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I have recently started squirting a lot, and getting really wet when I am having sex. It feels great, yeah, and the guy I am seeing seems to enjoy it as well but I keep getting wetter and wetter when we have sex (not all the time do I get wet but about every other night we sleep together) and its almost starting to gross me out, like I should be doing this in a bathtub. How much do guys enjoy girls getting really wet and squirting when they orgasm? thanks! (link)
yes

I would die,,probably kill,literally,kill a person to have a girl that squirts and actually can have an orgasm. You know how many girls out there actually have an orgasm? Very few. You know how many girls squirt? Almost none.

You have a very lucky guy. I admit that I have an extremely huge ego and this is one of the rarest times I'm gonna say this: I envy him.


Okay this is so random and stuff but I was just wondering if guys like when girls moan. I was with my best friend and we had a 6 some. I guess you could say then she started having sex and she didn't moan at all and neither did the other girls there. I was like what? I thought guys loved moaning. None of them moaned. Why? thats so crazy i always moan. always. im confused. please explain. (link)
erm first of all

theman below me has no F***** idea about the question at all

ok,well,guys LOVE..i repeat...LOVE moaning,yes..so you don't have to worry.why do you think girls moan in pornos.

basically hun,anything a girl does in a porno,is the right thing...and let me tell you personally as a guy.i'm 19 by the way...the one thing that can turn us on more than a hot body is a hot body experiencing orgasm.seriously think about it..hot still body OR hot writhing body full of moans and orgasm?well not to get too graphic but basically what i'm saying is

turning a girl on is a turn on...yes,lol...ironic i know


so this may be an immature question but when a guy fingers a girl does he go all the way into the vagina or just around the outside? (link)
erm i'm a guy and we usually start outside before goin in,sometimes,the rough ones would just go in straight

nowadays though the guys like to stimulate the g spot which is about like 2 inches into the vagina on the upper wall so be prepared for that too

ciao


i heard the song called pearl necklace by zz top. and i liked it but didnt quite know what it meant. i started singing it the other day in front of my mom && she got snobby && asked if i knew. but i just agreed.what does it mean. i do know it`s sex related. (link)
well basically,you know like after or sometimes before sex,when the guy does a handjob for himself and he ejacultes and all the cum starts to shoot out

yeah,if it lands at the neck or the chest area of the girl it's usually called a pearl necklace,wierdly,it's one of the fav places to ejaculate upon besides the face.


i love my boyfriend a lot and i lost my virginity to him, its just that when we have sex he only lasts about 5 min! EVERYTIME! and its usually always the same position, i want him to last longer and be more spontaneous/wild in bed.. yet i cant say anything or else ill make him feel bad!! how can i get him to loosen up and try different things!! please HELP! (link)
try more oral first,and like ask him to change position like every 2 minutes

do oral again,after 2 position,so he doesn't cum too fast

like,plead to him to lick your pussy halfway through

be on top of him,so you can control the motions.

download hardcore porn,and watch it with him


im 16 and female and have been having sex for over a year now so don't go into the whole im too young for sex crap.
i like having sex with my boyfriend, but i've heard that if you make him want you more, the sex for you will be greater.
can you all give me some good advice to ways to REAllY turn my boyfriend on & make him really want me?
i would kind of like guys to answer this question only.
thanks in advance (link)
1)lick his ear,real turn on,guide your tongue round his earlobe while rubbing your hand against his crouch

2)dry hump him and laugh,he will really get in the mood,do it with a flimsy short school skirt on and it'll be better

3)watch tv with him and suddenly put your hands in his pants and grab his dick,but just continue looking at the screen while stroking him

4)blinfold him and guide his head to lick where you want,and don't let him have it all at once

5)ask him to come into your room to help you out with your dress choice,then take off your clothes but put your bra and panties on,and just try on sexy revealing clothes.

hope i helped


ok im 13 and im in middle school and there is this kid who is ubsesed with me and he has told me i want to have "IT" whith u!
im not redy for that im 13 yo soo what should i do? im scard he will bad mouth about me if i dont and if i do he will tell everyone and then ill be called a slut so what should i do? :( (link)
this guy is obviously a selfish bastard,dont' do it because he will just treat you like dirt afterwards.Stay away from him and keep yourself for a better guy


Hey. I was looking at someone else's question about shaving "down there" and I was wondering about shaving. A few questions like do guys expect hair or no hair? If you are a guy what do you think/ would want?
Thanks. (link)
okay actually a majority of guys love girls that are clean.They find it easier to look at, to touch,to do oral with, and it sure looks sexier when you are doing it and it's just pure flesh rather than all the hair.Especially when a girl gets wet,guys love to see the flesh wet rather than a mob of hair all over cause it looks kinda gross.

I guess it's the same like legs and armpits,guys get turned off by a girl with hairy legs or armpits.


do guys care if a girl has really small boobs i mean when you are like having sex and they take your bra off would they be little turned off about it please help i am 15 105pounds and have an A cup and i feel really uncomfortable about it and i really want to have sex soon so guys what would you think (link)
okay,first of all I as a guy do care about a gal's body of course.But what is definitely more important is skills and personality.Lots of my friends said they have girls with large boobs who were useless in bed and tiny boob girls who gave them the best sex in their whole lives.So first, you must be good at skills such as oral and if you learn deepthroating it's an extra extra extra plus.Believe me, guys would rather have a geeky normal gal that can deepthroat than a hot blonde with big boobs who can't.And next is personality, most guys love girls who are violent,not too violent and verbal, in a sense that you scream or moan with words rather than just noise.
Once you have the skills,attitude and voice, he won't even care if you are flat.,trust me.


I have been with my now boyfriend for a while. It is obvious that we both want to have sex but we never have. I really want to and I feel it would be a great experiance being my first time and all but sense he has never tryd and ive never done it before i dont really know how to make it happen if you know what I mean. I dont really want to say right now "lets have sex" i just want it to happen naturaly and have it be sweet but i think that he doesnt want to pressure me but i am ready and i want to. i will rate high on anyone that can help me figure out how to make it happen in an un-weird way (link)
okay i'm a guy and i had the same problem with my gal cause we were both nervous,so most guys will wait for girls to start cause if they are the sensitive type they won't want to make you feel pressured or anything like that.here are some tips that me and my friends have come up with

1)While you guys are talking, slide your finger in his mouth and take out repeatedly, then slide your hands down to his pants but don't unzip it and rub it gently.I guarantee he will be all over you in a milisecond.

2)The funny thing about guys is that they are more turned on with girls that show a little than a girl that bares all.For instance,we like to do girls with uniforms on or with shoes on,yeah i know it's wierd.So you shouldn't walk in the room naked.You should show a lot of legs and thighs and definitely let him sit on the couch while you stand on the couch in front of him and wear a mini skirt.Instant sex.

3)While you guys make out, rub yourself on his cock,something like dry humping, but more rubbing,the rest is yours.


hey my name is rachel and i have been having cyber sex online and i think iam addicted to it i've tried to stop but i can't I want to stop before my parents find out please help me. (link)
okay,i'm a guy/18 and firstly I just wanna tell you that what you are doing is not retarded or stupid as most peeps say because in a recent survey, cyber has been known to be more......pleasing in a sense that the human brain can imagine and fantasize much more than reality, plus you get to do crazy stuff that you probably won't try in real life and finally, you don't lose your virginity or your identity.

Next, i used to do cyber a lot,with about fifty girls for months and months but i managed to quit.I think the key is to try a new hobby/interest or maybe masturbate before cybering.At least that's what i did and i stopped the habit after a 10 month non stop cyber spree.I think that you must believe that all addictions can be stopped if you want it too,I stopped cybering and watching porn cause maybe i got bored of it,but there are other ways,what i'm basically saying is that addiciton is a choice and humans are capable of stopping a habit if they find the suitable and right way for them to stop it.




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