Question Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 6:21 pm
Please don't judge me! I made a mistake and just want advice. Thanks.
The other night I was at a party and had too much to drink. I ended up messing around with this guy. We kissed and I gave him a hj. He asked if I wanted to have sex, and I said no (im a virgin). He didn't argue. Later on I'm pretty sure he fingered me. I was on top of him, and I'm almost 100% positive we didnt have sex, but he was hard and i felt his.. through my pants, like i had pants on, but i was still moving on top of him just to feel it because i was horny haha. i was a tiny bit sore when i stood up, but nothing major. and i didnt bleed. but the next day everyone was like you guys had sex and you were so loud. and apparently even the kid told them all we had sex. but i dont remember and i know thats horrible! im not sure if hes lying or what. i have no way of talking to this guy. i remember him telling me he doesnt use condoms. but i am on the pill. but is there any way to find out for sure if i had sex without going to a doctor? like wouldnt i know by how my body feels? im so worried. please help! thanks!
ella15 answered Wednesday November 5 2008, 7:46 pm: sounds like you two didnt have sex but when you drink too much you dont have that much control or memory (i would try to get in contact with him if it is possible)but if not i would take some sort of test for diseases or something thats why the doctors are here for so dont be shy.(maybe you guys dried humped each other cause people moan when doing that dry hump is rubbing two bodies together)or maybe your friends are just trying to scare you saying they heared you screaming the only way you will know is by going to the doctors. [ ella15's advice column | Ask ella15 A Question ]
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