about

they would call me sarah, but it seems that people are afraid to address me by my name. i am a senior. i dislike a lot of things. i enjoy a nice hot medium mocha latte and smoke too many cigarettes for my own good. i have been in love. i love lights and colors. i am above the influence.


advice

ok i havnt had sex in 1 yr and almost 4 months, so im outta practice anyways but still,
i was never very experianced in screwing a guy while on top....
this guy i like now hates being on top and me i dont care either way yet im not so sure wat to do....
mostly when id be on top id lean forward some to where we'd almost be parallel and move back and forth, and sometimes in circles at an angle; sometimes id put my back to the guy and do basically the same thing, cept my face'd be at his legs instead of his face......
any one have any pointers?
or any other girl in control positions for me????

something else you can try is to sit up on him and move back and forth,
or to crouch over him, with your feet flat on the bed/floor and move up and down.
when you're kneeling over him try leaning pretty far forward and just moving your butt up and down, not in a rocking motion, but in a straight vertical motion.

something else that will feel really good for both of you is if he goes at it from behind. i know that that is the opposite of you being in control (:]) but it's not him being on top, and maybe he's prefer that.

good luck,
and if you need anything cleared up, let me know.
sarah.

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what are some ways to make the pubic area for a female smell good or at least fresh without douching or using prducts from the store or pharmacist? like any remedies or natural ways or possible ideas?

like the person before me said,
shaving really does make a difference.
and not just the top part, where the hair is most evident,
but /really/ shaving, all of it.
just be careful.
just like bad smells can get caught in your hair,
like cigarette smoke, or dog, pubic hair will hold smells from down there.
but after that, a shower usually will work for the day.
good luck. :]
Sarah.

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So last night i got fingered for the first time.. it didn't really feel good it almost hurt more than anything.. and it hurts to pee.. is that normal for the first time?


it is normal for it not to feel good, but it shouldn't really hurt to pee, it's not the same hole.
you should most likely be fine, but if it continues to hurt when you pee, give it about four days, then you might have gotten a urinary tract infection from bacteria.
but yes, it's normal to hurt.

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oh kay so i need this to be defined
1. oral sex
2. jackin off
3. head
thx

www.urbandictionary.com

type the terms into there.
this website is all you will ever need.
really, it's amaze.

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if a girl gets fingered would the guys like it if they shaved before?

in my experience, yes.
but when you shave, it grows back remarkably fast, if you haven't noticed, so would it be better to be fuzzy or prickley??
ask your guy.
if you were planning on getting fingered, then you should be close enough to just ask him.

ah, good luck.
-sara.

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i always here bout teens having sex and ect-but how do they get away w/ it when their under 16?

how do they do it w/out their parents finding out?

(i'm not planning on doing it- i'm waiting till marriage, i'm just curious)
thax

i know that you already have some good answers here, but i though i'd contribute...

i'm in a situation where my parens do trust me and feep a watchful eye on what i do and where i go, but honestly, i could get away with anything. my boyfriend drives, so we go places. and his parents work all the time, so at his house we really have any given opportunity to have sex when we're together, even though both of our parents are practicing their parental techniques to their fullest extent. drug stores sell condoms to anyone, and as long as the couple is careful about who they tell and such, they're good to go, i guess.

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ok i was hanging out with my friends when i felt something weird on the inner part of my lip. like a pimplish kind of thing? my one friend insisted it was herpes and said at one point everyone gets herpes. im like what? is this true? i thought herpes was like a perminant thing.

It could be a cold sore, or maybe it was just a pimple...It's true that it's veeeery common to get some kind of the herpes virus, just by sharing lip gloss or a drink. Once you get it, it's for life. There's no cure, but here are creams and meds to supress the cold blisters.

When I was in 2nd grade, I got the virus so badly that I was stuck in bed for 2 weeks drinking nothing but energy drink and yogurt. But that was an extreme case, most people just have breakouts every once in a while. Usually I get mine before my period or when I have a cold, though I've been breakout free for like 3 months I think, so I wouldn't worry about it if you do have it. Just try not to let you immune sytem weaken!

AG

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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait?

That's grat that your standing up for what you beleive in! I completely agree with you that you should wait until you're with the person that you'll love forever to have sex.

Really, what happened before they didn't have the internet? What do you think couples did then? They experimented and came up with it themselves. There's no right way. If you love eachother enough to get married do you think he's going to love you less if you're not the best at it? And especially if you don't feel comfortable reading about it on the internet now, maybe when you're engaged or even after marrige you can to learn some new stuff.

Whatever you do, Wait for your husband! Think of what it will mean to him if you tell him that you were saving yourself for all those years just for him!

AG

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Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"?

Wow, it was probabally hard for you to be drawn into a situation like that! My Advice would be to stay away from the videos and/or channels that conatian anything that you want to consider off limits. When your brother is "enjoying himself" stay away from him. Listen to music, read a book, get out of the house!

About your innocence, pray that you can forget or at least not do it again and over time the vividness of the images will fade. Good luck!

Sarah

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is it possible to be addicted to masturbating..like once a day. 7 times a week.

Yes, it's quite possible, why not? Make sure it doesn't have any negative effects on you though, or actually become time consuming! :)

AG

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tell me im beutiful.. just tell me im beutiful god damn it! free 5s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL god why am i so pretty?

You ARE beautiful, you sexy thing...:)

(I don't know who you are though...lol)

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What does spooning mean??

It has to do with a sexual position.
Check it out at:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spooning

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how long after your pregent can you get an abortion? i know after a certain amount of months you cant get an aborion anymore but whats the latest month you can get one?

Well you should stop considering having an abortion as soon as you get pregnant. There's a baby in there! An innocent, precious, tiny, perfect baby! Why would you consider having her brutally murdered? You may be young, or a victim of a crime resulting in you getting pregnant, but isn't your child also a victim when you kill it because of your selfish needs? I want you to browse this site, there is some good info about the effects, and complications with any abortion. www.abortionfacts.com/life_or_choice/pro_choice.asp

If you do not agree that is a life in there, look at sonograms, do some research, that little being has a heart, brain and soul just like you!

Please give your child a chance, even if it's adoption...there are many couples who are un-able to concive and would love to have a healthy baby!

You're in my prayers AG

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ok i have unprotected sex last thursday......is it to early to start getting morning sickness or sore boobs?? PLEASE help me

two things..why are you asking so early when you should just really get a test and why are you having unprotected sex?

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how early can you tell if you are pregnant? I am 16 and i am on the patch, i got off my regular schedule of the patch a month ago or so. The past three days i have had nausia and stomach aches, and they feel different than i have ever had. I also just have a gut feeling i might be pregnant, i jsut bought a pregnancy test tonight, and i plan on takeing it toamrrow morning. IT is one of those 5 days before your missed period, and today is fri and i should be getting my period on sun,mon, or tues. I can't wait though, im really nervous. and i am wondering if it does come out negative tomarrow, if it could be wrong just because of how early it is?

now also, do i tell the guy i'm sleeping with? because i am afraid he will not like me ne more, and i am pretty sprung off of him right now. i mean i know that if i am pregnant its early and i could probably take a pill, but either way i am not haveing a baby so is there even a need to let him know? he is jsut gunna get all worked up about it and upset, and he ahs a lot going on right now as it is.

Definately don't panic...you knew the risks and took them anyway so don't act so suprised! If you are pegnant I realy think you should find any way possible to not kill the baby. You created this life, do you really think it would be fair that you destroy it?

And yes, you should definately tell your boyfriend, don't we all have a lot going on? He should give you just as much support as anyone considering it was half his fault.

Whatever happens please make responsible choices that you won't regret later in life.
Artiste

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