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okay so im 14 and there's a guy whos been sending me sexual texts like "heyy;)" and "are you in your room;)" and before it used to be "hey:)" also he has been getting more touchy feely with me. I'm kind of curious about all of the whole sexual relations and whatnot but i am thinking that id feel guilty afterwards and school would just be really awkward. i want to give in and see what its like but then again i dont... any advice? (link)
DO NOT GIVE IN! You are WAY too young to be involved sexually. You're just a kid. And if you do give you will regret it when you're older. Wait until marriage. Plus if you give in now, he'll know he can get you to do anything he wants. Don't give in.


I am 18/F and I'm still a virgin, I know now a days that's "something to be proud of" and I should want to wait forthat right person and blah blah but I don't want to wait, it's not because of society, or peer pressure or else I would've already done it by now, but I want to have sex, I'm ready I just don't know how to accomplish this goal. I've only had one boyfriend when I was 16 and I wasnt ready then. What should I do so I can finally have sex? (link)
I know this isn't what you want to hear.... But wait! I know right now you want to do it very badly... But! When you are older you will regret having lost your virginity to someone other than your husband. Wait, until marriage.



me and my dad have unprotected anal sex

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I have a feeling this question is a troll.... But in case not. You need to stop immediately and tell someone! I don't know of your age... But having intercourse with a family is called incest and is illegal! Please stop now and confide in someone you trust!


i wanna know what does masterbate mean? (link)
I cut copied and pasted this from the dictionary. Definition of Masturbation is " The Stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual pleasure."


Im a girl but I dont want to be. I dfress like a guy act like a guy. I even play tackle football. I spit burp fart. And the whole bargain I recently got my period and I feelweird. I hatre being a girl. Wjhat do i do? (link)
just be calm


I am considering committing suicide and killing myself. I am need of easy suicide methods that are relatively painless so I do not suffer any more than required for death. I am in a bad situation in my life. I did some very bad things that cannot be forgiven. I figured it was best to commit suicide now before I make any more bonds with my surrounding community members. I live alone, am not married, and have no children to leave or hurt by my death. I found this site and felt it may be helpful in getting my deserved rest from this world. I do not want to continue to make mistakes in my life and dying will prevent me from doing wrong again.

Please, help me. (link)
Seek help from a therapist. Killing yourslef is never the answer to ANYTHING. No matter what you did. What ever you did could not be so bad you deserve death. You have a whole life ahead of you. Whatever you have done will be forgiven. ASk the LOrd for guidnace. Or get a councelor. I hope I hlped


how do lesbians have sex? I mean.. is it possible without a strap on? lol. (link)
Yes it is possible, many differnt lings are considered sex, there is fingering eating out playing with each other.


Is sex during pregnancy safe or not? Should we have sex during pregnancy or not?
I'm pregnant for the first time and I'm concerned about the effects of having sex while pregnant. What is safe and what isn't? Will it hurt my baby if I have sex with my partner? Will I lose my baby if we have sex? (link)
If you're having a normal pregnancy, sex is considered safe during all stages of the pregnancy. It is up to you if you want to, but you will find as you get further into the stages you will not get as turned on or even feel the desire. All of it is safe, there ahs only been a few rare cases of the baby having defects and being lost, hope I helped.


Okay So Me And This Guyy Have Hadd Sexx A Couple Times And We NEVER Use A Condom. But Theres No Need Forr A Condom If He NEVER Cums, Righhtt?

I Askked Him Why He Neverr Cums And He Saidd "I Cann Handle Mines" ;
Is That Evenn Possible? Cann Youu Reallyy Stopp Yourselff From Cumingg?

His Friendd Toldd Me It's Because He Doesn't Have Balls. But I Thinkk He's Just Sayingg That To Mess Aroundd. But At The Same Time I Kindaa Believe It. But I'm Not Sure If It's Possible For A Guyy Not To Have Balls.
Andd I Know I Shouldd Knoww If I Hadd Sexx Withh Him Like More Thenn 10 Times But I've Neverr Actaullyy Payedd Attentionn. (link)
You can not hold in your cum, he is probably missing a testacle or maybe he does not make sperm.


Okay,
So Yesterday My girlfriend and I had sex for our second time.
We used a condom and it didnt break or anything.
I checked it Really Good.
And She just got off birth control on the 14th.
and for some reason we are worried she is pregnant.
And idk
What are the chances of her getting pregnant?
like after just getting off birth control and the condom was used correctly.
Thanks(: (link)
the chances are none, if you guys were completely protected, like you said, then you guys are safe, and she is not pregnant, have her check and see iif there iis sperm in her, then you will sureley know.


17/F

I got off my period on friday and had protected sex on saturday.Unfortunately, the condom broke towards the end but my partner DID pull out.There could be a chance sperm is inside me,but i don't know.I was wondering what my chances are of being pregnant?I know sperm lives inside for 3 days and I ovulate after 2 weeks.I began taking birth control on sunday night (I've never taken it before,this is my first time) So is there a high chance I'm pregnant? (link)
no there is a very low chance, if the condom broke toward the end the chances are 75% not and 25% maybe, so there is a slim chance you are prenant, when he pulled out sperm could have gotten in the vagina, but it dependson how deep he was, and if it sunk down, check yourself, or take a pregnancy test,


when ever i think about sex I get really disgusted, sex seems so nasty and gross, i mean someone licking you down there and eating you out gross, and someone fingering you and putting there parts in you, im being serious, well my question is, Is sex gross? (link)
Well for some people it is.I am only going to use it to make babies, not for pleasure, I think it is exciting and enjoyable, you are prabably too young to know for sure how you feel, you are just not ready yet, trust me its fun......


Can a girl be pregnant if her boyfriend cum outside of her ass in anal sex (link)
Its is possible, but it all depends on how deep he went in, and how close he got to the vagina, the odds are very slim for you not too be pregnant, the only thing they can do is take a test.


Hey, I'm a girl. 16. ^^

Okay, so... I've just recently turned 16 and got my medicare card.

Me and my boyfriend really cannot be bothered to use condoms anymore, and we're thinking of getting me on the Pill, now that I've got my own medicare card.

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The question is, would Medicare record my transaction at the doctor/chemists? And do we get something in the mail about it?
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Please don't tell me stuff like "You're too young", or "that's unhealthy". I really don't need that. (link)
It will be on your medical record and whenever you go to the doctors they will see it and they could mail it to you, i know in the USA they do.....


my boyfriend of about a year keeps indirectly pressuring me to have sex with him and it bothers me. and i feel kinda guilty cause hes on the football team and he gets pressured from people and i know that. but i wouldnt do it because of that, but im just really feeling pressured now, even though i never thought i would. but im not ready yet, cause im only a junior in high school, and ive told him that im not ready yet. what should i do? (link)
just stand your ground and tell him how you feel again, tell him good things happen to people who wait, I told my boyfriend this and he stopped bugging me.


I recently had sex and a couple weeks after Im experiencing itching inside my vagina and i often have the urge to pee, what could be wrong? (link)
it could be a UTI like the person below wrote which is what iit sounds like but then again it could be your bodywants to have sex again and it is sexually excited, try not drinking too much water and try havaing sex again




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