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Hi I'm 15/f,
A few days ago I shaved my vagina, the pubic hair and now it's extremely itchy what can i do????
Thanks.

well i found that gold bond helped

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F/13.
im depressed. the guy i like doesn't like me the same way. my step-dad has hit and bruised me about 5 or 6 times in the past 4 months. my mom is dying of a disease. everyone i care about is starting to hate me, because they're getting to know the real me. and it sucks, because right now i need people the most.
i cry myself to sleep, and today [[march 30]] i started cutting again. after not cutting for 2 1/2 months. my mom doesn't know i started cutting again. my therapist might put me on anti-depressants. i'm prolly bi-polar and have ADHD. the only people i have left are the people that can't help me through it. [[except a few people]] and i don't know what to do. i can't help this depression, and i want it to stop. but i can't. my best friend [[that's a girl]] is prolly the girl that everyone thinks im going out with. and my best guy friend is the guy i love, and wanna go out with. im going through the normal shit. times 5 billion. i barely get any sleep. and when i do i have nightmares. about what im gonna turn into. and it sucks because im turning into the person that i hate. i hate my step-dad's part of the family with a passion, but i have to deal with them. i need to talk to my real dad. but i can't. im scared of what he's gonna think. i don't care what people think of me, but im terrifyed of what they think, i think im ugly, i hate the way i am, and how i look. the only reason i haven't commited suicide is because of one person. but i think i'm loosing them. please. help me get over my depression, help me. talk to me, keep me alive. keep me going, please. i wanna hang on. but it's hard when nobody cares. please.
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i just need someone to talk to, someone to keep me going.
please.
i wanna hold on.

ok well i would love to help you and well heres my email and thats how i can talk its the best way and we will figure out times and what not

stroud3_2012@yahoo.com

stroud3_2012@hotmail.com

ill keep you in my prayers and remember God is always there


(and i do in fact know how u feel with alot of this i promise)

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this is so embaressing but after i masturbate, i have to pee really bad, is that a bad thing?

no not at all its normal and it shouldnt be emarassing at all so yea

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15/f

There were many times when I felt like killing myself because I'd hate my life and I'd get into deep depression, like I'd cry myself to sleep...I wanna stop feeling that way, but I don't know how! Well, somedays I'll feel all great, but than other days I'll feel really depressed...I'm just hoping that one day it doesn't go too far so that I'll actually kill myself! What can I do to prevent myself from suicide???

so i promise you are not alone. because this is the same thing that is going on with me. i have bad days and good days and uwill to. i got help from a pro counsler and all. she wants me to go on meds and it was hard for me to say yes and most doctors wont let me so it has taken a while and i havent gotten it yet. but never get be alone or far a away from a phone, mad, and drink water i know it souds odd but it helped me and all. but a good vitamin is b12 and take it with a multivitaim will help temperarly but the meds helped my sisters and my parents so i could help you too. but you do need to tell your parents so you get help and so they can make sure you dont hurt your self. yes i know it will be hard to tell them but you need to. you also need to talk to someone. when you feel bad and all you can call the nineline 999-9999 and they help. you can also talk to a friend. if you need to you can get a hold of me. my email is stroud3_2012@yahoo.com and the same with hotmail.

I hope i helped. goood luck

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15 in 9 days/f
well when me and my boyfriend make out.. its not that i dont really like it.. i mean i try to.. and i tell him i do.. but honestly its not like amazing. i know that im the first girl hes made out with. and like his kisses are a little too wet for me.. and he goes a little too fast and too fast into the kiss. like i want to kiss a little first before he actually puts his tounge in my mouth.. but he just like puts it in right away and keeps it in there like the whole time and like i cant even put mine in his mouth because his is in mine the whole time. like its apparent that he doesnt really know what hes doing. but i love him and weve been going out for like 9 months and hes great with everything else but i just dont know what to do about this. like i dont wanna tell him.. but like i dont wanna not enjoy it and have to lie too! Is there like a way i can like lead the kiss so i can have it how i want it?? HELP!

ok well I hate it when that happens but just sit down and talk to him tell him that thats not "the right way" he'll be ok with it they always are.

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I am getting obssesed with the idea of commiting suicide. I am not a teenage girl by the way, I am a 40 year old bysiness man. I take pills so that I can sleep at night but i just wont help but anyways I dont want to bitch about my life. I just dont want to think about killing myself anymore.it is always there, the thought. Crazy thoughts, how to do it, will it hurt, make a big fuss and....that is all.
I think also that if I start doing heavy drugs things will get better.

hey ive been there and if you realy dont wanna commit suicide then the vitaims B12 and B6 work great. Thats what I did. The sleeping pills could also be the problemtheyare known to be the main cause of depression so if you try to get a different sleeping pill it may also work.

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OKay well im 14/f... lemme give you some backround... my dad has cancer and he gets chemo every other week.... its realli stressful... i have a nice house and a loveing family... but for a while now i have been a cutter... yes i know it pathetic... but i havent done it to often anymore... ive been thinking of suicide alot.like how i would do it... is this normal?? ive gotten to the point in my life were im not afriad to do it anymore.. like before i would have never gone through with it cause i was to scared.. i dont wanna get profeccional help.. i cant let my family know whats going on.. im just realli confused and i dont know what to do anymore..please help

ok frist your dad has it adand also your mom dose to. but i understand maybe just talk to someone anyone. it dont have to be a big counseler but a freind and teacher that will help and they all will. and your normal houney tust me. Now i can anwser your how would i do it question but i wont it wont help. look into yourself and if you still wanna commit suicide then get backto me I work over time. on this kind of thing.


LOL and Be Careful
Allie

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I think I have depression, and I want to see a counsellor. I walked passed the room today but i couldn't go in, i just felt like i would be wasting their time and that I don't really need any counselling.

I have been feeling like thi for about 3 years, i used to self harm about 2 years ago but i got that under control - i still want to when i get wound up.

I often think about what it would be like when I'm dead, I wonder who would miss me, who wouldn't miss me.
A few months ago, I was going to commit suicide, i started to write a letter to my mum, but I couldn't finish it, I jut burst into tears.

I need someone to talk to. But I can't bring myself to walk into that room.
How can I overcome this?? Why can't i bring myself to walk into the room?

Please help me. x

tell a friend then that friend could help you go in to the room. Talking to a councler can help. I know this because I have been though it. If friends wont help talk to a teacher that you trust. When you get sad or feel like commiting suicide what i did was tell myself what i have instore for me in the future. So that helped me. Slowly try to talk to the counsler. Just do what you have been untill you get better. Talking to a doctor can help also.

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I'm a 13 year old girl. Why do I want sex. can you help?????

13? Ok it just hormons. Perpresser is also a part of it. Don't give in to it. It will do more harm than good. But when you do decide to then use condoms and use birth control.
~~~~~~~~~~~*** Hope I Helped ***~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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im really depressed and i take medication but still suicidal and i cut
i know cutting is bad and can kill you but i really want to stop
ive asked other people who have cutted but their advise wasnt so great
i just want to ask how can i stop??

keep all knives out of your way tell yourself that you want to be here on earth

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ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well!

Be careful have him buy the condoms it might be hard but talk to ur mom

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