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My name is Amanda and I am a proud single parent of a beautiful 2 year old girl named *Brianna Marie*! I am also a child care teacher and a student. I am seeking an associates in massage therapy and skin care. I currently reside in Orlando Fl, but hope to soon go back home to HOTLANTA!! :D If there is anything else ya wanna know hey ... why not ask?! ;)

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my father abuses me what should i do

My suggestion to you would be to tell a school counselor. I went through a similair situation but only it was my brothers best friend and I was seven. I didn't tell anyone until I was in middle school and I regret it. Don't feel alone in this situation and don't be afraid to tell the truth. I did it too late and he never got caught and I'll never know if he did it to another little girl and I'll never be able to live with myself because of it. Just think of it happening to someone else. Your counselor should be very supportive of you in this situation and could call your mother into the school and tell her for you if it's too hard for you. I truly hope this helps you and you can have the strength to talk about it to someone. You didn't do ANYTHING wrong, please remember that!! If you have any other questions or need support you can email me at flutterbyme@msn.com!

~ Amanda
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I am really scared to do anything with a guy (like fingering and stuff) because I think my crotch is weird... it has like extra skin. I hate it! What can I do about this, and what do guys think about it? By the way I am 16.
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Ok well this is definately a unique question but I will do my best to answer it. Especially since you took the time to choose me to answer it for you and I know it's not an easy question.

Here goes nothing!!

I'm assuming that the "extra skin" you are referring too is the lips of your vagina. It is normal for them to be long or thick or even for one to be longer than the other so don't think your weird because of it. And don't worry about the guys. About 99.9% of the time the little insecurities we have about ourselves they never notice. Even the ones we think are sooo obvious.

I could be answering your question wrong since I'm not entirely sure what you are referring too. But what I would suggest either way is for you to see an ob doctor and ask them what they think. You can go without your parents permission if you have a planned parenthood center near you. I don't know where you live but here's the website: plannedparenthood.com ~ you can locate a center near you or perhaps you can speak to a doctor on the phone and see if they can help you that way. You can also check out webmd.com and see if they have any information there. I hope this helps you and if you need to correct me on my assumptions please do and I will do my best to re-answer your question.

Best of luck to you!

~Amanda ;)

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how dose it feel to have sex i never had it but i want to try it?

Uh huh ... well ...
First of all this isn't a "try it before you buy it" situation. From the way it sounds you aren't ready to have sex. I'm not trying to make a personal attack on you or anything so try not to take it that way. But having sex is a BIG deal .. not something you do for recreation. Well, I shouldn't say that ... some people do, but most of them get paid for it too...haha!!

I could've just said that sex is the best thing you'll ever experience and you should try it sometime. But I could've been wrong in your case anyway. Everyone's sexual experience is different ... there are no two alike. There are a lot of factors that come with "great sex." I'll tell you from experience that it's something that's very hard to find!! HA!!

It doesn't matter what anyone says ... it's going to feel different for you and your going to be wondering what the hell we were all talking about. lol Your on your own with this one dear.

If you do decide to give it a good try please be safe in doing so. I know I sound like a broken record but COME ON!! Condoms, birth control...ya know...all of that good stuff!! If you're going to do it at least do it right!!

Best of luck!

~ Amanda ;)

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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley

Who am I to say whether or not you are in love?! I don't know you or your boyfriend. You could be head-over-heels. Or perhaps it may feel like love, but really it's just lust. I can't say, nor can anyone else. You are the only person who knows whether or not you are in love!

It works the same way when you are deciding when to have sex. It doesn't matter what anyone tells you, ultimately it's your decision. Even if you are young, we all know that it doesn't matter what anyone tells us we are going to do it when we want to anyway. Please just make sure that you are protecting yourself and the one you care about!

Best of luck!

~ Amanda ;)

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ok,when i wake up/when i change my under wear,there is yellow-white stuff in it. is that discharge? and if so how long dose it last/is it a sign of getting my period?

I would recomend ignoring everything that you've read on here and checking it out for yourself. Go to WEBMD.com and you can find a wide array of helpful information concerning your problem. If anything talk to your mom about it and go to a gyno, that would probably be best!!

Best of luck

~ Amanda ;)

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pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz

Well I think you need to go to your local planned parenthood and get all of the information you possibly can. Also you can check out their web site.

But I do want to clarify one piece of false information that was given to you. You CAN GET PREGNANT WHILE ON YOUR PERIOD. You can also be pregnant and still be getting your period....everyone is different. You need to seek an obgyn and make sure you are prepared before you have intercourse.

Nothing is 100%!!!!! I got pregnant while being on birth control. Yes, we did use a condom and it broke. It can happen to anyone.

Please take care and be safe!!

Best of luck!

~Amanda :)

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