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okay so i did the thing with my boyfriend on sunday...with no protection....we're both fine and everything and he pulled out before anything came out but ive been reading things on the "pre" stuff if you know what that is and it is possible that you could get pregnant that way...i read that nothing really happens till after the first 5 days and today, wednesday, the third day, i feel fine i dont think anything happened....do you think i should take a pregnancy test just incase?

yes take a pregnancy test because you will know earlier and you will have more choices layed out for you if you are pregnant.

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hey a couple of weeks ago i posted a post called mistake and now i have advanced on it.

right i went to a beach party wednesday night and everyone was either drunk or high including me. my friend jack was looking after me and he is friends with the guy i had sex with. so lets call him jim. jim came up and was like o can we be friends please and i said yer but you were really mean and i cried when you dumped me and all that. he then said i am so sorry. then i was lying down on the grass and him and jack were lying either side of me so i didnt roll down the hill and he then kisses my forehead and tells jack to but jack didnt then he kissed my nose and then just kissed me on the lips and i kissed him back because i was drunk we ended up kissing quite a bit more but aparantly after i left he kissed another girl. i dont really mind about him kissing another girl cos we arnt together anymore but i want to know if we can still be friends. the only thing is he has blocked me and wont text back. please can i have some advice how to get us to be friends again?

thankyou so much xxx

you say you were drunk but if you were so drunk how can you remember what happened and what you did or what he did. i dont understand that. you need to provide a link so people can relate to your last question.

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i am from india.i have been masterbating for a long time im 22yrs 5feet 5inches high 64kilos.what my problem is that i can hav an orgasm as many times i want in a day by rubbing myself on a pillow in the sitting position.but during sex thats not possible.i just dont come during sex.after my partner finishes then i sit on a pillow and come.so please tell me what i should do about this and is it possible for me to come during sex.i feel depressed sometimes because of this.

your from India you ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO HAVE SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED. well anyways if you are not cumming when you are having sex with your partner then he doesnt know how to please you. if he doesnt pay with your clit you should do it yourself because when your doing it with a pillow you know how to control the pillow and that is why you cum. well if he doesnt know how to please you get a new partner, but IF YOUR FROM INDIA THEN YOUR NOT SUPPOSE TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IM TELLING YOUR PARENTS!!!!!!

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If you have sex while on your period can you still get pregnant? and if so what is the likely hood? Or if you use a condom?

i took a sex education class and yes you do get pregnant while on your period if you have sex. you could ask your doctor if you do not beleive me. i can also give you my teachers email address.

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my best friend has bein with her boyfriend for 5 months rite they have had sex about 17 times...
He doesnt believe in using a condom,and they havent once. 4 times shes put me under pressure saying shes pregnet and i have bein with her through it no matter what. She lost the baby the last time and the last 3 times was jus a miss hab. But now you see its happeing again she she hasnt come on here periods 4 2 months and can feel movement in her womb what shall i do?? Shes only 14 and her mom will kill her but i think she wants to keep it Please help me!!

sorry to say this but your friend is stupid. if her boyfriend doesnt beleive in using a condom why doesnt she just go on birth control pills. tell her to take a pregnancy test and if its negative tell her to get on birth control pills!!!!! Damn she is only 14 that is so crazy. i think your sticking next to her side because your her friend but you need to tell her to be careful and to use protection!!!!

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I have had unprotected sex a lot and my boyfreind had accidentaly ejaculated inside me before quite a few times and while im on my period he always does because i've never gotten pregnant.. does this mean that i'll never get pregnant? is something wrong with me?

please help

hey i took a sex education class before and my teacher was telling me people think if they have unprotected sex while on their period they will not get pregnant that is not true you will get pregnant if you have unprotected sex while on your period. i guess you have just been getting lucky in the past. but that doesnt mean you will never get pregnant. dont worry about it everything will be ok

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hi i'm 15 and i have a boyfriend my period is two days late but weve been having alot of sex a week but everytime he cums he takes it out and then i check the condumn and it isnt broken is my period cycle changing? i'm really worried but im sure im not preganant because we always had protection and never broke and we never did anything that could cause it so please write back ASAP!!!!!!

your period could be late if your eating diet has changed or if you been under alot of stress. if you been exercising that could case it to be late also. just dont worry about it if you still want to know take a pregnancy test.

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i dont want to tell my doctor im sexualy active but i want birth control. i think im going to tell him my period has been going on for 15 days for the last times i had it and that i normally only get it for 5 days. or if i DO tell him i am sexualy active will he tell my mom or is it between me and him?

you can go to planned parenthood because they will not tell your parents anything and you can get birth control from them it is usually free or give them a donation. but i recommened you go to planned parenthood because the doctor might tell your mom if he knows your mom pretty well.

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