If you did not consent, it is rape. But how do you know he even did it? He might have been lying to you. Don't worry sweetie, it's not your fault. If you're feeling violated, depressed, etc. try looking at http://www.rapevictimadvocates.org/, or (and this is better) see a psychiatrist. You must tell an adult you can trust about this. Don't say "John raped me in my sleep.", because you don't know for sure, so say that he told you that's what he did. Good luck, and the next time he tries anything funny with you, punch the little bastard.

It's really none of their business. I guess I have it lucky...my parents see it as my choice to make, they have no control over it, so they don't "allow" me to have sex but they don't forbid it either. I understand that many parents would be worried about their children having sex, or would be in denial about their baby growing up, but they really have to get over that. Especially if you are eighteen. You are legally an adult so you should be able to make your own decisions. Don't even tell your parents about it. It's absolutely none of their business, they have their own sex lives. Have fun, be safe, and check out http://www.scarleteen.com/, I find it is very helpful.

You leave the end a little lose so there's a little pocket for the cum to go into.

Yeah. And all the other times, too.

No, they can't tell. Usually they won't even look if it's a regular physical, and I don't think they would if you are under eighteen. If they ask you about your sexual history, well, you don't have to tell them the truth I guess. And they probably will ask you. Lying isn't really in your best interest. But don't worry, they're not gonna arrest you for admitting that you're sexually active. They're doctors, not police officers.

You broke your hymen is all. You can do that by falling out of a tree or riding a bike, it doesn't mean you lost your virginity. But different people define "virginity" differently, so if you want to think of it like that, you can, lol. But don't worry, you're technically still considered a virgin.

That happens with all pregnant women. Their bodies are going through a LOT of changes, including changing hormone levels, and obviously, since there is a new baby coming she might think that you both will be paying too much attention to him or her to spend time with each other, which is kind of true for a while. Make sure you let her know that you think she is still beautiful and you will always love her. Maybe say that you've "lost your sex drive" because soon you will have a baby and you need to concentrate on that, and it's not all about sex. Besides, after the baby is born she won't be able to have sex for a while, and be prepared for depression on her part. Congratulations on the baby! =D

Show them your special skill, be it eating out their brains by pushing your long, reptilian tongue up their noses and pulling out the tasy cerebrum inside or simply being able to fly. They will not be able to deny the truth.

It's when you stroke/rub your penis if you are a guy or if you're a girl, finger yourself. It feels really good the first time but gets really boring really quickly. Yet everyone does it. Personally I think it's way more fun if you are a girl, but I've never been a guy so I'm probably wrong. Try it sometime, it's good for you!

First of all, I think that if you can't even type the word "vagina", you should not be planning on having sex any time soon. That said, on to the explaination.

Lesbians can have sex in so many wonderful ways!

1) One girl licks the other's vagina, and uses her tongue to excite the clitoris.
2) They use their hands. First one finger, then two, then the whole hand.
3) They use sex toys such as vibrators.
4) They hump and rub against each other.
5) One of them wears a strap on penis.
And much more!!

Like I said, I don't really think you sound mature enough to be having sex, but there are plenty of other ways to experiment. If you read fanfiction, try looking for femslash or femmeslash. There are also several Japanese comics (manga) about lesbian relationships.

Check this stuff out:
http://www.livejournal.com/community/yuri/
http://www.fanfiction.net/s/882184/1/
http://www.fanfiction.net/s/2284889/1/
http://www.livejournal.com/userinfo.bml?user=hp_girlslash

Chasing Amy is a great movie. There is one scene where Alyssa (a lesbian) pretty much explains to Holden (a guy) everything I just said above, and the whole film is about accepting your sexuality. You should definitely watch it.

**I don't think anybody actually called you a lesbian, but when you ask a question like this it is assumed that you are atleast bi-curious. How is calling someone a lesbian being racist? It's an orientation not an ethnicity.

Fish
um...
cherry candy.
Sexy clothes.
strong morals and a deep love of GOD!
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goths
naked women
girls who can be friends with guys and do guy stuff
coffee
Serbian accents
classic novels
frilly panties
naked women
Siamese cats
yaoi manga! Give a guy some yaoi manga, he'll be sooo horny!
mirrors
girl on girl action
windex
Barbie dolls
lipstick
mini skirts
The Cure
masturbation
spiders
cereal
chess
baseball

And about 95,432,567,823,908,128,564,324,543,999,
870.94329483 times the square root of infinity other things.

It's when you reach the peak of sexual satisfaction, also known as "climax". Guys will ejaculate when this happens and for girls, their clitoris will be erect and sometimes they will make noise. It takes nothing to make a guy have an orgasm, but guys aren't very good at making girls climax. If you want to see what it feels like, you can masturbate. Masturbation is insanely fun the first time.

It's not a sin at all. Saying "oh my God" isn't a sin either, but let's address the masturbation question. You shouldn't live so strictly and repress how you feel, or else it will become all bottled up inside of you and when you release it it will have negative consequences. Don't let the Church warp your mind into thinking that everything you do has to be bad, it is human nature to do things, as it says in the Catholic religion. You can stop if you wish, but masturbation is very normal and very healthy. Having an orgasm gives you more energy (always good), and it helps to relieve stress! It's also good to know your own body before you touch someone else's body, that way you are not too shocked. Besides, you can't get pregnant using a fake penis--how sweet is that?! Try to be less strict with yourself. As long as you are as good as you can be to other people, you can be faithful to both yourself and God. You can't love God unless you love yourself, and masturbation is a beautiful and natural expression of self love!

If you need anymore help just ask me by going to my column and clicking "ask questions".

-gakkuhideto

It's when a guy touches a girl's breasts. They are going up her shirt, thus it is feeling up. That's not to say a girl can't do it to another girl, but it's usually done by scummy boys who think of women as property. It does feel really nice, though.

=/ I thought it was more like five minutes, which would be the point of taking it at home so you don't have to waste all the time of going to the doctor. It usually says on the package, but I assume it's much less than a week even if it is more than five minutes.

It's normal to be sore, I mean...oww he didn't sound gentle at all. Did he even use lubricant? I wouldn't worry about being pregnant unless the condom broke, so hopefully you got a look at it and saw that it was put on correctly (www.condomdepot.com has some good info). You're most likely bleeding because your hymen broke, which is nothing to worry about.

They're not really "supposed" to. It's not a law. But everybody has a sex drive, and masturbation is a good way to relieve sexual tension. It's better than letting the tension build up, or raping someone because you're so horny. It's good to know the way your own body works before you have sex with someone else, that way you know how it feels and you don't freak out. And guys have to have an erection to put on a condom, so if you want to have safe sex you need to masturbate before hand. Most people masturbate, those that don't are lying or they just don't know what they're missing.

It's totally normal to not have crushes, you're just thinking about other things. And masturbation is very boring, you should try to make it more interesting.

Blood in your panties.

It depends on what you believe. Most cultures think that suicide is the worst thing you could ever do and that you will either go to hell or be reincarnated as something unpleasant. But it depends on what you believe. Personally, I don't believe in hell, so it doesn't really matter to me. The only way you would know for sure is if you killed yourself...but don't.

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