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hey i love to play basketball i've played since i was 3 and i run everyday and i work out!! i love to cook and to give advice i dont judge people but i try to read them and explain what i think about them!! i can be a girlie girl but i love getting down in dirrty....i wrestle with the guys and i always win(and no they dont let me win!!) well if you need advice send me something!!
Gender: Female
Location: monroe
Occupation: i play basketball, volleyball,swimming, track&field, i babysitt an di cook for my family anf friends
Age: 14
Member Since: October 28, 2005
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Last Update: October 30, 2005
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well i want to have sex with my bf. but i want to know if he has std's or anything like that. i want to ask him but i think it would be awkward. can someone give me advice on how to ask? thank you!! (link)
ask him in a way where he would have have to think about what ur trying to ask him lik ehey i was wondering if there was something going on inside you that could transfer to me.......lets go get it check you know.....WELL if you need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009


i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good. (link)
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if your on birthcontrol it will help you.but it would be safer if u used a condom.i doubt your pregant but i would check just in case!!


ok im a young female...i know a lot the basics and terms about sex and whatever, and i know im not ready to do it, but i dont know like how it works. is it weird that i wana watch porn, not to get horny from it, but just to see how its done? is it wrong? dont say im too young to watch it, but its bugging me of thinking about how to do it (even though i wont for many more years). just help me please. thanks. (link)
personally i think it would be good to watch one that has people doing it and like a close up soo you know how to when the time comes i can tell you quickly the quy touches you down there and finds the hole and puts it in and yeah or he just sticks it down there and when it goes in he starts to have sex with you but if you dont understand or need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009


When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him? (link)
ohh god no thats just telling him hey i like it over here not there and he'll think its soo sexy when you do that....but when you get to your spot let go and let him do all the work he enjoy doing it and watching your expressions


how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex? (link)
when you and your guy/girl are alone and your all touchy kissing and crap and he asks you or you ask him and you want to then thats the time but if your unsure then dont and tell him.her that......when the time comes you'll know it and feel it in your heart!!


I need some 1 2 help me out on this one when ever im with my girlfriend and i hold her hand i get a boner how can i cantrol that cause its really embarassing and i need help fast plz (link)
okay well you could try to wear tight underwear or you could try not to think of it in a sexuall way ... tell her you need to go to the bathroom and jerk it off quick and maybe that'll help i dono ned more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009


okay i shave my private right! well how do i shave to wear i dont have razor burns or red marks? i rate 5's (link)
okay you could get it waxed but it would be red for like 1 day or you can use shaving cream or hair remover...i use a razor and i dont get red marks or anythng but everyone is different hope everything works out down there hee hee hee!!


My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not? (link)
yes you could be pregnant but i doubt it.....because you can get your period late or if your active in psorts or even stressed out you can mis you period.and if your ona diet you can miss it or be late i wouldnt worrry about it just try to do somethign that will take your mind off of it!! write me back if you have more questions about it at bigJ2009




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