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I go to Wilson High School. I know alot about alot of things, and always keep an open mind. When I grduate I wish to major in Psychology. Thats where the Dr. Minkus comes into play. I welcome anyone, and everyone ask me a question. i'll help you the best I can. Thank you!

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if my period wasnt late at all and its only just started and not really really heavy does that mean that im pregnant?

from what I know, it's simple. If tyou have your period, your not pregnant. This was tough, i answer questions about suicide, and different musics, and "how to get my tummy tighter" but this was probably the hardest. But it's about periods, I'm a guy, what do I know? lol don't trust this 100% I'm just trying to help.

good luck!
Dr. Minkus

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so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate

This is a problem, because when he's complimenting you, your never gonna know weather its to be nice or just to get "action". You'll just have to talk to him, as hard as it may seem. Just come to some kind of an agreement. I'm not calling you a slut or anything, but it's apparent your willing to compromise, otherwise you would have just dumped him. You have my respect for that. Just say something like "sometimes we can do "stuff" and we'll always have a physical intimate relationship, but we need peaceful time too, where we just catch a movie or get dinner at a nice returaunt" It's importatn for you guys to have a segragated relationship. Public relationship, than Sexual relationship. I know it sounds a bit confusing but he should understand if he really cares about you.

Good luck!
Dr. Minkus

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okay i have cut myself in the past and kinda still do...i am anorexic and get upset easily...when my mom found out i was cutting she said "Dont be a stupid f***"...and i asked to see a therapist and she said i dont need to..she jus doesnt understand...i dont know what to do...i am so anorexic ive lost my period and i am starting to cut again ((along with suicide poems)) and i obviously cant ask her...school counselours dont work..i've tried..please help!

This is a huge problem. Theres always different answers for different type of people. but The school system should have helped. If it hasn't, theres only one thing left, unless your willing to be locked in a mental facitly and I'm sure your not. Even if it would be for the best. you have to fight it yourself. you have to sit down and think to yourself, "why am I doing this?" if theres problems at home what can you do to stop them, and don't please don't ever say there nothing you can do. Theres always someone there to help. If it's boy problems which I doubt but it could be. Don't let it bother you at such a young age. It's not worth it. When food comes into play, it's just as big as cutting. I've heard from so many people that cutting is a "stress reliever" it's not your hurting yourself in a way you don't understand. It takes one slip of the blade and you can hit a major vain. It's all over than, and I know you don't want that for the simple fact your seeking my help. When it comes to not Eating. You have too!! Which is obvious, but your body needs that food. Obviouslu your relizing whats going on. You hair can fall out, or teeth can rot. And the problem with that is that look in the mirror and i don't know if you do, but it's a mind game. they look in the mirror and tell themselves there sitll fat even at 75lbs. Be smarter than that! please for your own sake. It's so improtant to realize that there's a reason everyones on this earth. And even if you were picked to be the avg girl so what. please, stop doing this to yourself. Find the good in yuorself, and in everoyne and everything around you. Focus on school, fid a sport ( not until you get yourself healthy again though) and focus on what your gonna do after school is done. someday you'll realize the mistakes your making now and regret them. Stop now before you have more regrets your taking years off your life. I KNOW YOU DON'T Want that. Please just get yourself the help you, need or do it yourself, which I'm 100% confident your capable of doing. And as for the poems, write down your problems into a poem, and analyze it. Use that as a template to figure out whats going wrong, and fix it the healthy way. good Luck, and be strong, control your life don't any problems take conrtol for you.

Dr. Minkus

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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?

thank you!

It could mean a couple of things. It could mean he's a pervert, or it could mean you've been dating a while, and your both ready. but that of course isn't your question. When he wants to "f**k you badly" It's got nothing to do with fingering. It means he wants to penetrate, your Vaginal crevace with his male genetalia. Or simply he wants to put his meat in your taco. Fingering is some the total opposite. You can't get pregnant, nor can he (obviously) lol I hope this helped and even made you laugh a little.

Dr. Minkus

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