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ook so i had already asked this question about having anal sex the other day and im red and irritated i didnt know what was wrong so i went to the doctors today apparently now i have herpes.. i was talking to this guy and im guessing it was from him? Because we had anal sex and the herpes are near my anus.. And i havent had sex with anyone else while i was talking to him. I told my bestfriend she came to the doctors with me. Her boyfriend lives with this guy was talking to.. So she told her boyfriend to warn him from sitting on any toilets etc in the house. So he ended up telling him now this guy is going to the doctors tommorrow. IM embarrassed and i have no idea what herpes even is it never goes away? NOw i can never have sex with someone again? Without a condom? How do i have sex when im married and want to have kids my husband will get the herpes as well? Im hysterical someone please help me. THis guy is also saying he doesnt have it so what if he goes to the doctors and doesnt have it hell make fun of me and tell everyone. Is it possible he doesnt have it? (link)
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I am so sorry you poor thing and ohhh yeah if that's the only guy you have been with for awhile he definitley gave it to you. Don't be suprised if he tries to deny it because unfortunatley guys are asses and don't want to admit shit. If I were you I would go ape shit on the guy don't be so nice to him. If you had no symptoms and were clean prior to having sex with this guy then he had to have given it to you. Anal sex makes people more prone to getting STD than vaginal intercourse because there is already so much bacteria in your butt and it serves as the perfect culprit for infection. Herpes can be in dormant stages so there is always the possibility that your herpes can go dormant but it often comes back in active and dormant stages. And as far as having sex I am not going to lie you can't have sex with anybody anymore you need to be very cautious and always use a condom. You should tell guys you have the disease too before you get intimate with
anybody but don't be suprised if the guys might turn you down. I have a friend with herpes and she has found somebody who loves her and is accepting of her herpes. Only the guys who are truly interested in you will not care but the assholes who just want sex probably won't even go there. I'm truly sorry sweetie you don't deserve this and screw that guy I bet you he gave it to you. Good luck and take care
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so my period is irregular. i get it about every couple of months, like 4. my doctor said that was normal for me. well my boyfriend and i had sex with out a condom for the first time but i said i didnt wanna do it long, and we did a few times then i didnt wanna take any chances. he didnt either. We always are protected too. i know u can get STD's and all that from it, but im NOT on birth control either. so how will i know if im pregnant? im not saying i am, its just is there anything i need to know about it? like signs or whatever? and i cant ask my mom for birth control because she doesnt wanna put me on it at 16 and she doesnt know im sexually active. sorry this is so long, i tried to be as descriptive as possible so it could be understood. thank you. (link)
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well, the first thing you need to take into consideration is if he came in you or not. If he didn't then i really don't think you have anything to worry about. However if he did, then i suggest plan B but if its been over a day then wait it out like three weeks and take a pregnancy test or go to a clinic and take a urine test. Its frustrating when your period is irregular but i really think that birth control is a good option for you because it will regulate your period and protect you from getting pregnant. I was on the pill at sixteen and its really not that uncommon. Just tell your mom the truth and so what if she gets angry at you for being sexually active its better to be safe than sorry. Just tell your mom you want the pill strictly to regulate your periods and that is it. Just tell your mom the truth, yea she will be disappointed but I'm sure she would be more upset if you ended up getting pregnant...
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why do guys like girl on girl so much like i kinda get it. but from a guys point of view an explanation would be great. lol. thanx. (link)
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i am a girl but from a scientific fact guys visual parts in their brain are a lot more active when they are turned on thats why they love naked women and the thought of two of them is just better...but like the person below me said more girly looking girls and not necessarily lesbians
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when your going "down there" to finger a girl. Is the clit the place to focus alot of your time? Like will that gaurantee an orgasm? Thanks (link)
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yes the clit is definaltley one of the best parts to rub/stimulate and if you can stimulate the clit and the g-spot(inside the vagina) with your hands at the same time your girl will absolutley love you!
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well i always wanted to eat a girl out why i really dont know but i was wondering do girls really enjoy it when guys eat them out? (link)
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i don't think that its a matter of thinking its disgusting i think some girls are self conscious/insecure about having your face looking strait at their vagina ....i think unless you don't have a clitoris all girls love being eaten out if you know how to do it right!
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what is the most pleasurable positions for a woman? (link)
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totally depends on the chicks personal preference my favorite is anything that has a lot of pressure or stimulates the g-spot better like doggy-style or even on top so the girl can control the speed and pressure....
http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/
i like this website it shows little dummies doing tons of positions and it gives a description of them too! knock yourself out!
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theres this girl and i dont like her like a girl friend or anything but every time were together all we do is sexual things... so you think its bad to do this we have never screwed and wont but we just play around do you think i should stop or do you even think it matters? (link)
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Its really important you make sure the girl feels the same way because she might think you are leading her on and she might actually like you and maybe expect you to start a relationship or something and you could really hurt her feeling s! Girls get attached easily beware!
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when i have sex we usally do it 2 or 3 times in a row. in most cases the first time i do it, i dont last long, however on the 2nd and 3rd time i can last for like 45 min 30 min. i think the fact that i have an orgasm before helps me last longer. but how can i last longer that first time. also does masturbation effect your time at all? (link)
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aww younger boys are always fast but just keep practicing with your girl and soon girls will love it if you can hold a erection for a long period of time because then its more fun for them! haha just keep doing what your doing! Also masturbation is good at a young age because on talk sex with dr drew they were saying that the younger age you masturbate the more sensitive and activated your nerve endings in your privates get making deeper better orgasms! thats why sex is never that fun the first couple of times if your privates aren't exposed to any of it...ok i have just rambled on hope I've helped!
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is there any way you can suck your own dick??? I'm looking for a more pleasureable masturbation. Im serious so dont give me crap. (link)
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No its proven that for a man to suck his own dick you must remove a set of ribs from your rib cage in order to reach ...like everyone was suspicious cause Marylin Manson the weird singer got a set of his ribs from his rib cage removed so he could be "More flexible"..yearight....why don't you just like look at porn or try something else...
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what is it/how do you do it
thanks (link)
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no the person below me is wrong it is a sexual position like picture two spoons lying side by side each other and the penis going in the vagina sideways its hard to explain so here is a diagram of it its not a dirty picture.....
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/sexualpositions_1911_304913&imgrefurl=http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/ansexfromspo.html&h=338&w=450&sz=44&hl=en&start=6&tbnid=2p60_s4kTynsbM:&tbnh=95&tbnw=127&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dspooning%26gbv%3D2%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26channel%3Ds%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26sa%3DG
sorry hopefully the picture helped more than i explained
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Does any one have any little hits or ideas or any little things or big things that can help me make it more enjoyable for him. anything to make him like it more, he doesn't come very easily like i still haven't made him so does any one have any helpful hints thanks o by the way I'm almost 16 f (link)
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yah! what i always do is the combo hand job and blow job at the same time like make sure to put your hands at the base of his penis and jack him off while sucking. Also you can flick your tounge around his penis and spice it up a bit just remember to always make sure your hands are at work has well has your mouth...and also your lucky it takes him awhile to cum because a lot of guys are too fast and its annoying when your having sex!
hope that helps!
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ive been fingered, ive masterbated, and ive worn tampons. so my hymen is most likely broken right? (link)
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most likely not because the hymen has a opening in it..tampons most ikley never break your hymen...masturbating with a large dildo or being fingered with alot of finger can break it...you would know if after your being fingered or masturbating there is a little blood and discomfort and most likley if not soon but when you pee or a little later on there is some weird discharge because it most likley is the broken hymen skin coming out....but tampons and fingering most likley dont break your hymen most people hymens are broeken during intercourse
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Ok i had sex with my boyfriend we used a condom but when he pulled out it wasnt on anymore it was inside of me. What are the possibilties of my getting pregnat? I'm really scared. (link)
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i agree with the person below me in that it is very likley...but when the condom was inside of you was his semen already in the condom or did he pull out while he was ejaculating..or did he even ejaculate yet...try to remeber because that matters but it can still be very likely....make surethat when you put a condom on your guys package you squeeze all the air out of it and when your guy ejaculates and is ready to pull out make sure he holds the base of the condom so it wont fall off...review your putting on taking off condom skills it will prevent these accidents...but if your young and cant have people kno your pregnant nd if you find out you are pregnant..free clinic..but the abortion isint free its usually like 100-800 dollars depending where you go..
anyways hope i helped
good luck ;)
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okay this might sound kind of funny but im just making sure! ive probably been on birth control for about a year now..not for sex or anything but for my period. is there different kinds of birth control? like..if i wanted to have sex with a guy would taking my birth control still be effective, or is there like birth control just for sex and just for your period? im just wondering like..im scared to have sex obviously because im scared of pregnancy and all that other stuff! so if i ever find a right boy that i love and when i feel the time is right i want to make sure im as protected as i can be =)
im just wondering with all this stuff..
THANKS (link)
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ive never herd of birth control just for periods so im pretty sure your safe from being pregnant since is been a year just be consistent with it and keep taking it and dont skip a dose...but eventhough you are safe from pregnancy you are not safe from stds so you should always use a condom then you will be totally safe from everything!
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how do I fight my porn addiction. I hate it but it's everywhere. Please help me. (link)
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i would take your computer out of yor house and any other type of porn you might have...and when u get urges just masturbate or something but try to keep urself busy like the person below said it will def keep ur mind off of it
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My husband and I are very much in love. We also have a 3 year old daughter. Now, my question is, how can we still have sex without getting a surprise? My attention is always on her and she constantly wakes up during the night. A problem is that we live in NY, and not a single family member lives here, so we don't have any help. All advice is appreciated, thank you! (link)
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hello! well i agree to get a lock on the door and it might be a good idea to let your daughter know that you are fine.....beause when i was a little girl i would do the same thing and i would think my mom moaning meant she was hurt or in trouble...haha but when se gets a little older you should definatley teach her....or maybe if you have a adventourous sex life you can try having sex in other places..its always hot to unexpectadly slip in a quicke...that could spice things up
good luck
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I'm so confused about masturbation. Is it right or wrong? I keep getting these urges and I'm scared to masturbate because I'm afraid it's wrong for me to do because I'm afraid my mom might get mad and tell me not to, but I can't control my hormones! I can't even sleep because of my hormones. What should I do? (link)
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hey and i feel ya and masturbation is totally normal for your age just dont let your mom find out because that would be embarassing but guys love really horny girls..you can just masturbate in privacy and i dont kno how comfortable you feel with this but when i was 13 i got my first little vibrator you can buy them at spencers for like 10 bucks...best ten bucks i ever spent....or just find things that vibrate and hold then up to your clitoris and that will surely cure your sexual urges..you can do this when your mom is gone or when she is asleep etc...but masturbation is something she cant prevent you from doing because its a very natural thing
:)
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