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Im a really cool person who loves to talk and give advice.i love volley ball and soccer and im makin all As and Bs in school(finnaly)!!!i am currently single and supa excited to finnaly be in highschool!-anyway I am really good at writing and really want to wright a book but i know i dont have the patients for it. ive been through alot of stuff and im still here so im thankfull for that. i truelly hate people who constantly complain about the things they have because they want something better. Kids are much more fortunate than many people in other contries.they should be proud they have the freedom they enjoy and the beautiful life they live. i apprciate everybreath i have and every day that i am on this earth living the good life i live. heres some advice to people who need it now. if you have a problem always ask for help. dont think you can solve any problem on your own. youll just make the situation worse. also dont think less of yourself at all. some people dont understand that u are as powerful as the most powerfullest person in the world if you just beleive in yourself. feel free to ask a question because i will answer!!!!!!!!!!!! lots of luv ! peace!!!!!!!!!!

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i wanted to give my bf a bj but i've never done it before and i wanted to know where you're suppose to spit...like if you're inside...and im afraid of gagging/puking too...i plan on telling him to let me know when he cums and finish with my hand so i don't get it all in my mouth but i'll probably get precum in my mouth, thankyouu.

I'm not sure about the spitting part but I can help with the gagging.what I do which seems to work is,if I plan on deep throating (which guys really like),I'll swallow all the saliva that's in the back of my throat b4 I do it because that's what causes me to gag.when your giving a bj your forced to not swallow so saliva builds in the back of your throat and that's what makes you gag if you try to deep throat!hope this helped&good luck:)!

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ok my bf and i arent sexually active and havent gone past making out and right now we dont want to go past making out but i want to know how to turn him on and get him excited just by touching him and stuff but not anywhere near his pants lol. and nothing having to do with nibbling anything please haha we havent been dating long and i dont want to move fast. just what i can do thats sexy and stuff and please i know every guy is different i just need suggestions. and also i know i can always ask him :] thanx

while your holding his hand play with his fingers or massage his fingers with yours.while you guys are making out you can genlty run your fingers threw his hair.slowly running your hands down his back or arms gently is another thing you could do while making out.you could also trying sucking on his neck but if you think thats to far then just stay with gently kissing on his neck!maybe if you two enjoy dancing you could grind on him if thats not uncomfortable to you,or him...although most guys tend to like it alot!well hope this helped!!!

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What is the 'g-spot' in your vagina, and what does it do? I feel really stupid for asking this, but i have to wonder. What does it do also?
Thanks in advance.

: a mass of tissue that is held by some physiologists and specialists in human sexual behavior to exist in the anterior vaginal wall and to be highly erogenous but whose existence and function are doubted by others because of insufficient objective evidence called also Grafenberg spot ....i dont think it does anything but it is used to give the female pleasure during sexual acts..hope this helped!

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ok my boyfriend likes butt. HOW DO I MAKE MINE BIGGER? like without getting surgery or something

LOL!Well what you can try to do is poke out your butt.If you keep your back straight and stick out your chest it will make your butt look bigger!It might seem kinda akward at first and maybe uncomfortable but it also helps your posture!you could also try to find some nice booty tight jeans that will make it look better and trust me their are always jeans out there that make your butt look bigger!hope this helped!please rate!

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ive been with my bf for almost 9 months and we havent done much sexually only make out he hasnt made much of an attempt and when i do he shys away i asked him a couple of times what going on and finally he opened up a bit and he said that he has a small penis and hes worried about it
i told him i love him and it didnt matter
so eventually he showed me his penis and well it isreally small and hes still embarrassed about it
im not sure what else to do im not going to force him into anything but i love him and i want to have a relationship with him so what can i do?

all i can say is to make sure that you try not to worry yourself or him about the situation! relationships cant and doesnt always have to be physical! i know you really want to take the next step but u have to understand how he feels about the situation! he must not be that physically ready for u to take the next step or else he would openly give himself up!not everyone takes a short amount of time to feel that comfortable.hes probably that way and i think you should find a way to respect that.soon enough he will feel comfortable and it will be well worth the wait!!!hope this helped and everything works out!

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My bf and i are thinking about having sex for both first time so does it hurt a lot? my bf has smaller penis and i talked to a friend of mine whos experienced said her bf has a small penis the first time for her hurt a bit at first then it felt good and that it gets better then person said the same so im still a little nervous does it mainly depend on the size of a guys penis if it hurts a lot?

um..well im a virgin and i dont really know many people that are not virgins so its gonna be hard answering this...but...my guess would be that it depends on the size of his penis and your vaginal area..if you have done something to stretch it out (like masterbating) then it probably wont hurt as much! but if u havnt it probably will hurt but the pain will sonn subside and be filled with pleasure--so the pain i guess is worth it!! hope this helped...sorry i couldnt answer it better(lack of experience)...dont forget to use portection!!!

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im almost 15 and ive got a very small penis
its really embarrassing will i get bigger?

it most likely will! you might think that your old enough for your penis to be at its biggest size but dont forget you are still growing and it most deffinately will keep growing! porfection takes time! and always remember its not the size that counts, its how you use it!lol! hope this helped!

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im 14 a guy and i get erections quite a lot
my penis stays hard for quite awhile is this normal?

its very normal! certain guys last longer and get harder more often then others but thats just how they function but its all normal!every1 is different in the way there body works in certain areas but just memeber that its deffinately not un-natrual!hope that helped!!

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i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage?

well i think you should do what you think is right but what i suggest you should never do is have sex just to not be a virgin.sex is a beautiful thing that should be shared with someone special. im not saying that you shouldnt have sex befor marriage just make sure that the person is the right person for you and that your positivley ready to share with him somthing that you can never get back. just make sure your ready to make that decision because thats one of the most important decisions youll have to make in your life so make sure you choose wisely and with your heart not your hormones! well good luck!hope this helped!TWEETY

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whats the point of being fingered? it seems kind of repulsive to me...i guy sticking his finger up you.

gurl i think it is jus nasty too. but i think guys do it to etheir sread the hole more so it wont hurt as much when he sticks "it" in later or to give pleasure to the gurl if she likes that or get her all horned up and ready or it also might give the man pleasure too and get him all ready.well hope this helped.TWEETY

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I'm a 13/f. And I'm constantly masturbating. I'm getting to where I do it 3 times a day. That's not normal...and I've been doing this for 2 years. And it is messing me up in school, cause I'm always horny. What can I do to stop?
And please dont answer and say "just get a hobby, to take your mind off of it"...that doesnt work, i've already tryed it.
♥please♥

i think you need to see a phscologist and for school you should prably see a guidence counsler.and try to see whats causing you to want to masterbate and stay away from that.hope i helped !TWEETY

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