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I'm 18 and female, and ever since me and my boyfriend have been sexually active, (he's my first) I can notice the difference on how loose I am, at first it was so tight, and now I'm loose and i dont even feel it as much, is there anyway to tighten up again besides not having sex for awhile? I remmeber hearing of kegic exercises or somethingg like that.. does that work? and how do you do them?\

all 5's if you're nice:-)

They're called Kegel excercises.

Here's a link.
http://www.mwsexual.com/readingroom/articles/kegel-exercises.htm

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sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.

my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom.

You know...strangely enough...this has happened to me. Seriously.

This girl, and I broke up, and after two months of semi dating me and this other guy, she had sex with him while she was on birth control, and he used a condom.

Well, that happened in July, I believe, and I didn't find out til last week. I guess she didn't tell me, because if she did, she figured I'd be done with her which is true...but now that I found out a few months later, I really don't care.

But honestly you should tell him, because people shouldn't lie about their sexually history. That's one of the things you shouldn't keep secret from your partner(s).

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is it the size of the ship?,
or the motion of the ocean?
and is 6.5 inches a good size?

You know I've had this conversation with girls many o' times, and I've heard it's neither. It's not the motion or the size, it's how many times you can make it rise.

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I disagree with your rating.
If you were talking about penises, I believe that my advice is about a penis. It's how many times you can make your penis rise.

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is there such a thing as a "sex bed"? this girl was saying that her mom got her one so she can put her legs up when she's doing it. any comments are appreciated!

I'm sure there is, or she could be talking about a gyno's bed.

Though, on Howard Stern I saw a sex chair that was suspended from the cieling, so I really don't doubt there's such a thing out there. I'd trust your friends word.

Hell, if you really doubt it, ask her to show it to you, because I'm sure it isn't that easy to hide.

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hi i am 17 and i have been taking birth control for three months. um i need help, okay i am getting off the pills and i just got off my period last week and now back on and i know it is because of the birth control, but the first day i did not take it i had sex with my boyfreind and he you know in me and we both asgreed on having a baby well o you think i could get prgnant please help me

As previously mentioned it'll take time before you're ready to have a baby, because the pill still has all of thoese horomones in you.

Most women once they quit taking the pill wind up on fertility drugs, because of this.

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ok my boyfriend was over tonight. and we were fooling around but we didnt have sex he fingered me you know all that stuff..but what i was wondering is i know he tired to use more than one finger and it wouldnt fit..is that bad?? does it matter??

i'll rate high to anyone who isnt an ass about it

thanks in advance

You know I've had this problem, and I'm a guy.

You start with one, and warm it up.
A lot of girls can only take one finger at a time, and personally, I think that's all that's needed in most cases.

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ok the other day me and my guy friend kissed but it was open mouth ... people are asking me if i made out with him but i dont no what to say.. like did me and him make out or just french kiss?

I'd say it was just kissing.
Making out is over a prolonged period of time. Like ten minutes.

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I am 13 and i really want to get eaten out. I dont havea boyfriend so how can i make it happen? I am not very pretty either.

Your HOT btw.

Well, find a guy...become good friends with him, and ask him. Most guys wind up being sexually attracted to their friends that are girls at some point or another. I'm pretty sure he'd be eagar. Just make sure it's someone you trust, and not some random guy, who's gonna rape you, and give you diseases.

But even in adult some husbands rape their wives so you never know if you're safe or not.

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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F.

I think you're lying, because you chickened out.

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There wasn't a question.


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Maybe you can take a bunch of prescription pills. If you don't die, you can get your stomach pumped, and live. It's not doing anything physical to yourself.

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

Usually, it's when a female turns eighteen.

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hi,IM 19 YRS OLD & im thinking of looking for a guy around my age to help me.i dont know if it is normal coz evrywhere im thinking of having sex but im still virgin.i neva had it before so i want a soldier to shot that cherry of mine.IS IT NORMAL to FEEL like this?
PLEASE HELP!!!!1

Yes. Yes it is normal to feel this way. Have him shoot that cherry many, many times.

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when is the best time to take a prenancey test? i heard 3-4 days after you were suppossed to have you period, 12 days after you have sex, right after, a couple of days before your period is suppossed to start ... i'm so confused!!!

I say when you start vomiting, and then when your stomach starts to bubble out.

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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is

Oral sex is when you talk dirty.

You have sex through verbal words, which happen to be oral.

You guys are sick that talk about suckin' on wieners and stuff!

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Does sex always hurt the first time? My friends say it does... but are there any ways for it to not hurt at all?

Well, the first time I had sex with myself it didn't hurt.

Then one day I did it like three times.

My wang got all swollen and stuff, and it hurt really bad.

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Is shaven your pubes as a guy a bad ting?

Actually, it's not in my opinon, along with many of my esteemed female friends.

They say it's more attractive.

Anyway, it offers more of the "wiener" if you know what I'm sayin'...

Oil and sweat don't build up in your pubes either, which means that the region doesn't stink as bad.

I mean... I get heckled a little, because I take care of business so to speak.

Like last night I was playin' pool, and I rubbed the back of my friend's head, to scare him because I came from an unseen place.

I said, "Gee Zach, your head feels like my pubes."

He then said "Ewww! You shave? That's gross."

Yep... I dunno, I thought it was funny.

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how do you get rid of body odors done therE?

I usually grab a toothbrush, and mix vinegar and toothpaste and scrub pretty hard.

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me and my boyfriend of 9 months dont have sex or anything but we make out alot, but it gets soooo boring..i dont wanna go TOO far (blow job/sex or w/e) but whats somethin REALLY hott and creative i cld do to suprise him?

Masturbate in front of him.

I don't know.

Hand job might be takin' it too far for your standards.

Oh, I got it.

Do like they did in forty days and forty nights.

Rub yourselves with flowers.

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what is a blow job exactly?

It's a job you blow on.

It's like with a balloon, or on your freshly painted finger nails.

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whats a hand job???

It's a job that you do with your hands.

Like gardening or brushing your teeth or hair.

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i am 14 years old and i have had this porn in my room and and my grandma found it and showed it to my dad. my dad confronted me about it, but we didn't finish talking about. now that i've have a while to think about it, i really want to lie!! it's so embarrasing that he knows about it!! he might not think of me the same way again and i really don't want to be uncomfortable around him. what should i say?

Dude, this could bond you and your dad.

I bet he has stacks of porn.

Ask him if he'd like to "destroy" it.

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