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I'm so confused about masturbation. Is it right or wrong? I keep getting these urges and I'm scared to masturbate because I'm afraid it's wrong for me to do because I'm afraid my mom might get mad and tell me not to, but I can't control my hormones! I can't even sleep because of my hormones. What should I do?

Masturbation is completely normal & healthy. Don't worry about it .. there's nothing wrong with it at all. As far as your mom getting mad, just do it in private and don't let her know. It could be embarassing if she found out. But almost everyone does it and there's nothing wrong with it. :]

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everytime i masturbate [which isn't often], I feel so much shame.

I'm 14 and I just feel like masturbation is wrong - yet I can't help it when I have hormones. What should I do? Should I keep masturbating and keep it a secret from my mom, or just stop because I feel ashamed?

it's not really normal to share that you masturbate with your mom. if you feel ashamed, don't worry about it! masturbation is a normal thing and tonsss of people do it. it's healthy and it's nothing bad. hope i helped! :]

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hey guys....
okay so i did the thing with my boyfriend on sunday...with no protection....we're both fine and everything and he pulled out before anything came out but ive been reading things on the "pre" stuff if you know what that is and it is possible that you could get pregnant that way...i read that nothing really happens till after the first 5 days and today, wednesday, the third day, i feel fine i dont think anything happened....do you think i should take a pregnancy test just incase?

you may have a high risk of being pregant since he didn't use protection. even if he pulled out before he climaxed, there's still stuff called pre-ejaculation that comes outtt before that. you should definately try a pregnancy test, or better yet go to the doctors to get checked out. hope i helped! :]

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okayy this guy i know wants to have sex with me. i don't care if we do or not ... but i'm just scared that i would get pregnant. like REALLY scared ... that's my biggest fear.

i'm a virgin & i don't care who i lose it to ... whether it's my husband or just some hot guy ... i'm not in a hurry to lose it but i would definately like to.

this guy is veryy experienced so i'm sure he knows what he's doing with the condom & everything but i don't know ... i think i'd feel safer with a guy i actually loved.

has anyone ever gotten pregnant from a condom breaking when you used it correctly?

personally, i think you should wait until you find someone that you truley care about, even if you don't love them, but it'll probably be a better experience for you. well moving on, if you're thattt worried about getting pregnant, definately go on the pill&use a condom. hope i helped&sorry i got off topic! :]

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I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that!

wow my friend had this same exact problem. i don't mean to disgust you, but it is normal. i know it's gross& all just to picture your parents. next time it happens you could try putting on loud music. maybe that will help. i hope i helped. :]

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long story short:
I went to a party met a really cool guy there and now we're pretty deep
it's been like a year now and he asked me if we could *blush* you know what.
I'm sooooooooooo not ready beCAWZ we are both erm, young totally not the time until we've got our lives together.
So anyway I heard a rumor about how he's been creeping around with other chicks going into hotels then the next thing i know my girl calls me up spitting bs because she saw him with this girl in his backseat ((sooooo not cool))
I asked him and he said no.
here is my question:
My girl never lies to me we're blood ((blood sisters but not like that))
but she could be jealous but so many people have said it and said it was like a different girl every night. I really dont want things to end but they just might
WHAT DO I DO?!!-signed.
WULA!

if your friend is known to always tell the truth .. believe her over him. if you're not letting him have sex with you [good decision considering you know you're not ready] maybe he thinks that he can get what he wants from other girls. then come back to youu and act as if nothing ever happened. if you hear things from plenty of other people .. then i might start to believe the plenty of people over him. but the thingg is .. maybe he really is telling the truth. all you can do is keep an eye outt. don't jump to conclusions.

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Ok.....so guys...people at school call me a slut like all the girls and stuff...but i really don't think I am...and like they all say that guys love sluts..but i dont know....i meen I really dont think I am a slut..but guys do you like sluts or no...and what turns you on about a girl the most???

thanks

[ guys don't want sluts ]
slut's a just there to screw and then move on the next day.
trust me - I go to school and see plenty of them lol.
guys don't want to have a relationship with a slut. they just see them as someone easy to get ontop of. haha
suree they might get more attention.. but it's only because they disrespect themselves and give off that they're easy.
_ respect yourself _

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