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...i need help...
ok my boyfriend was over tonight. and we were fooling around but we didnt have sex he fingered me you know all that stuff..but what i was wondering is i know he tired to use more than one finger and it wouldnt fit..is that bad?? does it matter??
i'll rate high to anyone who isnt an ass about it
thanks in advance
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No, it just means you aren't ready for two fingers yet. If you continue to do this, he will eventually be able to fit both in. Try doing it with yourself too. ]
For most women, if they haven't had sex before or haven't in a while, the vaginal muscles are tight and it can seem impossible that they would stretch. Generally, something the size of a tampon or one finger will enter without too much discomfort. In order to have something larger comfortably fit (and later feel good), one should be relaxed and gradually warm up to it. As one is more turned on, the vagina should provide more natural lubrication and the muscles should relax. If you want to try this again in the future, take it slowly and perhaps have your boyfriend put a little lubricant (NOT VASELINE) on his fingers and that should help. Best wishes. ]
You know I've had this problem, and I'm a guy.
You start with one, and warm it up.
A lot of girls can only take one finger at a time, and personally, I think that's all that's needed in most cases. ]
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