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Hey,Im Taylor Mackenzie. So i recently got suspended because i was sharing this account with my fiance Justin. Now he has his own account. Im really good with sex questions. And im pretty good at giving advice on fashion and cosmetics. If you want to you can IM me im always on, dont be nervous. Im a pretty chill person. Ask me anything. Ill try and answer it for you and if i cant ill look it up. Hit me up.

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i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.

1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?

haha thanks

This doesnt mean that you CANT get an std. there are all types of ways to get stds weither its from sex or not. A good safe thing would be to get tested first. You dont HAVE to swallow. Now he may want you to but you dont HAVE to do anything you dont want to. A condom will only prevent his sperm from coming out. It depends on preference from you guys. For you you could either get waxed or shave, even trim down. For Him he could shave it all or just trim it. Depends on how you feel and how he feels about that. Good Luck if you have anymore questions just ask

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Where do i get them.I dont want my parents to know i take them though cause then they'll ask me about sex..which is why i want to ge themjust in case???

Well there are all types of places to do it. Yes they would still have to give you an annual papsmear but there are clinics and parenting places. Also next time you go to the doctors you could ask them to suggest places to go but not give them to you there. Good Luck

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what are some things that can delay your period besides pregnancy? i'm always 2-3 days earlier than i was the month before and i'm never late, but i am now.

This is natural. Depending on how much stress how much your eating certain foods, thats what determines when your going to get it. Days isnt really an issue when it becomes weeks at a time then you need to be concerned. It it bothers you that much you can go to your doctor and see about birth control. I know its not just because of wanting to have sex, but also can regulate your cycle. Good Luck

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I am 15/f. I deffinitaly(sp?) know that I want to wait until marriage to have sex. But I have a couple of questions. First question: So you know how like, all girls bleed their first time? Well just say you had just gotten married and go to a hotel room? You just bleed on their sheets or what? What do you do about that? Second question: Well, I've heard a lot of girls say that it hurts the first time you do it. Well, it's not very romatic if you had just got married and you can't "do it" because it hurts, so then what do you do? I've just been wondring this because it just seems like it would be akward when it happens. Sorry if these are weird questions. Thank you bunches!

I think that its cool that your waiting and i totally respect that. The times i have had sex i never bled. But everyone is differnt. If your husband knows that your a virgin he should be totally okay with you if you end up bleeding i mean after all, he should be glad you waited for him. It only hurts when your with someone who isnt respectful to your wishes. It doesnt really so much as hurt but you definatly feel pressure of you being tight and it being big. No worries though make sure that your husband is respectful to how you want it and how you feel so he can go as slow and gentle or as hard and fast as you want. Good Luck

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my vagina has a very strong smell to it. it's not an infection or anything. it's always been stong. i was just wondering if the gyno can prescribe medication or something for me? or if there's something i can do at home to help. i just get sort of uncomfortable when i'm "intimate" with my boyfriends, even though it really doesn't bother him. thanks. :)

Well vaginas have a very "natural" smell. It almost smells like discharge that is like body odor almost. That is very normal. Maybe you need to buy a douche kit. This sounds very odd but it cleans the vagina, it also can rinse blood away after a period,get rid of odors and avoid stds also to prevent pregnancy. You might want to ask your gnyocologist first before you Douche or maybe ask them if they can give you something. good luck

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Do guys have a specific sized nipple that they like? Like is big or small better. How do you make your nipples appear smaller?

All guys are different. It depends on there preference. Some men like butts instead of breasts some like tummys not nipples. It all depends on the guy. If you really want to know you should ask him how he likes them. But at the same time dont change the way you are. You cannot make your nipples appear smaller because they are your nipples your stuck with them. I feel that there is no reason for you to change anything about yourself. Whom ever you are with you should be happy with and not for you to change yourself.

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okay so ive only made out and i want to do alot more
i dont have a boyfriend though how can i let some one know i want to do more stuff with them

dont comment saying im a whore or i shouldnt do it just give advice

Well i always tell everyone to have good communication with people. If you cant talk to someone about what you want to do then why are you even doing it right? I think that if you dont feel comfortable talking to them you can always just go for it maybe by putting his hand where you want it seeing where it goes. Also putting your hand places then moving them. Also if you want him to do something to you you should do that to him he will hopefully catch on and do it back. Good Luck

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when guys finger you do they go down and look at it? or just do it while aking out with you

and when theyre down and youve ejeculated or whatever on there finger do they get grossed out or just wipe it off

Well all guys are different. Um some do look at it. Some just do it and not look. Some like to wipe it off some just like to use there mouths its all about preference every guy is different. You just have to have good communication and talk to them about which they would rather have. I hope this helps.

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16/f
okay so.. let me start of by giving a little background. okay so this guy, let's call him A has liked me for pretty much 2 years. like he hooked up with other girls during that time and had like 2 girlfriends that each lasted for like a week, but in the end he stopped/broke up with them because he still liked me and it was bothering him. during almost 1 year of this time i had a boyfriend. i didn't have that much interest in A yet. but we became really good friends because he was good friends with my boyfriend, which he isn't anymore so i don't have to worry about that. anyways, i broke up with my boyfriend last summer. all this year, me and A became closer and closer friends. people like to say i led him on, but i was just flirting. and we used to talk to him on the phone a lot. i know i probably shouldn't have done that if i didn't truly like him but the thing was i did a little.. i just liked a few other guys also. that was the past though so we just try to forget about it. so basically now i actually do like him a lot. and he knows this. and he also still likes me. he was apparently going to ask me out.. he like wrote me a song and everything and burned it on a CD but then apparently i said something mean to him and he broke the CD. we're okay now though. we're like best friends now. we talk on the phone every single night, text eachother all day, etc. basically we really like each other. so anyways, a few days ago i hung out at his house by myself and we just watched tv and stuff. we didn't really do anything that sexual but i took his phone and so his hand was like under my shirt rubbing my stomach and legs and he was like whispering stuff in my ear, like he did this to try to get his phone back. and it like really turned me on. this has a purpose i promise.. ha. so then yesterday i went to his house again and i was really tired and just in pretty crappy mood. to make this short, we made out, he felt me up, etc. but i like wasn't into it at all. like i wasn't turned on at all. is this probably because i was tired and not in the mood to do stuff like this at all? because if i'm really not attracted to him then basically i'm just leading him on again by doing these things with him. so i want to know if those reasons could have been why i didn't like it as much as i thought i would.. because i honestly have wanted to hook up with him for like forever. thanks so much!

Well okay. When you are in a bad mood or not feeling well things that would turn you on dont turn you on because your either thinking about them or you just block it out. I think what you need to do to be sure about your feelings are try it again when you are prepared for it and feeling up to it. I think that you could possibly just of not been into i thtat night so my suggestion is try it again and see what happens. If your still not turned on then you probably arent feeling him. if you are it could turn into more

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17/Female :)
So im really worried about it hurting my first time. I just started using tampons and feel like im really tight and that my hymen is probablly really thick. Can anyone give me their personal stories about their first time and how it felt/if it hurt/if you bled.

Also what are some ways i can stretch/slowly break my hymen so it doesnt hurt. thanksssss

Well.. I was a virgin until i was 16 and it didnt really hurt at first. I was tight too, as is everyone. I think that a good idea is start off slowly. You know masterbate normal, maybe go from one finger to two. When you get with that person have them finger you with one and then when you are ready with two. Now its going to feel tight and you will probably have to guide it in and probably he may have to push a bit, but its only pressure you will feel not pain. and if it hurts you maybe consider using a lubrication. You may also want to just give it some time. Also you need to be relaxed. Maybe some sort of foreplay should be used before jumping into intercourse. I hope that this helped

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