i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
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Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
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im 15/ female
ok this is just a little akward...my boyfriend and i had sex 5 times yesterday and yeah i like it really rough and hard but this morning and today my vag has been really sensitive and sore is this normal? im sure it is but i really don't know.Please help me... (link)
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i would slow down because down there is a very sensitive place it might cause a little damage not much.at your age it is normal to be doing it that much but just becareful maybe do it once instead of five or wait before you start again and use protection be smart.good luck.
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I heard that people take a concoction of drink and drugs to commit suicide, any ideas as to best 'mix'?
Don't waste yout time and mine saying stuff like 'think about people who care' knowone does! from the day my brother used to spit at me accross the bedroom when we were growing up, to todays vain, bitching two faced slags. And if you give me any religious crap, maybe i'll take you with me. (link)
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your going through depression and thats fine but i believe that you have alot to live for and the only pill i would be taking right now if i were you is a pill for depression. wouldn't you want to do something with your life and have all the money you wanted and needed and maybe spit back in your bro's face too and other people that hurt you in the past.money makes the world goes round that should be your motivation for success.your saying that no one cares i know thats a lie just know that if your succeed in you little suicide know that your a coward.
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my boyfriend and i have had sex 7 times to be excact(and thats as many that ive ever done in my life.) but theres a catch...every time we do it, im feeling more pain than pleasure. is there something wrong with me? i confronted him and a friend about it, and were not sure. im kind of worried? but i remeber hearing that your not always going to expeirence that awesome sex, im not thinking about that so yea. haha. help? (link)
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well something could be wrong because the more you do it the better its suppose to get.try taking it slow and lots of foreplay before sex ex.kissing,feeling on each other,etc..if that doesn't work you should go see a gynecologist you never know something could be wrong good luck and practice safe sex.
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heyaaa female 17!
thanks for reading :D
i had unprotected sex , i no its wrong but its done now, and he told he didnt cum but i think he did coz he stopped after he said he didnt , 3 days after im starting too feel ill, icould just be me thinking about it , could i be pregant or watever sti? (link)
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its impossible to feel pregnant 3 days later its probably something else .if you keep thinking that your pregnant that can cause you to show some symptoms .if you wait a week you can take a pregnancy test best of luck not to judge you are anything even though i am if you dont trust what he says so much you probably shouldnt be having sex with him.
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okay so im 17/f and my bf is 18/m and we tried to have sex but we didn't actually fully do it. we used a condom and he only put it in alittle and then took it out and he didnt cum or anything and it was over, but before that he was fingering me, so what are the chances of being pregant? cause im freaking out helpp (link)
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pretty slim did he have cum on his fingers is the question you should ask him.
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my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he didn't cum but I did. do you think I could be pregnant ? do boys feel it when they are about to cum ? please help !!! (link)
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boys do feel when there about to cum and can prevent that. you can also get pregnant form pre ejaculation which the man doesnt know when the pre cum is coming out .getting pregnant from pre cum is slim. i wouldnt worry as much calm down you can take a test in about a week .
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Me and my boyfriend fool around and dry hump. and one day we were dumb and put two plastic bags over and did that bare and he went a little inside me but not far at all. and then we realized that the bags broke, but he didnt NOT cum and i dont even think there was precum on it cause we stopped and started a bunch. anyways, i missed my period by 2 days and i dont know if i should get a pregnancy test or not. I got it on November 18 last month, and now its Dec 20. I usually would get it on Dec 18, 31 days exactly after. However, last month i got it at midnight afer the 18th. I also got mono about a week after we did that. I had been not exercising for 2 weeks and started about a week ago. Maybe that would affect it?.
I know there is a CHANCE i could be pregnant(there always is), but what ARE the chances? (link)
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it depends how long you guys did it for i would say the chances are pretty low .late period can occur for numerous reasons stress,exciesing,change of diet etc i wouldnt worry yet .wait for a week if you still dont get your period take a test.next time be more careful everybody makes mistakes just make sure you learn from that.good luck
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Over the summer, this guy and i were friends with benefits. i know friends with benefits are never a good thing but anyway.. a friend of mine told me he had been dating someone. So i stopped talking to him to get him out of the picture. Well, i haven't talked to him in about 2 months and he texted me tonight saying that he missed me and how he wanted me to come over soon. I don't miss him, just doing things with him. I asked him about his girlfriend and he just said "yeaaah we can keep it between us" so i said umm ill think about it. so should i do it? i don't know the girl at all that hes dating so i wouldnt feel bad at all about that. (link)
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friends with benefits always become complicated when theres more then two people involve good thing you have no feelings for this guy.obviously he has no respect for girls his treating you like your a sex object i dont know if you up for that but, what about the other girl think she has feelings too things like that can really distroy people .how would you feel if you really liked a guy and found out he was messing around with another girl.think before you act if i were you i would just ignore him.
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I've been knowing my boyfriend since august. we FINALLY just started goin out thxgiving.
he's not a virgin.
I am.
I think he's attempted to finger me, but I've stopped him before because we weren't going out yet.
I've finnally did STUFF w/ other ppl before we went out. it was fun. lol.
howww do I get him to do stuff? Just straight up tell him? or when were kissing just go for it? as you know it took him 4 months to ask me out, & also he took forever to even kiss me!!
* and I am comfortable with him & we can talk about anything. this is a little new to me though. thaanks. (link)
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well when you guys are making out you start by touching him first then if he didnt get the hint put his hand between your legs or on your breat .best of luck
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If you have se at 15 can the boy get arrested even if he was 15 also? Im not having sex but people say they can go to jail for 20 years and stuff..... (link)
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if both of you are 15 you cant go to jail if his older than 18 and your 15 he can.
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So my boyfriend loves sex, i mean what guy doesn't don't get me wrong i love sex to hah, a lot. Lately i have been thinking though i mean i love sex but i watch these movies and shows and stuff and the movies have the people 'making love' not having 'sex'. I've been thinking about it more and more and i want to make love so bad. My boyfriend is the kinda guy that talks dirty and stuff during sex, i don't know how to explain what im trying to say but i guess i just want to be more romantic then it is i mean the sex is great its just i want to feel that romantic connection that i see on movies and such with making love. My boyfriend likes doing everything and anything and he just doesn't seem like he would be the romantic kind during sex he's more like the 'porn star' kind. IM sorry i don't know how to explain this.. i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me i just want to feel more connected when we have sex instead of just fucking and then thats it, like we don't really say much after we just put our clothes on and thats it hah. How can i get my boyfriend to be more connected? What should i do about this? Any advice? (link)
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I know what you mean and you explained it correctly you should explain it the same way to him .it seems like you want it slow and you want to be told i love you and your beautiful while having sex and after that lay there and just talk fall asleep in each others arm.
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How do I eat a girl out and have her enjoy it enough to orgasm? (link)
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play with the clittious in circular motion with your tongue suck on a sligthly im sure it will make her go crazy good luck.
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My best friend commited suicide on the first of this month.. N idk what do with myself anymore. She was everything to me.. we were so close n we were even blood sisters (meaning we poked our fingers and touched our blood together). I met her in the behavorial health hospital n i knew we both had depression, but she always said she'd call me if she was thinking those thoughts again. But she didn't.. N i feel even worse cuz I was supposed to be with her that day too! I feel like I could've stopped her or something. I'm lost without her.. I don't feel like I can do this without her. What should I do? Please Help Me! (link)
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your going through a really hard time in your life they say that hardest times only make you stronger. you sound like a caring and a positive person everything will be just fine .It was her choice im sure she has her own reason too but I believe that you can make it and move on you just have to allow yourself to move on let the past be the best its natural to miss someone that meant so much to you but just know that shes watching over you now and would want the best for you.now its in your hands to save yourself .i dont know if you believe in god or whats your religioun or whatever path you follow im a catholic i believe in praying god causes he always helps me through my toughest moments in life .keep your head up and good luck.
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i heard they think about it a lot, how much would that be? like a number range? (link)
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well ive heared that guys thinks about sex at least every 5 to 10 mins.
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16/f
I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend about a week ago. We used a condom, and I'm pretty sure the condom had spermicide on it. He also pulled out before anything happened just to be safe. I am going on the pill for any future intercourse, but I just wanted to know if I had any legitimate reason to be worried. I don't believe I came in contact with any of his precum or anything. My period is due in a week - a week and a half. (link)
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wow, way to go ..
im confident that your not pregnant dont worry and if your period doesnt come on the right date your fine because having sex the first time can change your cycle good luck.
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im 15 and basically i was at a party , and we were drinking .. a lot . i've never been so drunk in my entire life . there was this guy there , only a year older that i'd never met before and we were on the couch and out of no where , seriously , he starts making out with me (worst kisser btw, ugh) and then eventually we stopped but then he kept pulling my hand to his fuckin crotch and wouldn't stop so to shut him up i did what he wanted, and that eventually ended up with a blow job. and by morning EVERYONE at the party knew. so humiliating, and of course you have the rumours and shit.. i was just wondering how i can get rid of the embarassment? its been MONTHS now and i still feel like a hoe :(.. oh ima girl btw :P (link)
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immature kids with there little rumors ,all i can say is keep your head up and dont make the same mistake twice people are always going to talk so fuck them .it is embarassing but if you kearned form it and ignore all the stupid people its gona be over soon.good luck
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Please don't judge me! I made a mistake and just want advice. Thanks.
The other night I was at a party and had too much to drink. I ended up messing around with this guy. We kissed and I gave him a hj. He asked if I wanted to have sex, and I said no (im a virgin). He didn't argue. Later on I'm pretty sure he fingered me. I was on top of him, and I'm almost 100% positive we didnt have sex, but he was hard and i felt his.. through my pants, like i had pants on, but i was still moving on top of him just to feel it because i was horny haha. i was a tiny bit sore when i stood up, but nothing major. and i didnt bleed. but the next day everyone was like you guys had sex and you were so loud. and apparently even the kid told them all we had sex. but i dont remember and i know thats horrible! im not sure if hes lying or what. i have no way of talking to this guy. i remember him telling me he doesnt use condoms. but i am on the pill. but is there any way to find out for sure if i had sex without going to a doctor? like wouldnt i know by how my body feels? im so worried. please help! thanks! (link)
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sounds like you two didnt have sex but when you drink too much you dont have that much control or memory (i would try to get in contact with him if it is possible)but if not i would take some sort of test for diseases or something thats why the doctors are here for so dont be shy.(maybe you guys dried humped each other cause people moan when doing that dry hump is rubbing two bodies together)or maybe your friends are just trying to scare you saying they heared you screaming the only way you will know is by going to the doctors.
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Alright my boyfriend and i were fooling around and some precum leaked through his his boxers AND shorts and then he brushed it and then touched me. he didn't insert his finger in me, but just touched that general area. am i safe? I'm just a paranoid person and normally i'm extremely careful and he says that he didn't get anything on his finger before touching me but can someone just tell me the chances are extremely small to ease my mind. (link)
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no big deal if he touched it with really wet fingers then there would be a possibility or if he fingered you.
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okay so im new to this whole sex thing. i've heard girls talk about when they "explode" or something related to that.im just wondering what this means, how it happens, etc. also after your done having sex i read that a lot of people cuddle with each other, or go to sleep but i was just wondering, since the girl usually gets wet, isn't like the sheets going to be all wet and gross and doesn't the girl feel gross afterwards? how can people just like lay there after they are all wet? maybe im thinking totally wrong but i just don't have a clue so if you guys could give some advice i'd really appreciate it! (link)
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when a girl is wet she doesnt wet the whole bed thats impossible its a little bit of vagina secretion just enough to wet your underwear sometimes your jeans or whatever your wearing doesnt even get wet.if you are planning on having sex try researching more good luck
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i just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last week. we were talking about it tonight and he was saying how i cant last long enough to get him off and was asking if im a virgin. i cant help but take this as an insult. im not a virgin but have only had sex a few times before him. should i be embarassed or insulted by this?
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im 19 if it helps (link)
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sounds like an insult to me his not a very nice person you should let him know that you werent too happy with his comment if he brush it off then theres something wrong he should apologize or at least show that he cares.good luck
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