Hiya, were Dannii n Chandler, im a professional event rider and Chandler is a Trial Lawyer.
I give advice regualy in a teen magazine and Chandler has writen many law books and has a colum in a U.K. newspaper answering law related questions.
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Location: United Kingdom
Occupation: Dannii = event rider & agony aunt, Chandler = triel lawyer & auther
Age: 25
Member Since: December 20, 2005
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Last Update: January 11, 2006
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I just had sex for my first time 2 nights ago. I'd like to get checked by the doctor for any diseases. Is it possible for me to ask a doctor and get a test done without my parents knowing anything? Including the results. Even if the results came out positive, I want it to be kept secret. Do you know if doctors tell parents this kind of information? (link)
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If you live in the uk, then you could walk into any clinic and they would be totally confidential, however, im not sure about the U.S.
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hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed (link)
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You COULD get pregnant, but its like a 0.00000000001 chance out of a million
Chandler
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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex
Thanks
Tami (link)
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in the uk, its 16
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Ok
All thats on my mind is sex sex sex babies, masurbuting, vaginas, and penises, naked things, and cum
Thats all i tihnk aobut, i cant get it off my mind. i think im too youung to know about this stuff. Please help me (link)
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Funny thing hormones, they mess with your mind, and once you start going through puberty, all you do think about is sex, having sex, self sex, sex with the person you fancy, blo jobs etc. you get the picture.
There is nothin rong with you, but if you are really concerned, then go and talk to a friend (your mom and dad probs arnt the best people to talk about masturbating with). But i assure you, there is nothing wrong with you
Channii
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im a girl im 15 years old. what are some awsome ways to finger myself. thanks! (link)
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well, theres your fingers
random things toy would find around the home - wooden spoon, tv remote, toothbrushs ect
or you could get someone else to do it for you
or you could sleep with someone
whatver floats your boat
channii
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well i met a guy hes 2 years older then me but thats okay.we have been dating for over 2 months now and me and him have had sex a few times now. (don't worry we used protection) but the only things is my old boyfriends (we don't like then word ex because we still mean alot to eachother) is coming to town to see me over spring break! i am so exited but i don't want to hurt his feelings because he means so much but im not ready for those long term relationships. what should i do when he comes?
xoxokristen (link)
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well you carn't have both of them (well you could but you don't want to go down that route!) if you 'old' boyfriend is 'comming to visit' i assume he's moved away? is that why you split up? because that would explain a lot. 'ex boyfriend' simply means a person you used to go out with and now don't, so if your not cumfortable with that phrase what does it tell you? = that your not happy with the fact that he is no longer your boyfriend, that your not over him and that you WANT HIM BACK! I know it may not be so practical if he lives away but you need to follow your heart not what is practical!
chandler.
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so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
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Im not going to say brake up with him, dnt worry, i too have been in a relationship where all he wants is sex, but at the end of the day you have to ask yourself,do you want to be his little toy. You obvioustly care about this lad but does he really care about you?? think about it
From Dannii n Channii xx
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Can you pee while having an erection? (link)
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No!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok here goes right well me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and next time i see him we would be togthere for 3 months because hes going away on holiday anyway...we have decided that we want to have sex and hes coming to my house soon and that when we are gonna do it!but..im really really scared of pregnancy, we r gonna use a condom but im still scared im 14 and hes 17 and i love him but i cant say anything to my mum for the pill and my periods arent regular so i wouldnt know if i was pregnant so..what do i do i really wanna do it with him i know its right but what can i do about pregnancy and all that stuff help!!!!!!!! ill rate high xxx (link)
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You do right to use a condom, it will protect you from S,T,D'S and AIDS, and has a vey high chance of proventing pregnancys. If you live in the uk, it is free and confidential to go and be put on the pill, also, if you think that you might be pregnant, you could go and have an abortion on the NHS. Also free and confidential. If you want to be put on the pill however, you could talk to your mother and put it down to period pains.
Anyway, hope that helps
Love Dannii xx
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