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I've had sex, quite a bit, And I can't cum! Like it just doesn't happen!! I don't understand, it still feels good..just nothing like breath taking I guess. any ideas!? =( (link)
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dont feel wierd at all..it happens to many people. your obviously getting 'wet'/enjoying it or it would really hurt and not feel right. you just might be the type of person who doesnt discharge excessively. about the breath taking part, that has nothing to do with a lack of discharge! hes just not hitting your gspot and your not having an orgasm, pr getting that feeling..eventually it will happen and youll somewhat get a 'breath taking' feel(:
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Do you lose weight from masterbating? (link)
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well not necessarily..
usually if you masterbate with another person,
you lose calories..but im not sure about yourself..
hope i helped (:
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ok. im a 15/f and i have a lot of guy friends. and they have been telling me that they want to makeout and finger me. okk. this might sound weird but i really need to kno. soo lik when a guy fingers you lik is there suppose to be lik that clear gel on the guys finger. (you kno the clear gel that a girl has sometimes before or after having her period?!). cause im not sure exactly how its going to feel or be like when the guy(s) finger me, cause i have never been fingered before. thxx. and please i need to know soon. cause im getting together with one of my guy friends this weekend. and we are going to the movies and he wants to make out, finger me, and touch me. also, i was wondering if it was really weird if he does that to me in the movies.. or do you think we should do it somewhere else?? i appreciate your answers!!!!
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rj,
that clear stuff, is totally normal..
and trust me..the whole fingering process might seem weird but its really good on your part ;]
and making out in a movie theatre and touching is totally fine..but i personally thing that him fingering you would be a little weird..expecially if its your first time..because usually your pants need to be down a little bit..and if other people are there...or walking past you..they might get a little grossed out or something..but i hoped i helped and if you need anything else..just leave it in my inbox
goodluck and have fun :)
-Bri
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i had sex for my first time on friday night.
it went good, although we didnt use a condom, he asked me where he should jizz and i gave him a towel then he stuck it back in..
could i be pregnant? (link)
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well im not saying yes you are and im not saying no..but pre cum or ANYTHING like that can get you pregnant..but i guess it might depend..if you start getting nervous..take a pregnancy test in a few weeks...but more than likely im going to say you arent..
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The other day I went over to this guys house because I have been in love with him for almost a year. I have dated him two times before but my mom band me from him because he is eighteen. He wanted me to come over to finish a video that we had watched once before. But he had promised me that was all we were going to do. So I told my mom I was going to a friend's house and would be home by six. Well I went there and all I meant to do intentionally was watch the movie. Well I laid back on his bed then he laid back by me and put his arm around me. Then he pretended like he was asleep but I knew better so punched him in the side. Then he rolled over and held my arms down and licked my nose because he knows how much I hate that. Everytime he did it he laughed and kept moving closer to my face to the point my nose was touching his and our lips were practically touching everytime we talked or laughed. Then he just kissed me and we like made out for half an hour. Then he started fingering me for like ten minutes. Then I gave him head until he cummed. After that we had sex. When we were done he went to take a shower and I went down there to fix my hair. He said don't try to get in the shower with me, prostitution is bad. I told him I wouldn't have to try and asked him if he just called me a whore. He said no, if he called me a whore he would have said it to my face. So when I was in the bathroom he took off his clothes and kissed me. He then told me if I wanted to join then I could, then he got in the shower. I stood there not sure what I should do. I sat there and thought about what I should he stuck his head out and told me to come here. So I did actually thinking he was going to pull me in but he kissed me. After about 5 minutes I finally broke and just got into the shower with him. After that I started thinking I was a slut. I mean I had slept with three guys. Him, one of his friends, and this one guy I had dated at my school. I had slept with him about 8 times, his friend once, and that one guy 3 times. So now I don't know if I am or not. So I'm actually kinda confused. SO PLEASE respond to this. I'm really confused!!! (link)
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no i dont think your a slut at all..im the same way..i slept with 3 people and my ex boyfriend was eighteen and my mom didnt like that but even when we broke up we still had sex..but your not a slut at all..i think a slut would be considerd somebody who sex sex with TONS of different guys one after another yah know?:..like without feeling any emotion for any them...(:
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I just recently fingered a girl and i wanted to know why she didnt orgasm, this was my 4th time fingering her and she has never orgasmed, she just sits there and its a little wierd. Is there something im doing wrong. I don't insert my whole finger but i am rubbing pretty hard, Any advice?? thanks (link)
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it can take a girl a while to organsm..also since your not inserting your "whole" finger that can have something to do with it too..and dont just put one it..you can put 2 and it might be better.but yeah alot of the times girls orgasm during sex but if she does when u finger her it can take more than 4 times
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im not going to be too graphic or harsh, because i dont want this to be too inapropriate for the site. this is a serious question, and im not trying to be wise or anything. when you give someone head, do you have to stick his whole penis in your mouth? (link)
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well its all on what you can do and handle..usually guys like when u "deepthroat"
and like put as much of it in as you can..but do whatever your really comfortable with..
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If a guy doesn't come in you, is it considered sex? (link)
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yes it is...once his penis goes into you, you have had sex
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i have a friends with benefits
weve only been doing it since last week
my hormones are raging rightnow, like i am having a ton of sex dreams about him.
hes coming over next weekend
what are some detailed things we can do without going all the way..
guys answer too please, from experience what pleases both of us, and is kind of different
thanks (link)
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well this might sound weird..but if you get like a long necklace of fake pearls...wear them all day and get them hott from body heat, and that night snuggily but still loose wrap it around his penis it will get him going..but i dont know about you..maybe he will think of something
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kay a lot of my friends have been to second (aka, jerking off, fingering, whatever). im not ready for that, but i will probably be soon. it just seems kind of awkward for me- like where are you supposed to look or say or anything while you jerk a guy off or get fingered?! what is the etiquette for those kind of things? lol. i know it sounds funny but it's true! (link)
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well when you do "second base" you dont have to look or say anything if you dont want to..like you can iss while your doing it or whatever..in the beginning it will seem a little awkward but you will get used to it..there is no "etiquet" for it though..just do what you feel is right
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I'm a teenage g i r l. There's a guy who I want to hook up with, and we planned it for next month. I want to do it really badly, as I'm not a christian so I can do whatever I want sexually. But the thing is: I just can't decide if the pleasure is worth the guilt I'll suffer from- if there IS going to be any guilt. I just don't know how guilty I'd feel afterwards. Especially IF and WHEN i happen to meet someone worth dating or marrying.
All advice will be appreciated. (link)
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if you want to hook up with someone, go ahead. i dont see what is stopping you. beacuse most likely if you do find someone on the firute worth dating and worth getting married to, they will love//like you too wuch to have thatimpact their decision anyways...i mean i like by boyfriend more than alot and when we started dating i thought he wasnt going to like the fact that i had sex before him but her really didnt care..he told me that he likes me for me and as long as i dont change how i am now he wants nothing less...soo if i were you i would go for it...just if you do, dont be guilty because you know it is something you wanted...so dont regret(=
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Alright. My boyfriend and I have thought a LOT about having sex with each other. I really want to and I'm ready but I'm only 15, and if I explained to my folks that I need birth control, they'd kill me. I know I'm ready because we've been dating for quite sometime, and I'm very in love with him and I want him to be my first. We've planned to stay together for a while and I'm not one of those girls who just blabber on and on about how I love this person so so so much. I take things seriously and I don't say I love you every 5 minutes because it's something very special to say. Not only do you have a healthy, good physical relationship with each other, we've got an amazing emotional one too. We're so open with each other, it throws me off guard sometimes. He's my best friend in the whole wide world and we even broke up with each other a few months ago but we never stopped talking like we do now and we didn't stop seeing other. He's amazing, I love him, and we can't ever get enough of each other. At school, we're together, and then after school we're on the phone until bedtime. Then on weekends we're together. Theres always things to talk about when we're together and theres always things to do. We get along amazingly and we have a really strong connection. Hes so practical and logical too. He's very smart with his decisions and he's helped me along so well. I've had a lot happen to me the past few years and I went off track but now my life is great and things are going smoothly. See now I want to have sex with him, and I already think my parents suspect that we fool around. Would fooling around be considered sexually active? Do I sound ready for sex? Someone please help me, I've talked to him about this as well and he doesn't know what to do. We need some clearing up!! (link)
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well just to let you know i am sexually active with my boyfriend and i am also 15 years old.
-it sounds to me that your ready, and that he is too.. the first time you have sex expecially since its with someone you love should be a very soulfull experience and it seems like you have it
-now with the birthcontrol..you can ask your doctor and they will give it to you and not tell your parents..thats what i did and then when i was ready i told my mom..you can also get birthcontrol at plan parent hood..but even if you do go on birthcontrol make sure u still use a condom for at least your first cycle. beacuse birthcontrol doesnt prevent chlimydia hiv or anything like that..just as long as you know that and that you know everything that BC has to do with..good luck (:
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what is something that turns a lot of people on? like kissing on the neck and stuff like that! (link)
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okay well first i will give this to you from my (girl) perspective.. i love getting kissed on the neck.(with out hickies)
also a little nibble on the ear might work lol..
but my boyfriend started this thing were he lightly blows on my neck or something, i dont even know what it is lol.. but i love it.
when a guy smells good esp. axe..
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now what ive noticed or what my boyfriend likes is when i kisshis neck,,the ear thing..umm try biting his lip..(not hard though) and even whe your fooling around and if the boy sticks the tongue in a girls mouth suck the in yah know?..haha but that might work too
i hope it was a help
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The last time I had sex with my boyfriend was 2 weeks ago. My period is not due for another week or so. My stomach has been feeling weird now, I feel fatter/heavier, and I just don't feel well. When is the best time to take a pregnancy test and have it accurate? Is it a week before your first missed period or something like that? (link)
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the best time to take a hpt is at least a week AFTER. you have to make sure you arent just bloated beause your getting your period or something to that matter..
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how long do you think a perfect sex should last,and please don't answer "as long as it should",i mean some girls say 30 min some say 20 min at lesat.and what is your ideal sex time?or what was the shortest sex period you had?
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Well..ill start off by telling you that my shortest was about 30 minutes maybe and my longest was like 3 hours! i thnk the best time is at night with either really low lights or even none at all. but everyone is different with when they "finish" normally sex shouldnt be less than 15 or twenty minutes and it can go on for as long as you or he wants it..like one of my friends, she only had sex for 10 minues one time and she was perfectly fine with that. but the best thing i can tell you is make it exciting and do different positions. make him want more :P
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