statistics, could you please give me an idea of what kind of chance I am taking?
Well if condoms are used correctly they're 98% effective. And birth control pills are 99% effective. So you're chances of getting pregnant are very, very, very slim. Another person that answered this question said 60% but you should NOT listen to that! In NO WAY is that correct! I've been having sex using birth control pills and no condoms for a year and I've never even had a scare! So if you use both, it's damn near impossible!
ok, im 18 and female, and about a week ago, me and my bofriend had sex, and it was my first time, not his, well, when i got home i went to the bathroom and it burnt a little and i was bleeding a lot. is it normal for a girl to bleed a lot when they first lose their virginity, it stopped after about 3 days, but we had sex again and i started bleeding a little again, is this normal. the last time i bled from it, wasnt so bad, but im just worrying that we did something wrong and thats why i was bleeding so bad. please help...thanks
Different girls bleed different amounts. I only bled a little but one of my friends bled every time she did it for the first few weeks! Don't worry, you're completely normal!
do you always bleed when you lose your virginity? can you feel your cherry with your fingers? can you pop it that way? or does it NEED to be intercorse?
The girl usually bleeds when she loses her virginity, but the cherry can also be popped in other ways like fingering, using a tampon, and even riding a bike! But I think losing virginity is the most common way to pop it!
I know this sounds stupid, but when people say they got "felt up" what exactly does that mean? Thank you.
Getting grabbed somewhere sexual like boobs, ass, ect. Above or below clothes.
how do u give a guy head and how long do u give him head
You can either do it until he gets off or however long you want to before you have sex. Just lick around the whole thing like it's ice cream and then take as much as whats comfortable into your mouth and bob up and down sliding your tongue against it! Watch your teeth! You can even have a hand on the bottom half of him and your mouth on the top half.
Okay so everything my boyfriend does to me just feels sooo good. And I wanna do the same right? But I don't really know what I'm doing. I've tried a handjob a few times but they were awkward and he tried to kind of show me how but it was wierd and a fail hahaha. Yeah so can anyone give me some pointers? Or just explain the whole thing... Please? thanks!
Grasp your hand around it and slide it in an up and down motion, don't grab too hard! You could also try giving him oral sex too! You don't have to hardcore deep thoat or anything, just lick around the whole thing like it's ice cream and then take as much as whats comfortable into your mouth and bob up and down sliding your tongue against it! Good luck girl!
me and my best friend have been best friends for about 7 years. For all of that time, whenever we went out together we would be asked if we do threesomes. We always laughed it off, we've never kissed and we're not bi but we're not opposed to kissing, not in a romantic way. I don't know how to describe it. Anyway she's been dating her boyfriend for almost a year and he's one of her best friends and before they were dating we all joked around about a threesome. Then I met my boyfriend and we've been dating for over a year now and he knows about my previous threesome offers and he obviously enjoyed the thought of it but would never ask for one.
To the point. Me and my best friend were talking about our boyfriends birthdays coming up and she just blurted out "we should just all have sex in the same bed." And we both looked at each other for a minute, waiting for a response and then we agreed on it and she told her boyfriend and he of course was down for it. I'm hesitant to ask/tell my bf about it because I'm not sure if she was 100% serious. We agreed that it wouldn't be a swapping partner type of threesome but we would stay with out partner with some mild girl on girl.
My question is, how do I bring this up with her again without it being awkward? It wouldn't be happening until late June maybe July but I'm the type of person who likes to plan. Also, I wouldn't even know how to start this, how to break the ice. Somehow I have no concern that it'll effect my relationship with any of the people involved, the guys might be weird afterward but me and my best friend have pretty much seen each other naked anyway. Are there any websites to help with this that aren't porn? lol thanks
Me and one of my friends have joked about doing this kind of thing before! I think it would be sexy! Just ask her nonchalantly if she'd still be down for you guys having a double sex session for the guys' birthdays and I'm pretty sure she's going to say yes! I think it would be a really good experience! You're young and hot, why not go for it?!
Ok, so I let my boyfriend finger me for the first time the other day, and it wasn't great at all.
Whenever I do it myself, it's awesome, but I just can't...you know....'get there' when he does it.
Any ideas on how I can help him, or whatever, without insulting him?
Thanks
It's a good thing you can get off yourself, because now you can teach your boyfriend! (without him knowing, of course) When he's fingering you, you can guide his finger to the right spot and once he's doing the right thing, be sure to make some noises of appreciation so he knows he's doing the right thing. You could also masturbate in front of him (he would think you're the sexiest girl ever) and by watching, he could see what you like.
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so my boyfriend and i have had sex about 10 times or so and I have not orgasmed yet. He is my first. I have never orgasmed with him before either when he has fingered me or massaged my clitoris. In fact no guy has ever made me climax. The only time I can orgasm is when I am by myself watching porn...and I do this by stimulating my clit while watching. I love my boyfriend so much and he would love it if I could finish with him, and I would too!!!
Please help. any advice with positioning? anything? AHHH HELP. lol
Ask him to go down on you, that usually does the trick! Or maybe he's not fingering you the right way. Since you're able to get off using your fingers, show him exactly what you do to yourself. Guide his fingers to where they're supposed to be and make some noise when he's in the right spot so he knows where to stay!
I recently had sex for the first time with my boyfriend who I like a whole hell of a lot. I used to want to be with him all of the time and think of him all of the time. After we had sex, the only thing I think about IS him, but it's thoughts of whether or not I should've done it. I feel like I'm less attracted to him, but I don't want to be. Is this just a phase? Are these the thoughts that might usually follow after having sex? I'm worried that my feelings are disappearing and I don't want them to. I also have thoughts that I probably shouldn't have done it, just because I feel less innocent than I have before, but I don't really regret it. What's wrong with me?
You just feel guilty, which is a totally normal feeling to have after you lose your virginity, and you could be pushing your boyfriend away because he reminds you of this guilt. Spend some more time together before you decide to have sex again, and the guilt will subside.