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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.

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ok so im not supposed to get my period until like the 12th or 14th haha ya but for some reason i got my period sorta when i mean sorta im saying sorta becuase its like LIGHT and its not red its brown or black!!! is that normal and if i say i had sex like a week b4 that does that help :/

if you had sex, you could be pregnant. that could be implantation bleeding. take a test and/or see a doctor.

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ok so i'm 15 guy is 17
just started getting my period a year ago so its kind of irregular.
well i lost my virginity in the beginning of May
and the last time i had my period was in the middle of April.. could i be pregnant?
for the last 3 months my period came within 3 weeks and before that i missed my period for 2 months.
We did it with out a condom about two times

use a condom. they aren't expensive. and/or get on birth control.


but yes, it is VERY possible you are pregnant. go take a test.

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Okayy Thenn,,
This Is weird but i just want to know what its like having sex for the first time,,and does it hurt..?
xx

yes, it hurts.

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Ok, i know this is weird and probably i know the answer but i just wanna know...is there a chance you could get pregnant from having anal sex? Me and my bf kinda did it before. he wasn't in there that long and he kinda pre-d...im just really curious

(im a girl by the way xD)

You can't get pregnant from anal, but if semen ends up anywhere near the vagina, there is a chance, a VERY slim chance, but a chance.

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I know because Im Fourteen Im not saposed to have sex, and I dont Im still 100% virgin but everyone seems to be doing it, and its weird because I stayed back and there all younger then me and not virgins.. when is the average of losing it and Ive been offered.. a couple times with some VERY hot guys but I said no which Im very proud of but because i keep saying now am I not interested in guys?

it seems that most teenagers start exploring with it around 14. but if i remember correctly, the average age to lose your virginity is 16.

i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and i waited a long time to do it with him. but in all honestly, i wish i had waited until i was 18. that's my only regret, but it's not a huge one.
my advice, wait until you have found someone who treats you well and that you've been with for a while. don't worry about anyone else doing it.

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ok.. well.. this has 3 parts to it...
ok..part one:: i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period, we did not use protection... now im not sure if it is possible to get pregnant the day after your period (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before)... the second part:: he and i got into a fight one day, i got extremely drunk and had unsafe sex with another guy 1 week (5days) before my period.. again (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before).. third part:: well i am currently late for my period.. not many days but a few... but i am never late... i have never been late.. ever...

do you think it is possible i am pregnant, or just stressing and so my peroid is late.. and if yes you think i am...who do you think is most likey to be the father????

there is always a chance of getting pregnant no matter when you have sex.

go take a pregnancy test.

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um..my bf wants to try anal, but im afraid it will hurt. i dont even know why girls like this because, how exactly does it give us pleasure? i mean, i want to do it because i want to make him feel good, but i dont want to be in pain or be uncomfortable just to make him happy. how bad does it hurt if it hurts at all? help.

the sensitive area near/in the vagina is near the anus. that's why it's enjoyable at all.

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m/13 i masturbate everyday maybe twice and i was wondering do you play sport better before or after masturbating. i seem to be more aggressive if a havent masturbated for a while and when i do after im calm and relaxed. i need loads of energy so will masturbating affect me in any way??? when i masturbate does it inrease or decrease testostorone

masturbation releases stress that's why you feel calm and relaxed after.

masturbation shouldn't affect you in any way.

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i have a question
this is kind of embarassing
but is it normal to question ur sexuality at like the age of 15???? answer plzzzzzzzzzz

yep. i questioned my sexually at 14, figured out who i was at 15.

it depends on the person and it's normal. you may decide you're something now, and a while form now you figure out differently. you're a teenager and your mind is constantly changing and evolving.


good luck =]

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I've heard rumors that it's not healthy to wear a bra to bed, and i havent been for a while. Which is healthier, wearing a bra to bed or not? and why?

i've read online that if you wear your bra to bed, it keeps your boobs perky longer as you get older.

dunno if it's true though.

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Is it possible to get pregnant through clothes? i dont just mean underwear, but through our underdwear, jeans, and his pants. my period wont come also, and im really nervous. but thats as far as he and i have gone. please answer men asap because im terrified.

18/f

no.


edit:
i gave you a flipping answer. what else do you want me to say? okay, yes, you can get pregnant through clothing. wtf?

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if a guy and a girl have been going out for over a year and havent had sex is it really wrong?

and

if i dont will he go off and sleep with someone else? do guys do that?

i've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year and we haven't had sex, and we're not waiting for marriage. it's all about what you're comfortable with. so it's not wrong to not have sex after a year.

and if he does go have sex with someone else, he's an asshole and not worth your time.

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You may find this weird, but I really want to wait till I am married to have sex. Temptation is all around, and its really hard to resist, but i always have. What are some "things" you can do with your boyfriend without actually undergoing sexual intercourse?

oral, touching, fingering, handjob, kissing.
and that's basically it.

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Hey. I'm 14, and I masturbate once every couple of days. Is this bad? Does this have any effect on my health?

Masturbation is very healthy for you. It releases stress.

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ok so my boobs are not as big as i want them i am 15 115 pounds and only have an 32A it sucks and i am so ugly so that doesn't help i plan on having sex soon how can i make my boobs larger

one day, you'll love the size of your boobs. for the longest time i hated my 34A size, but i've learned to like them. they aren't huge, so they look perfectly proportioned with my body.
and not all guys like huge boobs. my boyfriend doesn't like huge boobs on girls.
and if you're really that insecure with your body, you shouldn't be having sex. you have to love your body before you can give it someone. and no, i'm not saying you're too young.

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heyy umm im looking for guys to answer this question.. but girls are fine too.
so umm im gonna go to my boyfriends house this weekend and i was just wondering if you could like suggest some fun stuff we could do.. im not having sex with him. and please dont suggest like make out.. bj.. hj.. or any of like the bases or anything. just like fun stuff to do. and this is the part thats basically for guys... whats some stuff that guys like girls to do to them? like besides make out & that stuff
thanks! xo

play video games. watch football. that's about it.

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ok heres the thing me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months now. It's kinda got sexual weve only had sex once and that lasted for 30 seconds. my bf and i do kinda bump against each other. I can feel his hard on though my pants!! have i moved to fast with him? I'm so confused! I wanna do this kinda stuff with him i just wanna know if 2 months is to soon.

if you're ready, and you're comfortable with it, then it's not too fast.

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i've been on the pill for almost a year.. and i got my period when im not supposed to. what does this mean? could it mean im pregnant??

ignore everything everyone said.
YES, you can get your period when you're pregnant. some women have their period the entire time they are pregnant.
but, i don't know if you're pregnant or not. it's probably your period just off of it's cycle. but i would call your doctor about it.

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so i recently lost my virginity and would like to start getting checked out on a regular basis by a doctor. problem is im 15 and don't want to use the family doctor. i knew of this phone number you could call to see teen oriented doctors in your area but i forgot it. i don't really want to just go to planned parenthood. anyone have that number or any other ideas for me to see a doctor my parents wouldn't have to know about?
thanks

just tell your parents (or just your mother, or another trusted adult) that you would like to go to a doctor to get checked because you'd like to. or say your friends are going to the doctors to get checked and you want to also.
and doctor's aren't allowed to say anything to your parents unless you are going to harm yourself, someone else, or someone is going to harm you.

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I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 4 monthes now. I think I am ready to have sex with him, the problem is, I am very self-concious of my body. I hate being naked, and I never am with him. I won't even take off my top. Even though I think i am considered "thin" (I am critical of myself, especially the flab on my stomach) and I am 5'9, I am just so self-concious and I don't think I will ever be comfortable being naked around him. Is there a way to get more comfortable with myself, naked?

i'm not going to tell you that 4 months isn't long enough or any of that other bullshit.
but, if you don't feel comfortable with showing your boyfriend your body, you're not ready to share your body with him. i wouldn't take my shirt off or anything really until i was with my boyfriend for about 6 months. now we've been together for almost 11 months and we're completely comfortable with each other. it takes time. you can't pressure yourself, although you may be like me and need that push to try new things.
and always remember, just because you do something once, doesn't mean you have to do it again if you realize you're not comfortable with it.

good luck =]

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