If you are waiting until after you are married because you are part of a religious belief that you should not participate in sexual acts until you are married, masturbation is a sin.

i would kind of show him that its okay. like while you are kissing. touch his back and shoulders, he might get the hint. or if not, take his hands and put them on your stomach or lower back.

hope this helps.

honestly you cant really tell.

when you are being felt up a guy mostly just touches your boobs. there is alot bigger of a deal made about it than it actually is.

honestly i think that alot of girls are like that. especially with really close friends. there is nothing wrong with it, you are just confortable with who you are and your sexuality. there is nothing wrong with expressing that, and also that definitely does not make you anything other than straight, because you arent having any deep feelings for these girls.

i would not consider it in that category at all. it is not as if you are eating semen. yes, you would digest it, but a product from another human is not considered in that sense. When you are making out with someone, saliva is exchanged, and that is another human byproduct, you can consider this in the same way.

you may have a yeast infection. your boyfriends fingers may not have been extremely clean before he fingered you. this could cause definite irritation. you may need to buy a treatment at cvs, or brooks, or a similar store to heal it. yeast infections are normal. almost every girl will eventually get them. if the problem persists after treating it, or it worsens you should definitely see a doctor or school nurse.

i hope this helps.

the words basically descrive the actions.
but oral means that you use your mouth on your partner..and anal means that you have intercourse in your anal cavity(sorry that sounds vulgar)

an orgasm is like the height of sexual pleasure. its when , during sex, or other activities, you climax...or reach a peak.

for along time i decided that i wanted to wait until marraige. it really bothered and confused me that so many of my friends and people i knew were having sex so young, with people they werent really in love with. also, the whole pregnancy thing freaked me out. i was with my current boyfriend for almost a year before we started talking about it. when he first mentioned it i told him i definitely wasnt ready.. and he waited. about two months later, he asked again. he said he didnt want to pressure me because he loved me. he just wanted to know ehy i didnt want to. i explained that i didnt feel old enough, and i didnt think that it was necessary at the time. i waited until about a month later. i told him i was completely ready.
i was really nervous, but i never thought i was making the wrong decision. i think that because i waited until i was completely ready, i didnt regret it. i was completely in love, and still am when it happened. its all about feeling comfortable, and wanting to be closer to the person you are with. whether you believe it or not, sex definitely brings people alot closer together. afterwards, it was like i loved him so much more than i had before. you just need to be sure that you are sticking to your own beliefs and personal values before you decide to take the step. it really is a big step, and you can never go back.

i hope this helped :)

honestly, it depends on yourself, and what you are comfortable with. just be careful to protect yourself when you are sexually active. you arent a slut in my opinion if you are doing things with your boyfriend.

i recently decided to go on birth control.
to get on birthcontrol, you need to see a gynocologyst, and get a pap smear. depending on if you've had sex before or anything like that, this may or may not hurt you. birth control is a really good idea. it WILL NOT protect you from HIV , STDS, or any other sexually transmitted conditions. i do feel that it is a good idea to be used in combination with condoms. teenage pregnancy is becoming more and more common. side effects are different with each pill. your doctor can tell you specifics. the general side effects are very rare. some include blood clotting and liver disease. remember that these are extremely rare. however, if a history of liver or heart problems run in your family, the pill may not be right for you. the only cons of the pill are that you need to take it everyday. if you are forgetful this might be a problem. it should be taken everyday regularly to get the most protection. the other obvious downside to the pill are the side effects i have already mentiond, which are again very rare. i feel that there are many good reasons to get on the pill. it is a personal decision , and if you are sexually active it is a good idea. having a child way before you are ready, can mess things up for your future; or your reputation.
i hope this was helpful, sorry it was a long read.

obviously there isnt a problem because 8 year olds do have sex...not as often as someone older...but nevertheless they do .... and maybe you should mind youre own buissiness...if people wanna have sex let them....dont post gay questions like this because they dont loose respect....think about it im not gonna walk up to someone whose lost their viginity and say''i dont respect you you fucked you boyfriend...god! get a life and become part of the real world...to everyone else...use a condom :) or get on the pill if youre ready for sex

i know for a fact that they can tell if you masturbate. however, they dont know if you did it or your boyfriend or whoever was getting ''intamate'' with you. they cannot tell your mother, or anyone for that matter, itsillegal . tell her not to worry.

if your mom isnt going to understand and you dont want to tell her, maybe stock up on ones from school for awhile and maybe get a job and buy your own. when you do buy your own, i suggest tampons. and you can go on tampax.com or any other website for feminine products and get free samples.

I think you should just tell her that it isnt the right thing. I mean, dont yell at her, bit ask her to really think about it and what choice shes making. Ask her about what would happen if she got pregnant.

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man wat if she likes it? i guess i like it...i was just...surprised. no, im not young HAHA im really laughing. i bet more ppl have it than u think...and if its "pubic" than it would grow back fast and i dont want a high-maintenance barbie...thoughts?


sorrry im not following what you said. um what are we talking about? sorry im stupid. answer back.

well i actually think thats dicusting...no offense to your girlfriend...i dont know what you can say to her without hurting her feelings...maybe have one of her friends talk to her about it? Of all the girls i know they all shave because hair is just nasty! i mean what the hell does she do in the summer when she wears a bathing suit!!!

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you can almost always only get preganant when you are ovulating. when you are having your period that has already happened for that cycle. And yes, you can have sex while you are having your period, as long as your partner doesn't mind the extra umm lumbrication.
hope this helps.
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yes it is perfectly safe

Hey. Come to me with all your problems i have great answers.ummm i guess thats it....o yeah...heres some advice...dont run on a sprained ankle!!! baddd experience!:):):):)

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