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Hi My name is Tara (taaaar-ahh) im 15 years old. Ill be 16 in July. Im from South Carolina. I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters.I love cheerleading,track&feild, skiing and dancing! I love my 4 best friends Tatz,Rachel,&Haley My boyfriend ALEX is amazing i love him more than anything in the world. Im full British. I love making people laugh :D Im skinny and i love it. Abercrombie&Fitch is my closet. My Cell Phone,Ipod,DDR,Lip-Gloss,and Chicken Wings are all amazing ahah. I like giving out advice and I will be HONEST about it so dont get mad about anything. Usually im nice though. No! I wont give out my screename or my myspace. Dont ask thanks. Well thats me in a nutshell :)

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my boyfriend always looks at porn and whenever i go over he has pictures of naked girls on his computer and hes always watching it on t.v and it gorses me out. and hes only 14. hes like i wish you looked like that it makes me feel bad about myself. but i love him. what should i do?

well no offence but your young..so their is going to be an imaturity problem. Just talk to him about it, if it bothers you this much. Tell him how you exactly feel and if hes a real boyfriend he will hopefully understand. Good Luck

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well i told my boyfriend that i have had sex before but i havent. if we do have sex, is there any way he could tell that i am still a virgin?


oh and what does it mean when somebody "pops your cherry". lol

When someone pops your cherry it means that your hymen broke (where it will bleed) it usually happens when its your first time! So that will probaley be the only way he could find out. But you should seriously tell him because if hes your boyfriend you two should have a honest realtionship with eachother :)

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I'm a female teenager and I had sex for my first time yesterday and down there is in a little bit of pain, is that normal?

Yes it is very normal :) It should go away soon.

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What do you do if your boyfriend said he wants to makeout, but his "type" of making out does not involve french kissing because he thinks that is gross. What exactly does he mean? What do you do?

Yeah you kiss just push your tongue away. Its just kissing alot without any tongue :)

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all in the same category::

1- if the farthest my boyfriend and i have gone is the fingerin/hand job stuff, would that be considered "sexually active"?

2- when we do have sex, if he uses a condom and i get the morning after pill, what are the chances of becoming pregnant? (NOT happening any time soon by the way so dont preach to me about how if i was ready i wouldnt be asking, because thats why i am asking)

3- if i go to a planned parenthood to get the morning after pill, do they just give it to me or what?

thanks!

1) No thats not really being sexually active. Having actual sex is being active.

2) The chances of becoming pregnant with both wont be too high. You most likely wont be pregnant..but ofcourse it could happen.

3) Im pretty sure they will give you something.

Hope i helped :)

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- I haven't had my period in the last four months. I am not sexually active with boys so I can't be pregnant. Although like dark brown spots show up in my underwear. I'm so scared but I don't know what it could be. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

I Have your same problem!!
Its nothing to worry about trust me..

Okay if you are skinny and a runner/athlete/very active like me and have a high metabolism you wont get your period normal. Atleast thats what my doctor told me.

Those brown spots are what your "supposable" period should be but your body for some reason doesnt show blood.

One time i didnt get my period for almost 5 months but then i got it..you will to. Unless your really worried then go see your doctor :)

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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not?

You are young but your not real young. If you think you want your first time to be with him and think it will go great then go ahead. I personally would wait a while..But if you do end up doing it...do it SAFE :)

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15/f
so I have been shaving my "south pole" area for a while but lately when I do it, it hurts during the actual proccess. Now I dont know if I am doing it right so if anyone has any tips that would really be appreciated!

Yeah u have to be really careful with this situation. But the best thing to probaley do which really stinks is just to wax (yourself). I personally shave because i bet waxing hurts. Dont use nair/or hairremoval stuff its dangerous down there. Maybe you could use a little shaving creme and just try to do it gently! Hope i helped

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okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me.

Oh my gosh..hun all of these people that answered this question do not hate you they CARE about you. You have to get some help from someone because you do not want to kill yourself. God had given you this life for a reason and he doesnt want you to throw it all away. You should talk to pretty much anyone the best people would probaley be a
counslor,physcologisy,physchiatrist,therapist, adult,teachter. And always remember that someone out their has it alot worse then you. Just get some help PLEASE you do not want to do this. You can change your whole life around. I know if you do this their will be people who care. Trust me you do not want to do this!! PLEASE GET HELP

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