Question Posted Wednesday October 5 2005, 10:06 pm
ok my boyfriend was over tonight. and we were fooling around but we didnt have sex he fingered me you know all that stuff..but what i was wondering is i know he tired to use more than one finger and it wouldnt fit..is that bad?? does it matter??
jb012 answered Thursday October 6 2005, 4:06 am: For most women, if they haven't had sex before or haven't in a while, the vaginal muscles are tight and it can seem impossible that they would stretch. Generally, something the size of a tampon or one finger will enter without too much discomfort. In order to have something larger comfortably fit (and later feel good), one should be relaxed and gradually warm up to it. As one is more turned on, the vagina should provide more natural lubrication and the muscles should relax. If you want to try this again in the future, take it slowly and perhaps have your boyfriend put a little lubricant (NOT VASELINE) on his fingers and that should help. Best wishes. [ jb012's advice column | Ask jb012 A Question ]
IxAmxCrying answered Thursday October 6 2005, 12:10 am: You know I've had this problem, and I'm a guy.
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