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hay ya'llWell, im an only child, but I have lots of cousins ( 40 of em ) and I am a freshmen in high school, OH BOY! ( sarcasim, the international langue of the world ) I am a devoted christen and I am in chorus and FCA and I love to read.
Love Everybody,
*~Alexia~*
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my friend says that when you finger someone, the person being fingered can being wearing pants but i dont think that is true ...is it true or no ..if its not true how can i tell her?
This is not true. To be fingered, a guy or gilr has to be able to stick his/her finger up ur vargina. Which means, its not only a no pants zone, its a no underwear zone eitehr. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
what does libido mean?
its ur sex drive, like if someone has a slow libido, their sex life is slow. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
what's cum...and what is a cherry and wat does it mean when it's popped?
Cumming is the height of sexual excitment.
Cherry is the tissue in your pussy ( vargina ) that creates like a barrier inside it.
and Popping a cherry means a guy has fingered you and broke the tissue.
Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
Well iv been with this girl 4 2 years and she says she wants to wait till she gets married to have sex,but i cant wait that long i think i waited long enough what the fuck do i do
Tell her. Be open and honest with her. But if you truly love her, you'll wait till you and her are married. I know you probably REALLY close to fucking a fire hydrent by now, but wait, cause us girls go through it too and it ain't easy for us either. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc.
Heres mine:
first base - kissing ( any kind )
second base - fingering and stuff ( oral )
thrid base - regular sex
and if theres a fourth base
fourth base - marriage or other
Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
What is an approiate age to have sex? I'm 15/F but I want to wait until I'm married. Is that the best time?
Whatever age you think is apporitate is the best age for you. Since we are all different, the age for sex varies, so I can't tell you what age to have it. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
Are condoms 100% safe?
no, sometimes the condoms break. I would stick with the pill, its safer, 98% effective. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
Does everyone eventually get breasts like their mothers? Like if your mom's breasts are short and pointy, yours will be short and pointy too?
In some families, yes that is true, but in others, it's not. It really depends on your genetic makeup. In some families, the daughters take after the mothers, and in others, the daughters take after teh fathers, and some take after both and some don't look like them at all! Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
If it's your first time having sex, how can you ease the pain? What can you use for a lubricant? Are they any other ways, without like, "ruining the moment"? Thanx!
I heard a variate of responses to this question ( but some are not a good idea, since my friends thought of them ):
Kays gel Warming Liquid
Butter ( ????? )
water
thats all I got, sorry for very bad responses, but my friends wanted to put something, I would personal try the Warming Liquid. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia, Courtney, and Kelsey~*
hey my friend is 15 years old and she is having a baby what should i do to help and what should she do
I think you should be suppotive and help her through every step of the pregnany and then help her with the baby. She should probably be postive and do whatever is best for this baby. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
I've told 3 guys that i would have sex with them sometime in high shcool, and i feel like kind of a whore. I know that a lot of people have sex and everything but i feel like it would kind of be a slutty thing to do. What do you think?
I think that if you think it's slutty, then it is. My personal opion doesn't matter here. If I said " Go jump off a cliff and die in hell " this wouldn't matter. My professional opion although rears its ugly head in here and says, You shouldn't have sex yet until you feel you are ready. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
ok sorry...weird question...but if you have sex while youre on ur period, like the last few days or w/e...what are the chances that you'll get pregnant? sorry if thats kinda weird/gross
The same as if you have sex while NOT on your period. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
ok this is my friends account cuz i dont have time to make my own right now...
ya know how everybody thinks that guys just wanna get down your pants and all they think about is sex? well is it normal for a girl to be like that?
and also i have this weird stretchmark things on my boobs, is this normal?
Yes it is normal for a grl to want sex. Trust me, I've been like that for 2 years now. And the strechmark may be caused by exercise or dieting, but just to be safe, I would visit a doctor. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
okay
so i did something
and now im getting liek these sores in my mouth
like open sores kinda and they hurt
could it be an std ?
Yes this could be an STD. I think this would be herpes, but I'm not intireally sure. I would go to a doctor or a gynacologist to get this checked. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
is it like.. unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life,
i want kids, and i want alot, but i want to adopt. its not a spiritual thing..i just.. am weirded out by the idea of sex...
please help..
i rate high on good advice
It's not unhealthy to not have sex for ur entire life. I kinda admire he way u are not buying into this whole sex thing like the rest of us r. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
..Blowjob?
It's something you do to guys. You grab thier penis, jerk it off, and start sucking on it. Thats basicilly it. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
okay...this guy told me that i had sex appeal today and i dont know if i should have taken it as a compliment or an insult.
so could someone tell me what sex appeal is and if its a compliment or and insult.
BTW: im 13/f and i rate 5 for NONsmartass answers.
That means he thinks your so hot, that he would love to have sex with you. It's a compliment, so don't worry. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
im 14,and i have been dating this guy that i think im in love with he wants
to have sex, 9he isent making me) , i want to but i got raped when i was 12
and im scared..what should i do?.
I would tell him about you being raped and tell him your feelings on sex. If he truly loves you, he will NEVER pressure you. I hope it turns out okay, and if you ever need someone to talk to, my door is always open for u.
*~Alexia~*
Lets say my period is normal .. well I had it on Aug. 9 of this year and finished Aug. 16th would that mean I would get it again a month from when I started or a month from when it finished? Thankss and what days should i be concerned that its close?
One) your period would be 3 months away from your last one.
Two) It would start on the day you began your period and end on your end date.
Three) your body will tell you, cause you'll start yelling at people and being crappy all the time.
Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do?
Here's what my boyfriend and I think ( yes I had to call for back-up, so kill me ). He says hat u should deny everything if you don't want to do it. Tell everyone he's a lier, and just wants you beause your so hot. What I think is that you should tell your parents or teachers or friends. Getcha some backup and go after him. Remember, safty in numbers. Hope this helped, but if u still need advice, email or im me.
*~ Alexia and Eric ~*