Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
E-mail: eric.april@hotmail.com
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Location: strykersville, new york
Occupation: stay at home mom
Age: 30
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Member Since: September 30, 2005
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Okay, im 16 years old and my mother is taking me to the doctor because my period is ver irregular, and my cramps are so bad...but i dont want her finding out im not a virgin, is it legal for my doctor to tell her that im not one?...if so is there anyway i can get him not to? (link)
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WEll that you can do is have your mom wait in the waiting room and then when you go and see the doctor, you can tell them that your not a virgin but you would like them not to tell your mom and they shouldn't. They shouldn't tell her. I hope that this helps. But if your mom goes in with you she might find out but maybe this is the best way to find out and get you on the birth control. See how it goes. God luck and let me know what happens.
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what is an orgasm how do u have one and what do they do? (link)
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well first of all it would help if I know your age. becuase I don't like to answer questions to someone that is not of age. So if you would like me to answer plwase let me know your age. thank you
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How do I tell my mom I don't want her in the Gyno exam with me? Actually, I want her there, but I don't want her to know I have had sex. So I can't have her there. So how do I tell her I don't want her there without sounding suspicious or mean? (link)
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Just say Mom could you wait here, I would like to try and do this alone for once because you won't always be able to take me. I know she'll be comfortable with that.
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i'm a girl, and i'm 16 and i never used to masturbate but i recently discovered it.
however i feel that i'm the only girl that does it and i am embarassed by this fact. do a lot of girls do it? i know no-one will talk about it, and its probably not as common as with guys, but i'd like to think i'm not alone out there. :(
also -- i think i get close to orgasm, but i always stop myself because i'm afraid of making too much noise (i live with my parents) i start to shake and feel a bit "dizzy" does this mean i'm close? should i just go with the flow when this happens?
sorry for all the questions. thanks for all your help. (link)
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There's alot of girls and woman who still to this day masturbate. It's not a bad thing. There woman who are married that still do it to help them explore there sex life. When your alone or your parents are home, when you start to shake and get dizzy your head in your pillow and go for it. god luck and enjoy
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Are guys supposed to masturbate? This was a big issue at school today. I was wondering if most guys masturbate. K thanks .. ♥ Tiff (link)
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It's not are they suppose to or not.All guys and girls are differnet and they want to explore there sexuality. Masturbation is a normal thing in life. Some guys do and some guys don't but there not going to tell you if they do or don't. Hope I helped
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okay well my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow for our anniversary and i want to do something special for him. something sexy that he will like. anyone have any ideas? i rate 5's (link)
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I'm not sure how old you are but, you could make a nice dinner and have some nice scented candles lit. Have someting sexy on(that will come off easy)if you can. When he gets there give him a nice kiss and just enjoy your night with him.
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is it true that your first time having sex, you bleed a lot and it hurts? (link)
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Well it depends on the person. Some people do bleed alot and some people only bleed a little. For myself I didn't bleed at all my first time. If your all worried try not to and that makes you stress and tensed and that sometimes makes it hurt. If it's your first time let the guy your with know and take it slow and it won't hurt that much. Hope I helped.
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Well .. i know this is kinda nasty but im old enough believe me because if i wont then i wouldnt ask this .. well nobody ever talked to me about sex but like i know about it .. but i was wonderin does a guy wont it shaved or hairy .. like not alot of hair i dont know help!!!
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Well it depends on you. If you feel comfortable in having then do it. You don't have to shave it all, you can trim it. If sometime shave or trim it. But to make it fun with the person you with it's nice to have it trimmed. My husband like it because he can see more when were doing it. You can always ask the person your with what they like too. Hope I helped.
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ok i hope that this is in the correct category. well i masturbate wayyy 2 much. i kno i need 2 stop. 1 because my girlfriend doesn't like me doing it. 2. becuz its a little weird that i do it a lot. like whenever i get a boner ( and no1 is around or im in my room , if im at my house ) i masturbate. i only do it at my house and shit but still. Plus the major thing is that i need 2 do this for my girlfriend * i dont wanna loose her or risk loosing her *. please dont tell me 2 think of sumthing else, trust me i have tried, it doesn't work for me.
thanks in advance
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Your very normal. You don'tthave to tell your gf you masterbate. Alot of people explore there bodies. Your fine.
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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas? (link)
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guy's are very different. Some guys enjoy it when you shave because they have a good view of you and it the want to do more then there's no hair in the way. If depends on you if you want to shave or not. It's not the guy's. I sometimes shave when I'm really in the mood and sometimes I don't but my husband and I have sex no matter what.
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say it was 3 thin layers of clothing. He did ejaculate and I noticed that there was a wet spot on my shorts around the top of my private area, I am not sure if it went through my underwear or not, but my underwear was also wet, but that was probably my stuff. I am really scared that I will get pregnant. I will get my period approximately around Feb 9 so that is where I stand. I am really worried, what can I do? (link)
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Don't worry your not pregnagt. Your just stressed and it could be that your going to get your period. Just relax.
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I haven't yet had sex with my boyfriend. He has told me that he hasn't had unprotected sex for 2 years, and so I shouldn't worry about STDs. However, he has been sexually active for 5 years - before 2 years ago he had unprotected sex with several partners. 2 questions: how worried should I be about him having something, that maybe hasn't shown itself yet? And how can I suggest to him nicely that he get tested? (link)
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Well if he really cares about you, and doesn't wnat you to get sick or that, he'll get tested . YOu could tell him that you really care aobut him adn would like it if he would go and get tested and you'll go with him. He might not even have anything but it's go to get tested. But if he won't then you have to make the desion if you want to sleep with someone knowing that they could have a std or even something else. hope I helped.
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okay so tonight my bf and i were in the hott tub.. kinda fooling around. no we didnt have sex. But i did end up getting alittttleee excited and i think he did too. But it was all touching n stuff. ANYWAY.. its pretty silly buttt is there anyway i could possibly get pregnant if he did ejaculate? i mean theres cylorine.. and stuff. but idk. just wanted to see if theres a possible chance.
dont be lame with your answers. its not a joke. An honest answer would be greatly appreciated.
5 for whoever can tell me. (link)
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Not being lame with the answer. There's no way you could get pregant with only tousching. He had to be in you and ejeculate. so don't worry you won't get pregnat. But it's go to ask. have fun and just be careful. Hope i helped.
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give.me.the.sifferent.ways.mc (link)
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do you have a regular email address that I can send it to because some of the stuff is not appropritate for here. april
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Every after sexual intercause my wife is geting a bad pain in her both knees. Please help!
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Well not much to work with. If your wife is on her knee during sex then maybe you should try doing it in a different way and see if that works.If you need different ways email me and I could give you some different ways that would help. Keemkick@hotmail.com
hope I helped
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Can you have sex if you're 3 months pregnent? (link)
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yes you can. You can do it all the way until your 9 months if you feel comfortable doind it. It helpes to when your giving birth.
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okay i have cut myself in the past and kinda still do...i am anorexic and get upset easily...when my mom found out i was cutting she said "Dont be a stupid f***"...and i asked to see a therapist and she said i dont need to..she jus doesnt understand...i dont know what to do...i am so anorexic ive lost my period and i am starting to cut again ((along with suicide poems)) and i obviously cant ask her...school counselours dont work..i've tried..please help! (link)
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You need a buddy that you can call or write to when you feel like cutting yourself. You say your anorexic. Well the first thing is you need to eat. There's alot of things you can do to eat healthy. Eat fruits and veg. Start off slow and then when you feel better. Eat more. The best thing is to eat yogurt and jello. When you feel that your full stop and do something like read or start writing poems that are good and not bad. Things that you want to do or what to try. I hope that I helped .
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I am married, and want to know that during pregnancy when we stop sex, or during pregnancy when it is not safe to intercourse.
I also want to know that in 12th week of pregnancy is intercourse is suitable?
Please give more details about intercourse during pregnancy.
asif_jah@hotmail.com
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Having sex while your pregnant is fine. If you feel comfortable doing it's fine. I had sex all the was thru may preganacy until i gave birth. I felt comfortable and if helps alot when your giving birth. Hope I helped.
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i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
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Well they will ask if you have had sex. They aren't suppose to tell your parents anything that you say to them. Don't be scared. IT's better to be hontest with your gyno becuase if something comesup they have all the information. Hope I helped.
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Hey Im really scared.
I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help (link)
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WEll I would tell your mom right away because that boy raped you and now your pregnant. Your only 14. You should get some help even from your guidence counsler. hope i helped.
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