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ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and lately we've been talking about sex a lot. We both think that we're gonna end up getting married and living happily ever after! so anyways... We both know that we'll probably end up having sex sometime in the next 5-8 months... and i have some questions. I've heard that a hurts the girl the first time, but how bad? We've talked about this also and he told me that whenever we do end up having sex that he's gonna keep checking on me and making sure that i'm not in too much pain and if I am he'll stop. Don't get me wrong. I'm not worried about having sex. I'm just worried about how much it's gonna hurt. And also what's the best position to use for your first time?
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Well hun wait till u actually feel right when your ready your ready! But it's not to painful jsut kinda go easy and steady. And if he'll stop just kinda go for it.
Good luck!
Maddy~
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Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more?? (link)
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Well kinda share intrests strike up a small talk! And rhen say hay u wanna hang out sum time (so it's not really asking him out but he can make it a d8 or a hang out if he wants so he doesnt feel akward)
Goodluck!
~Maddy~
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I think I'm depressed.. its like sometimes I can be really happy and have a positive outlook on life, and then other times I feel like my life is falling apart. I don't think I'm suicidal, but Im just afraid that someday i might be if i dont get help. I told my dad i wanted anti-depressents or therapy, but he said no cuz he doesnt believe me that im depressed. he just wont take me seriously. what should i do? what are some ways to be happy w/o anti depressents?? (link)
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Hey the same things happen to me! And sum times I just feel that I wanna kill myself but wut I do is I just do is try to find the pieces of my life and put em back together (sry the best advice I got)
~Maddy~
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Are you still a virgin if you kind of had sex? meaning... If you were making out and everything and the guy and u start to have sex and stuff and he's like half way in and then you guys stop... is that still considered being a virgin or not?
Thanks!
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I'd have to say not if you actually did it. Ya i'd have to say u wernt a virgin n e more! K?
~Maddy~
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i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!! (link)
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Ok hun! Someday soon your going to get or already have a desiese. You can die frum that desiese! And it may feel good but hun you should spend your time w/ sum one you love. Some day your really going to hurt urself!
Goodl luck!
~Maddy~
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I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help (link)
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Hey babe I do the same thing. Your jelous of these hot girls bodies! There skinny and pretty and you just wish you could be like them. Hun i kn,ow how it is if you dont got a prob w/ kissing grl it's no prob not being bi it's just being jelious!
Goodluck
~Maddy~
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im 16 and havnt had a period for just over a year.im not preganat cos i dun tests.i cant have cancer so young can i?i stopped having them about a month after losing my virginaty.i havnt got std cos i ahd a screening.wahts wrong i started like when i was 13.neone know?plse help swn cheers xxx (link)
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Babe it's normal really!
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ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together? (link)
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Babe I wood have to say along the ages of 15 and up hun!
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alright, well me and my boyfriend like to have fun were both 13..and like the other day i was just like rubbing his 'thing' and stuff and then hes like...said all this stuff..but i ended up fingereing my self with out washing my hands is there a chance i can be pregnet?!
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Well if you havnt had your period yet no! But yes babe there mite be a chance! Wait a month and see what happens if you dont have your period babe i wood be freaking out! Babe your 13 wait slow it down!
~MADDY~
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