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Well, I was wondering if it would be safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom if i bearly started taking the pill? (link)
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I wouldn't ever let him not use one unless you didn't care if you happened to get pregnant... or an STD. You haven't been taking it long enough for it to really be that effective and even once you've been on it for awhile there are still things that can affect how well the pill works. Medications, illnesses, and even certain foods can make your pill not work as well and you could end up pregnant. Trust me on this one.
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i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom? (link)
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Not at all safe. Taking certain medications, skipping the pill, etc can make them less effective. Plus you'd be putting yourself at risk for STDs. Tell him to stop being such a damn baby and wear the damn condom. The best advice I can give you is to take the pill, use the condom, and buy some spermicides to use along with the condom.
NOTE: This advice is being given by a birth control pill baby that also has a failed birth control AND condom baby. Hope that helps. ;)
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Ive never really thought about this, but now I have to question it. I am 29 and have 2 kids. both were planned pregnancies. I guess my question is kind of gross, but I couldn't find out any where else. I was just wondering, what are the odds of getting pregnant if the man ( my husband) ejaculated before actual vaginal intercourse? I know before ejactulation you can get pregnant, but i'm not so sure about afterwards. It would be helpful to find out, I've missed my monthly, but took two home tests, and both were negative, but still no period...? (link)
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I'd say that there is still a chance you could get pregnant even if he did ejaculate before intercourse. Even if he didn't have any semen still lurking around his penis during insertion, there's still the possibility that his pre-ejaculation from being aroused again could do the trick. It's not uncommon to be late though when you're stressed or have a change in diet or exercise. If you're really unsure about it then I'd go to the doctor. Good luck.
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I have a friend that had a child 1 year ago, and she is recently haveing unpretected sex for the past 2 weeks. She said that milk is comeing out of her breast and she is geting morning sickness. Me being a mother, that was my frist sign for me that i was pregnet. Someone told me that it it normal for mothers that after a year of haveing your child for milk to come out your breast. We also took a pregnacey test, and it said that she was not pregnet, but we were thinking that maybe it is to soon to tell.
What do you think??? thanks for the help.she is 17 yrs old by the way. (link)
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Here is my brilliant advice. If you can't spell "pregnant" you shouldn't be having sex. For the record, it's not "normal" for a mom to produce milk a year after the baby is born unless they are still breastfeeding. Maybe your friend should be taking care of her child instead of going out and trying to make a new one.
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I've recently started dating this great guy. The problem is, he's black and I'm white. I'm against racism to the full extent and so is my mom, but my dad and brother don't feel the same. I know they won't accept this guy and I'm afraid to bring him home. My dad will look down on me and I hate feeling bad for liking such an amazing guy. What am I supposed to do? (18/F) (link)
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There is no easy answer to your dilemma. Love knows no boundary. If he truly is the amazing guy you say he is then you should bring him home and be proud of it. Let your dad and brother stew in their own hatred. I was in the same situation at your age. I now have a bi-racial daughter to show for it.
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so .. this might sound stupid but i know its natural it just seems that most guys have there penis's circumsized.. i dont.. does this effect anything at all .. it would be sweet to have a girl around my age to answer this question because iv look this up on the internet so many times and i still dno what to think and i stress about it ALOT thanks :|
15/m (link)
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Don't let this worry you so much. You're right, most guys (in the US anyway) are circumsized. Lucky for you the trend now is to not circumsize baby boys. It's more accepted than you might think. There's nothing that being uncircumsized will effect. To be honest, the conversation about uncircumsize vs. circumsized is brought up occassionally between some of my friends and myself... and no one cares. :)
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ive been fingered, ive masterbated, and ive worn tampons. so my hymen is most likely broken right? (link)
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No one can say for sure. The real question is, why does it matter?
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