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Q: hi this is the same questioner as http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=567190
thanks for your answer! haha im still a little confused. what does it look like when it comes out? does it umm lol shoot out in a line or like spray everywhere? haha i dont know where to position the towel. do i just hold it there to the side until he is about to come, then i hover it above?
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No problem :)
It squirts out really, and usually aims up so maybe you should try placing the towel on his stomach if he wants? Unless he dosn't mind it going on his bare skin, as you can just wipe it off him or yourself hun. It usually looks like a clear colour, and when it drys turns whiter!
Don't worry about the mess, especially on hard surfaces, as you can just wipe it up!
I don't think you should think too much into it, it dosn't really matter, just enjoy yourself; that's what counts! :D xxx Love Sugar
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Q: K, soo a few days ago my bf fingered me for the 1st time and it was the 1st time I've ever done anything sexual like that w/ a guy. So I tried to return the favor (if you catch my drift?) but I started and stopped after about 10-15 seconds because I freaked out. Like I thought I was doing it wrong and I got scared.
Is that normal? How do I get over my nerves and fears and just do it?
Oh and I told him I was really really sorry that I didn't do it and how I thought it was unfair, and he told me it was completely fine, and did it to me 2 more times that night.
From a guys point of veiw, is it like a turn off or something if you do it for a girl and she doesn't rtf? Or do some guys really not care much?
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Well, there is nothing to be ashamed of hun, you're a beginner; practise makes perfect!
Maybe because you are embarrassed from your little experience and don't know what your doing to him is right, ask him him what feels good.
Start off slow and just let him show you the way. Afterall he most probably touches his penis everyday, so he knows whats best for him!
If he cares about you and understands that you haven't done it before, then he should know why you're not confident about doing it. Give it time; once you get going, your confidence will rise and you can throw the fear away! :)
Love Sugar xxx
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Q: nineteen, female (:
okay so everytime me and this guy hang out he always triese to go down my pants.
i've never been fingered before, but i have heard that when a guy fingers you, its for YOUR pleasure, not the guys.
does this mean that he cares about me? i mean he NEVER has asked me to give him a blow job or hand job or anything of that sort.
he just always tries to do things, to me. is this a good sign?
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You didn't mention if your with him or not, but it shouldn't matter if you think he is "caring" for you, only let him if you want to. He may be a giver yes, lucky you if so! But He probably wants to turn you on, so you're easier to sleep with. I'm guessing you're a virgin, and you've waited; so don't give in too easily to any nobhead! Make him work for it! I think you should be in a relationship first, then at least you know where you stand. And get some experience :)
Love Sugar xxx
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Q: OK. so.
i started having sex in february of this year.
i had a period in march..the first week of march.
it is july 14th and i have not had my period since then.
every time i ever have had sex we have used a condom with spermicide. none have ever broke, 100% sure about that.
i am getting more and more freaked out, and i bet that's delaying it more.
i have been feeling really bloated and huge the past week or so. and i thought i felt slight cramps 3 days ago ..i really hoped my period would start. nothing.
is there a possibility that some sperm MAY have leaked?? how likely is that to happen? my and my boyfriend are always very careful about any contact we have that could result in pregnancy. washing hands frequently and before/after/ or whatever.
should i go see a doctor?
i am also pretty sure that i have hypothyroidism.. it runs in my family and i have ALL the symptoms. i went to a local clinic and they said that i was just fine and i didn't know what i was talking about.
i live in a really small town and if i got a pregnancy test someone would end up telling my parents.(who don't know i'm sexually active).so i'm just sitting here, waiting, and freaking out. if anyone could give me any advice or help it would be GREATLY appreciated!!!!!!!
Thanks!
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Hey! Aw Good job being safe, but there's always still that chance, so stop waiting around nervous; get to a pharmacy, maybe out of town? They shouldn't tell your parents anyway, especially if u go to the doctors for it, as they keep things private between them and the patient. Don't be scared!
Just get it sorted so you know if you are or not. In the future, it would be a good idea to take birth control or another form of contraceptives.
Hope your okay xxx Love Sugar
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Q: okay, i do alot with my boyfriend, and we dry hump all the time which makes him so turned on he actually groans, but we both want to do more, not straight forward oral sex, we want something a bit different that still makes us both feel good, any ideas? all answers welcome!
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There's so many obvious ideas to have sexual fun, hmm maybe tease his bellend with your tongue but then start to play with yourself instead. The teasing will have turned him on and wanting more from you. But carry on with yourself until he takes charge, he may start to touch himself aswell or help you along the way.
Stroke his back and legs, kiss his chest, dance around him teasingly... Let him play with your nipples... Kiss his neck, he may copy; this can be a turn on, depending on the person! Make sure your in a closed space alone, not too warm or cold, generating the heat from your two bodys passionately entwined together!
Other things;
Try working out together, get abit of music on, be silly, pretend to accidently let your top slip down or fall on him, he'll soon wanna workout on you!
Maybe reinact a sex scene from a film?
Experiment with different positions, so you know for the next time what works :)
Have fun! Love Sugar x
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Q: About 1 week ago my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and after i took an emergency contraceptive....And since yesterday i have had something like my period but darker and thicker why is that?
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Hiya,
Don't worry, the morning after pill should of worked but it can maybe screw up your cycle, so this may be the reason for the difference in your period. If you have any more troubles on your next one then maybe go see a doctor, but it is most probably nothing. Be safe.
Love sugar xxx
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Q: when you're giving a guy a hand job, do you use your other hand to cover the tip when he ejaculates? what do you do to not get it everywhere?
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No, you don't have to do that!
Let it come out freely, maybe get some towels etc for it to land on, or use you're mouth (best to make sure he is clear of diseases though) or let him come over you if you don't want there to be a mess on the floor/bed, and this can turn a guy on aswell so it has a plus side ;-)
Even if he does come on the bed sheets, just wash them!
Hope that helped, love Sugar xxx
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Q: Okay so me and my boyfriend has anal sex, and he cummed inside. When he pooled it out, it showed he cummed blood. Is this normal. Why did this happen? (We had sex a lot that day so if that helps)
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I am guessing this is your first time doing anal sex, and not that I am speaking from experience, but the reason why there were blood was probably from you. Anal sex isn't a natural form of sex, we are made to have sex with a Penis & a Vagina ( so to produce babies, as that is the reason for sex in the first place!)
It would be a good idea to get checked out; both you & you're boyfriend, just in case.
Otherwise do as you please, but maybe try some lube next time!
Love Sugar x
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Q: I'm on birth control and my boyfriendand I when we had sex he ejaculated inside of me. How big of a chance do I have to get pregnant when that happens? I take my birth control every day but not the same time everyday. I really need to know.
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Hey,
It should be okay. As long as you take it everyday, it shouldn't really matter if it isn't the exact time as before. I take mine at random times each day, but I'm not sure. You shouldn't have to worry though!
XXX Sugar
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Q: what are the books called that have like the really graphic descriptions of sex. like "he slowly slid his hand up her leg" ect ect
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Hiya,
Mmm yes I would recommend the "Black lace" books for that type of genre. I have not read them myself (YET!) but they are supposed to be good to fulfill your sexual needs! Let me know if they are ;-)
Love Sugar xxx
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Q: I seriously want to be able to make my boyfriend go weak at the knees! i do a good job but i need variety to keep things fresh. anyone got any fun kinky games or tricks up their sleeve. i need stuff to make him dead horny.
Thanks mucho
HotAndSpicey14-x
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Maybe you should wear something different to you usually wear, of course something sexy but still keeping a little mystery, don't be all over him but be abit more flirty than usual. Be confident and show him you are your own person, maybe touch his trousers playfully. Do this when you are not alone, so he cannot jump on you!
Then once he does get you alone... Fight him off abit, say you need to go maybe, but then change your mind and ask innocently what he feels like doing... Then it is his turn to make you horny!
Just do your own thing, but for ideas for games, maybe go for the classics; handcuffs & strip, master and slave, dress ups etc. Or get some ideas of erotica sites?
Hope you get him where you want him!
Love Sugar xxx
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Q: does the term "mutual masturbation" usually refer to both people doing it to each other at the same time or to themselves side by side?
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It is usually referred to doing it side by side, but it can also be referred as dry sex (on top of clothes action) but that is of course called Outercourse.
Hope this helped :) Have fun!
Love Sugar x
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Q: 16/f
i just lost my virginity to the boy ive been dating for 9 months. and he moved halfway across america the day after...... yea my life sux. but i was wonderin, do you feel when a guy cums onside of you? we wernt usin a condom n i think he cummed cuz at one point he started thrustin reali fast and hard then stopt and we stopt havin sex. thanks
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Hiya,
No you cannot feel a guy cummin inside of you; although as you weren't using a condom you maybe should of felt it coming out of you straight after sex, maybe feeling really wet and leaving a damp patch on the bed (or wherever u had sex).
But since it were you're first time, most don't reach a climax, so don't worry. But i would check if you are pregnant, just to be safe!
Be careful in the future, bad luck that he moved away, but there are plenty of guys out there :) Just make sure you use condoms next time, or if you get serious with another guy and he is trustworthy (free of diseases) and you want unprotected sex (as most do, as it feels better) then maybe go on the pill or another alternative contraceptive?
Hope that helped!
And more questions, just ask :)
Love Sugar x
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Q: okay i have a couple questions:
15f almost 16:
1. how do you know when you have had an orgasm? im not sexually active but i masterbate; and i feel like i have had an orgasm but im not sure.
2. is it normal when you are masterbating, to get to a point where you feel amazing and then your vagina pulses and then shortly after you feel like you were fufilled and done with masterbating?
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Hiya,
I know exactly what you mean, I have wondered this previously to myself many times!
It is natural to feel a sort of release after masturbating, rubbing on your clit till you've released. Obviously after masturbating for awhile you will want stronger orgasms, so once you are sexually active with a enthusiastic partner, you will also discover the g-spot inside your vagina feeling better than just rubbing the clit.
I am only nearly 17, although i only recently became sexually active; I alot of experience on masturbating!!! Hope i helped! Your normal and it's only natural. Sometimes i have felt ashamed after masturbating, because of the release, but you shouldn't! Keep it up. Good luck on the orgasms :) x
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bio
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Hiya, I'm Sugar (kisses xxx) ;) I am 16, nearly 17 in August! I'm a music student, live in Doncaster, England. I love alot of things, and one of those is sharing advice :) So feel free to ask me anything! Love Sugar x
P.s. I'm also on a joint account with my bezzie Spice; (SugarAndSpice) So you can reach me on there aswell!
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Gender: Female Location: England Occupation: Music Student Age: 16 Member Since: July 15, 2009 Answers: 15 Last Update: July 16, 2009 Visitors: 1889
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