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Hey, My name is kendra. I go through a lot in my life and I love to give good advice to people who have experienced what i have been through. Im not the type of girl to tell you what to do, that's not my job. I just give advice and what you want to do wit it..is ur decision. I'll do my besT to understand every problem or question that is being asked. I take any questions and I dont judge. So drop some letters on my page and i will definitly give the advice thats besTT for ya..smoochiez..

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I plan on being a virgin until I'm married. I am currently a fifteen year old female. I've been confused lately about whether or not I should be dating and in relationships. Can I be in relationships and still manage to stay true to the no sex thing?
[By no sex, it includes everything, not just intercourse. No oral, fingering, touching someone below the waist, nudity, cybersex, phone sex, etc.
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And no, these aren't rules set by my parents or anybody else. My parents have set no boundaries on me or even talked about it. This is something I decided on my own.

hey...my name is kendra..i am 16 and i also made the decision to not have sex until i am married at 15. For now im still sticking to my decision and its not for any religous reason. I have been in a few relationships and i made sure i kept my promise to myself not to have sex with any of the guys i've been with, no matter how cute they look. yess i am pressured everyday to have sex by the people who surround me, my peers, guys, tv..the media...but i know what i want and you know what you want..dont let anyone else control what you want.

Being in relationships allow you to see what you like and what you dont like in a guy. Its normal that a guy might pressure you to have sex but when you're with a guy make sure that your mind controls your body and not the other way around.

Have fun dating guys..althouhg you might find that some guys only want to have sex. if thats the case dont feel like you're holding back anything just move on....
hope i helped

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i started the pill (othro tricyclen lo) and ever since i started (this is my 2nd pack) i've been really dry down there. is this normal? and what can i do to fix it?

I've resaerched the syptoms which you probably should have.

sudden numbness or weakness, especially on one side of the body;

sudden headache, confusion, pain behind the eyes, problems with vision, speech, or balance;

chest pain or heavy feeling, pain spreading to the arm or shoulder, nausea, sweating, general ill feeling;

a change in the pattern or severity of migraine headaches;

nausea, stomach pain, low fever, loss of appetite, dark urine, clay-colored stools, jaundice (yellowing of the skin or eyes);

swelling in your hands, ankles, or feet; or

symptoms of depression (sleep problems, weakness, mood changes).

Continue using the medication and talk to your doctor if you have any of these less serious side effects:

mild nausea, vomiting, bloating, stomach cramps;

breast pain, tenderness, or swelling;

freckles or darkening of facial skin;

increased hair growth, loss of scalp hair;

changes in weight or appetite;

problems with contact lenses;

vaginal itching or discharge;

changes in your menstrual periods; or

headache, nervousness, dizziness, tired feeling.

There are also other syptoms not listed so you should definitly talk to your doctor


this is a website that rates the pill with people talking about it also: http://www.drugratingz.com/ShowRatings.jsp?tcvid=685

Hope i helped:)

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Is masturbating bad for you when you have your period?

No it isnt bad even though im sure if feels a little weird.. Hope i Helped

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i am saving my self for marrige and my bf doesnt want to wait until we get married. he sometimes puts me agasnt a wall or kisses me and doesnt let go. this things exite me alot and im afraid they might lead to me giving in.
Is this normal for me to get exited sexually at such things?

Yes it is very normal..I'm waiting til marraige also. So many girls are loosing it so early that i think it's better to be different...Your boyfriend is probably trying to excite you and get you horny to change your mind about your decision to wait to have sex til you're married..He sure does want you to give in but he should respect that you dont want to have sex yet. But it's nothing wrong with him wanting to make your body feel good and your pussy wet every now and then without have sexual intercourse. And also it can be tempting to resist having sexual intercourse but remember there is always an Escape for any Temptation...Anything you do, think of all the consequences and how you'd feel afterwards, before you do anything..hope i helped

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How long do you typically makeout for?
Because my bestfriend told me whenever she sees me makeout it seems like it's really really short.
Thanks :]

well me and my boyfriend make out for sometimes 20 or 30 minutes and sometimes a hour when we're really horny..but making out should just be between you and that guy/girl so it doenst matter what your frineds say. typically making out is like 5-10 minutes..hope i helped:)

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so ive been on my period for about..3 days now *first time* and it is getting heavier each day, or it seems to be. and i was wondering if that was normal and if there is anything else i need to know. thnks in advance :]

yes it is very normal for it to be light the first time and then eventually get heavier..you'll later start to experience cramps as the months go by which really suck..it is also normal for your next period to come late so dont be worried and you stay on your period usually for 5-7 days. also maybe you should wear pantiliners a couple of days after the end of your cycle and a couple of days before you began your cycle incase of any discharge. and if you didnt know you can also record your cycles on a calender to determine when will you begin your next cycle for example cycle starts: june,5 through june,11 then the next is august,4 through august10... from june 11th to august4th there is about 29 days between so in about 29 more days after august 10th you will start another cycle...sorry if you didnt get that.. hope i helped oo and your period is mostly heavy in the fall

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My friend has always dated someone younger than herself. And she is again. And liking it. And she is a freshman in highschool and is dating this 8th grader. And just today she told me that she might be pregnant. But shes really not sure: they did it once two weeks ago and they were protected and all, but the numbers say that condoms dont work all the time and she hasn't gotten her peroid.
Could having sex just mess up the time it comes? Or is it more likely shes pregnant?
Thanks.

condoms work about 90% of protecting you from geting pregnant..she should defently take a pregnancy test because the 10% chance of the condom breaking could have occured. and the reason she hasnt gotten her peirod is probly cuz she is just late which is very normal for freshmen sophmores..or it could mean she is pregnant so be sure that she takes a pregnancy test..hope i helped

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I was wondering if there was any possible way to get pregnant if sperm gets on your clothes or in your underwear, but not directly inside of you? Example if someone is fingering you and you both get really into it. Thanks.

no there is no possible way for you to get pregnant if the sperm is on your under wear or clothing because once the sperm hits the air it is no loger capable of getting you pregnant. if its not directley inside you then you wont get pregnant...hope i helped

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Yesarday my ex bf went to a basketball game at my school.
And everyone was was saying,that i was talking shit about him.
The preps and stuff.
But i dont talk to them!
So now he wont talk to me at all,and he got a new gf.
I started to cry,because i never did that and i never would.
I like him to much.
So yesarday i told his friend,his friend likes me.
And i was kinda starting to like him.
And then last night,he started to hold me and touch me.
And now he wants to screw me.
But now,im like confused.
Whats wrong with me?
help

nothing is wrong with you...but maybe you should talk to your ex and explain to him that you wasn't talking shit about him and get that cleared up. if he acts weird or doenst believe you then forget about him...hes moved on so its no reason for you not to so yea i think you should go out with his friend..but i can see how you're confused because if hes ur ex "friend" then y would he want to be all over you...there are many answers to that it could b that he really likes you or that he just wants to fuck you. maybe you should ask him..but i dont think you should let him fuck unless u get down like that....hope i helped

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is my penis small its like 5 1/2 inches i need answers

wow wut a question...umm well it depends on how old you are.. the average size of a penis is 4 to 5 inches long..i dont really wanna judge you on your penis because i've never seen it. but you should know that during sex it is a myth that "size matters" even though we hear it all the time..it really matters on just how you work it...but if you take less pressure in worrying how long your penis is then hopefully it will grow to the a size you'll really really appreciate...but try to appreciate it for what size it is now..hope i helped

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hello,im a 17 year old female. my boyfriend and i has had sex in january but i cant remeber what date but what i do no is that i ended my period on jan 29,2006 and we didnt have sex while on my period. so i ended on jan 29, and i didnt have my period in feb at all and know its march 19. i talked to my school nurse and she said it was sooo normal that i have missed it and feb is a short month anyway. im jus worried i no im not pregnet i took a home preg. test and it said that i wasn't. i have totally stressed my self out about being preg the whole month of feb. and i have had breas soreness for about 1 month know, my school nusrse said that common also she said it could be from ouvlation, stress ,even growth ect but i jus want to have my period i usualy hate to have it but im now die to have it,im jus so worried and i just want my period back i havent had any symptons of pregnacy at all i feel regular so if you could please give me some advice and answers why i havent had my period it seems so long i ended on jan 29 and it MARCH!!! does'nt it seem to long or maybe im stressein my self to much. i just had my school exams in jan and i didnt pass any of them, i was upset and my parents are going through a divorce and 4 days out of the week the argue or something. so i really need answers on why my period hasn't came im sooo despreat( if i spelled it right des pirt) for it to come, i totally want my perios i dont care if it came through a white pair of pants i was wearing at home and everyone seen!!!

yes its stress if you can relax and get over the fact that you have'nt gotten your period yet then you'll eventually get it. the pregnacy test said you are not pregnant so you already know you're not..you have other things in your life that you are worrying to much about..calm down and get over it...things will soon get back to normal..hope i helped

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