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my names kayla, i am 15, i`m turning 16 this week, on the 22nd. i am pretty young, but i`ve been through a lot more than most girls my age have so i find it easy to give advice. i do my best to answer every question. and if i offend you, or give you an answer you aren't happy with, feel free to be totally straight forward & give me some feedback. :) hope i can help you!-kayla
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i am thinking about letting my boyfriend finger me,but i have really long large in lips on my "lower area" will he get freaked out? or should i do something about it, or not let him finger me, do guys think that is weird ?
guys don`t really pay attention to things like that. every girl looks different down there. guys look different too. so just don`t worry it. if he's fingering you he probably won`t be staring at it anyways. just let him finger you as long as you feel like your ready sweetie!
-kayla
ok well this really isnt about sex but i didnt know what it was really classified as..
anyway well on Valentines day a guy and i were talking and walking around town in the dark. Well we stopped in the park and were sitting on the stage, he asked me if i'd flash him. I told him no a million times but then he was like ok well i will kiss you if you do it. Well it was like my first kiss and i really wanted it soo well i agreed, We kissed and after i was thinking about it and said i dont know if i can do this soo he stuck his hand down my shirt and pretty much took my boob out and looked at it ((awkward (SP?)moment))then he put it back and then we got up and well we were just like glaring at each other in the eyes and well he kinda came at me real fast and kissed madeout with me.
He told his best friend about it and well now im scared the whole school will find out and i will be called a slut..
do you think that makes me a slut or a whore or anything like that.
I regret it soo much!
he also told me that he cared about me and was thinkging about going out with me..and would tell me the next day but he didnt and now he wants me to do even more and i really dont wanna do it
what should i do.?
and does what i did make me a slut?
he sounds like a real asshole. excuse my language. i can tell right off the bat that he's the type of guy that only wants one thing. and i`m pretty sure you know what that is. he just wants to get in your pants. if he cared about you, he wouldn't have pressured you to flash him. don't ever let a guy get the best of you. if you don`t want to do something, be assertive about it. he has no right to make you do anything you don`t want to do. you have to make that clear to him.
-kayla
I have a friend and it is more of a relationship. We have had sex and all kinds of stuff like that. But when we are in bed he says that i am great and all kinds of stuff like that and that i am the best kisser out of everyone he has kissed. And we make bets and a couple of times i had to give him head. And he says that i am amazing and stuff like that. And then he asked me out and i am just wondering if he actually likes me or if he just wants to get some.. please help.
he must like you. if he didnt he wouldnt have asked you out because obviously you were doing things with him before when you were't going out
The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.
What does everyone think of this plan?
-Jordan
dont do that just to get a boy to like you. your relationship will only be physical & he'll probably only be interested in that.
I am scared out of my mind. 16/f
On friday I gave up my virginity to my boyfriend. We used a condom and everything went well. But now, probably because it was my first time, i'm getting paranoid...
I have an irregular period cycle, sometimes going 3 months in a row with no period. I bled a little on friday and had some abdominal cramps on saturday. A friend told me that since it was my first time, it would probably make my period come. But it hasn't yet. I'm getting mild stomach cramps, but no blood. I know it's only tuesday, but I'm scared.
How likely is it that I'm preggers?
How soon can I take a take-home test and make sure it's accurate?? I'm so frightened I may be pg I don't know what to do...
your friend doesn't know what she's talking about, having sex delays your period a little bit more than usual. if you used a condom it's very unlikely that you are pregnant. if you really think that you are, maybe you should take the test to calm yourself down a bit. but i really don't think that theres much to worry about here.
ok so im going to have sex with my boyfriend. we tried last Saturday but it hurt bad and well, it just didnt fully happen (like everything is still in tact). im just wondering when i do do it, and if i bleed alot, how do i take care of that? i mean, i dont want to do it on my bed if im bleeding 'cause everyone knows thats a pain to wash out and i dont want to do it on the floor like we were doing so what do i do after? does it stop bleeding after a while? how long after? help people, asap
you can do it on your bed hun. just put a towel underneath you & wash it right when your done. i didn't bleed my first time.. but i can't imagine that it would be a lot. but if you do bleed just wear a tampon or pad until it stops.
I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 4 monthes now. I think I am ready to have sex with him, the problem is, I am very self-concious of my body. I hate being naked, and I never am with him. I won't even take off my top. Even though I think i am considered "thin" (I am critical of myself, especially the flab on my stomach) and I am 5'9, I am just so self-concious and I don't think I will ever be comfortable being naked around him. Is there a way to get more comfortable with myself, naked?
you need to stop thinking negatively. take a minute by yourself .. to look in the mirror & pick out the positives about your body. you've sort of already started with that by pointing out that your thin.
Ok well i've had my period for about 5 or 6 months now. It's always been irregular. Is it normal to skip a month after youve had it for 6 months? Im still a virgin too so i can't be pregnant.
yeah it's completely normal to skip months if you've had your period for less than a year. mine didn't become regular until i had it for about a year too.
Alright well my bf and I had dry sex and I had only my underwear on and he only had his boxers on. He didn't ejaculate on me, then after that he jacked off and he lost a lot of sperm, then later on we had dry sex again except everything on me was off and he only had his boxers on. Then I wan't to stop and he said he didn't ejaculate at all on me or anything and his dick wasn't even inside of me. But he got a little cum where his dick was and I was really wet. Do you think that was my cum? Do you think there is any way possible I could be pregnant?
A lot of people that I told had told me it's really doubtful..
it could have been your cum & it could have been his. guys pre-cum during sexual activity.. thats when they let out a little bit of cum every once and a while but they don't actually full on ejaculate. so a little bit of his cum might have been on his boxers as well as yours. it is very unlikely that you could be pregnant since he didnt actually put it in you. you don't have anything to worry about.
Well i'm 15/f and me & my boyfriend have been talking about sexual stuff. Well I like him a lot, and i'm willing to do a lot of things, he wants to finger me. And I said i'd think about it.
But I need to know, Does it hurt, what does it feel like, is there anything bad that can come out of this situation, how long does it last.
Please help!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks in advance!
everyone's body is different, so theres no telling wether or not it will hurt for you. if you havn't had anything (tampons) in you before, it might hurt a bit. my personal experience was fine, it didn't hurt at all, i actually really liked it. but like i said everyone is different. nothing bad can come out of this situation. if he does finger you, he'll probably do it for as long as he feels like doing it, or until you tell him to stop.