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ok when i kiss my boyfriend. like i mean pecks. long pecks and sometimes short ones. he will just randomely stick his tongue in my mouth and im like what the hell! thats gross. then we laugh. we havent madeout though. and i asked him why he does that with his tongue. he said just to make me mad. but is this just his way of trying to makeout. or what? i need peoples opinions. im 16 female. and hes 17. weve been together for almost 6 months. i want to makeout with him. and i know he probably does to. but were both kinda shy when it comes to stuff like that. what are some things i can do to get our kisses and his tongue into a makeout. and what do i do with our bodies. or our hands and stuff. someone please help me. thanks in advance

if he sticks his tounge in your mouth, he is trying to make out with you. and you probably asked him about it, he got embarrassed, and said the excuse of "just trying to get you mad". lol yeah but when making out, you just like play around with you tounges. its not gross, trust me :)

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well i was flippin through the channels and dr. ruth was on and she was talking abotu hand jobs. when you do that to someone does the semen like shoot out straight up or come out slowly? i was just wondering cause i had to leave to go somewhere before i finished watching the show.

the times i have done it.. it comes out slowly at first and then seems like it pours out and your hand gets all wet. hope i helped :D

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im 15 and been with my gf for almost 9 months and were thinking about having sex im a bit nervous because my penis is quite small and im worried that i wont be any good at it can a guy please a girl with a small penis?

First off, to be honest, most girls don't want a huge penis inside her, it would just hurt more. So you don't have a huge disadvantage.

And there's always different positions to try that no matter how small you are, it'll work. Go to this website.

http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html

It will give you a lot of helpfull hints. Good luck, and have fun (:

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ok so me and my boyfriend want to have sex. im 15/f. don't tell me i'm too young or not ready, because i know i am ready. but im just really really worried about getting pregnant. he said that we could do anal sex so i would have a lesser chance of getting pregnant.. so if anybody has had an experiance with that..?? and also, he said he would wear 2 condems, would that make it safer? thanks so much

noooooo don't use two condoms that gives you a more likely chance of getting pregnant. use one condom and try getting birth control. those are your best options..

also with anal..i have never done it, but i heard its very uncomfortable. but you may like that. do whatever you feel is comfortable (:

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is there a way to have sex and make sure that the condom doesn't break at all during having sex?

well i've never actualy done it...but i've heard that people fill their condoms up with water first just to make sure there is no hole in it to start out with.

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im 15 male and my penis is not that big im worried about what my girlfirend will think
will it matter that much?

uhmm well if your girlfriend loves you it won't matter at all..maybe this is a way to see if your gf loves you for real..it actualy doesnt matter that much..and you do have to realize...you're still growing (:

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im 14 and my penis is quite small do girls really care about it?

well im 14 too..and girls talk about it and stuff..but i dont think they really care all that much..i mean it does mean something..but i wouldnt worry about it..you still have growing time. dont worry (:

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How do I stop my friend from having sex with the same guy over and over?

Well sweetie, hate to break it to ya, but you can't control what your friend does. And think of it this way. She is only have sex with one guy alot of times. It's not like she goes around having sex with every guy once. So the only thing you could do is just tell her how you feel and if she accepts it, then good goal accomplished! But if she doesn't just ignore it and move on. it'll pass.

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what is the earlyest a guy really wants to get in your pants?

well a guy always wants to get in your pants. its just how they are. most of them anyway. so if you are ready to do something then they most likely are. alright good luck (:

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Hey me and my boy friend are ready to move to the next level im 16 years old and he is 17. Im really scared I don't no wat to do we made out before. and stuff but other wise it was just touching. Please help me I have to give him an answer. I want to but I don't no how. Please respond in a halp hour love always. ~!* Meg*~!

First I want to say my name is Megan :D

And yea if you aren't ready to go all the way to sex, you could try fingering or a hand job or even a blow job. Whatever you're comfortable with.

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whenever i finger my girlfriend i feel...like a ball is up there i was wondering what that was. and i was wondering what could cause it to bleed because it has happened b4..but shes not on her period not even close what could it be?

It's called her cherry/hymen. When you pop it, it bleeds.

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What does being tight or loose mean?? A lot of people have said that at my school and I've read it here...

Well it deals with a girl's vagina hole and her anas(butthole). When you're tight it means you usualy haven't had sex yet and its hard to get the penis or finger(s) or whatever up either of the holes. When your lose it usualy means you have had sex before and so your holes have expanded from the pressure of the guys penis.

I hope I helped. I tried my best

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hey guys please help me with this....
can you please tell me how/what/why is ....

mastuerbating (how)
hand job (how/what)
fingering (how/what)
when a guy 'busts' (what/why)
when you pop your 'cherry' (what/why)
or anything else like this im 17/f and totally mature and no one has told me any of these
thanks so much i will rate high as long as you are not rude

Masturbating-
for a girl: You would insert your fingers into your vagina and move them in and out and jsut play around. You could also use a peeled and washed cucumber or carrot.
for a guy: You would slide your hand up and down on your hard penis.

Hand job- A girl wraps her hand(s) around the guys stick and you do an upward and downward movement. Don't grip too tightly or too lose.

Fingering- Is when a person puts his/her fingers into your vagine and moves them around and just slids up and down with their fingers.

When a guy "busts"- I'm not a hundred percent sure, but I'm pretty sure it means when he cums which is when he whacks off and well, white stuff comes out the end of his penis.

Cherry- The cherry is popped when either doing a sport, inserting a tampon, and involving in sexual activity. Its located in your vagina.

I know you didn't ask this but I thought it went along.
Blowjob: It's when a girl sucks on//kisses//tounges a guy's penis. And when she plays around with it in her mouth.




I hope I helped. Any other questions send me and e-mail. :D

M3GANx21@aim.com

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My boy friend wants to start having sex but I'm a virgin and I don't think I will know what to do and if I don't have sex with him he might leave what should I do?!

don't ever have sex if you have any doubts. you will always end up regreting it. and if this guy dumps you for not having sex with him...you should be glad you didnt and he wasnt the right one to begin with. if he really would leave because of that..it means he is using you.

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I am really scared to do anything with a guy (like fingering and stuff) because I think my crotch is weird... it has like extra skin. I hate it! What can I do about this, and what do guys think about it? By the way I am 16.
-scared-

ohh honey dont worry. all girls have that. and if a guy doesnt like it they may as well just go get it on with a guy because he will be disgusted with all girls. we all have it. so dont worry. its just a part of the woman body :D

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Ok i am a guy that like to wear gurls clothes as much of the time as possable . Evry chance i get i will wear the most gurly things i can and masturbate until i cum after i am done i feel realy guilty about this why do i dres like this then feel guilty after i cum

well i have alot of guys who wear girl clothes at my school. theres nothing wrong with it. you may just like the style of it. skaters wear girl clothes all the time. i think its hott.

and for masturbating...most guys do it and its just pleaure for them you shouldnt feel guilty at all. its what men do. and when you come it just means you really enjoyed it.

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i was over my boyfriends house and we were sitting on his NEW white couch. and talking and everything then we started making out. and then i had to pee really bad so i got up and went to the bathroom and relized i got my period and it was all on my clothes. and then i relized i was sitting on his white couch =/ and i ran out really fast but i looked and i saw a red stain on the couch. whenever i see him in school he always comes upo and gives me a hug and everything but i cant tlak to him cause im still embarssed and he always asks me whats wrong and why i dont talk to him anymore. i wanna talk to him again and not be embarssed what should i do? cause i know he saw it for a fact. what shoudl i do?

there is NOTHING wrong with guys knowing about your period..and especialy your bf..hes just gonna be like ohh kay and then life will go on. like my whole grade including guys..knows when and where i started mine..bid whoop. idc every girl has to get it sometime :D lol so just tell him that you were kind of embarressed and he will think its cute. trust me

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