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i just recently moved from northwest Indiana to Dayton, Ohio with my boyfriend Brian. We've been together for 3+ years (as of 07/15/01). i am an office manager at a local painting company. I currently drive a new 2004 Black Chevy Malibu LS. I love to go shopping, watching movies, minigolfing, and bowling. some of my favorite music artists are: Britney Spears, Jessica Simpson, Christina Aguilera, Hilary Duff, Justin Timberlake, Ashlee Simpson.

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ok well ive been going out with this guy for a while..(im 15 and hes 17). weve talked about sex and we both really want to do it. any advice on how to prepare or anything else? thank you!

just have protection that's for sure. i would hate for you to get pregnant at a young age. i still think your a little young. but just make sure your prepared. and take it nice and slow!

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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE

Honestly i doubt you are pregnant. My boyfriend and i have had that situation a few times. We use protection and my period is late. Once it was late by a month. I was never pregnant. You are probably worried and stressing out that you are pregnant. Therefore it is making your period delayed. I wouldn't be worried about being pregnant until you are a month or more late. Then i'd take a pregnancy test.

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ok...im 17/m senior and ive never been n a relationship...ive been on dates with 2 ppl in my life and the last one i went out w/ 3 times...but thats done...i been told a lot recently how good ilook and how hott i am, but this is way new for me....i dont think ive ever even gotten a look from a gurl till now...im a popular guy, not the most, but every1 knows me...im a funny guy...but wats wrong w/ me...i mean i just got my first kiss! wtf...help plz. ha

i was 17 when i got my first boyfriend. (still with him today luckily!). just take your time and don't rush or worry about it. I used to be sad about it because all of my friends had boyfriends. But you can't sit around and worry about finding the opposite sex. just be yourself and you will find her one day. You said you are funny. That is a very good quality in a guy.

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Okay, this is a weird question, I'm sure...but I figure I may as well see what y'all say.
Okay...my boyfriend kind of has a thing for "dirty talk" and I think it's totally ridiculous. I start laughing whenever he says something and expects me to respond. I think it bothers him that I keep giggling, but I can't help it! To me, it just seems so totally fake and stupid...
I mean, I've tried playing along, but I just feel so awkward and stupid, saying things like...that...
Should I try to do something about my giggling problem (lol)? Should I tell him I just can't do it? What do you guys think?

Honestly i'm not for dirty talk either. Luckily my boyfriend isn't into it either. I would be laughing too. You need to talk to him and tell him your not comfortable doing it. If he's being serious about talking 'dirty' when you are giggling. I'm sure it upsets him. But that's where you need to tell him you are just not comfortable. Maybe there is something else you guys could do for fun that isn't so uncomfortable.

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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate!

ha ! sounds like my boyfriend. I believe some guys are just like that. They show affection when they want. It may not be as much as you want or when you want it. That's just how they are. Maybe there's even something wrong, he feels uncomfortable doing it ? If you two talk it out you might find out more, as to why he won't show affection as much. Make sure you let him know what affection you like. If he doesn't know then he can't do it. If he does something you like. Mention that you love when he does that or that he should do it more. If he's not the type to show that much affection theres really nothing you can do but complain and that will just get on his nerves.

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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?

hmm.. This is tricky. If i was in your girlfriends shoes. I would want to know about your past relationships (whether it's a guy or girl). Honestly i would be more curious as to why you were in a gay relationship then and now your in a straight relationship. If she is a good girl she might be upset at first because you didn't tell her. But i think she will stick with you, if you have something good going (in your relationship). I mean if you were expiramenting that's understandable. Lots of people expirament. As for her not finding out who it is. That's going to be tough since she knows him. I'm sure one of her first questions are going to be 'who was he?' Your either going to have to tell her the truth. Or keep it as simple as possible.

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hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him??

Yes you have to tell him. I'm assuming your positive he is the father. He has the right to know. If i were you i would tell him as soon as possible. I would tell him in person too. You two need to find out what you are going to do about this situation. Because even though you broke up he is not out of the picture. Unless you let him get away. He is the father and he needs to be apart of the baby's life, as well as yours (not together just keeping contact with each other). You two need to figure out a plan as of what you both are going to do with the future of this child.

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