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My best friend Lyndsey committed suicide back in Novemeber, and it still feels as though it was just yesterday I was hanging out with her laughing and smiling. I can't get over it. Every day the memory that she's gone hurts the same, it never gets any less. She kept me going when I wanted to give up, and then she gave up.. I want to follow her too but I can't put my family thro that. But I need her. I've tried everything to ease the pain of her death, but nothing seems to work. I feel as though I lost my soulmate.. I was truly in love with her. If she hadn't been with someone at the time, we would've been together. And that's alot to say because I am straight.. but with her it was totally different. I don't know what I can do to stop the pain from coming upon me full force every single day. Anyone have any ideas? Please let me know! Thanks (link)
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How you hanging in, hun? I know exactly how you feel, and i also understand that pain is hard to be delt with. To be honest i have been threw this many times, i had a friend that commited suicide while i was with him. We where having fun laughing, smiling, and being just normal teens. He gave me hug said he loved me and that he had to go to the bathroom, i said ok. Then i heard a big BOOM, and i walked in and he was lying on the floor dead;.He shot himself. I was and am still emotionaly scarred. I want to tell you the pain goes away fast, but to be honest i have to say it doesn't. The pain will ease in time, i know your hurt, and probably really confused. But it was her un happyness. Im sorry that this has happened, But i promise it will all get easier in time. If you need to talk email me. k? roziesinlove@hotmail.com or text me. 1-801-7924798
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so me and my gf have been going out for a year yesterday. we had celebrated our one year. we have had sex alot. but she dosent seem to cum or have an orgasim, she says that she feels like shes about to but it just dosent happen. i need to know what to do...my cusin told me that its just cause she lacks muscle mass in her vignia , is there a way to gain muscle mass? (link)
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Okay well, honestly, it has nothing too do with mustle muss. It's just that she doesn't get enough plessure in the sex you guy's are having, try adding something new into your guy's intercorse...Like eat her out but put somthing on her and like lick it off not only will it get her moaning, it will get her too cum because of the tecture. Hope i helped :) let me know :)
Love alway's,
Bubble2Gum
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if a guy has semen on his fingers, then fingers a girl , can she get pregnent ? (link)
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Yes the semen with travel from your vagina with was place there from the finger and go to the eggs making u prego!!!!!!
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I feel like I am the only teenager (18) who has not had sex yet, or even go pass first base. I don't believe in sex after marriage, but i think its sad how teenagers (15,16, etc) have sex so young. And people say because it's fun, but I feel that losing your viriginity is much more then just having sex you know? But why do people have sex at such a young age or if they are not even that far in a relationship (like 4 months). I'm just curious, about people's personal experiences. Regrets no regrets etc and why they lost their viriginity at such a young age. (link)
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Yeah i see what you mean. I mean hey i lost my verginity at the age of 14 wich was only 5 years ago. So im only a year older than you. I wouldn't worry if you do what i did than you will regret it. i mean there are so many things that could happen you could get a transmited thing or you could get pregnat even if you are protected. so please dont worry about your doing the right thing.
Love always,
Bubble2Gum
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ok i want to masturbate ive tried it before but it didnt give me pleasure for a very long time and i dont have anything that vibrates what should i use? please help (link)
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Okay well 1st off guy or girl ? If your a girl then use a shower head like turn it on and point it twords your vagina. If your a guy then get a sock and and you put penis in it and act as if your having sex.
hope i helped.
love always,
Bubble2Gum
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13/f and my friend is 13/f
My friend, alex, lost her virginity last week. I got really mad at her. I don't know what to do. She moved to Indiana too. I don't feel like being her friend anymore because she lost her virigity at 13. First, she started smoking, then she gave bjs, now she's lost her virginity. I feel so weird. All my other friends are virgins. I really don't like my friend anymore. She used to be nice, happy, and cool, but now shes... gross, rude and... Virginityless... Not a word, but ok. I wish my friend could've been smarter. What do I do?! Plz help! (link)
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Okay this is a great question, You are very smart to not be like her i mean there is no excuse for her stupidity! I mean you cant really do anything about it right now, but for the record you shouldn't ignore her because when she relizes what she did and how it was totaly wrong she will need you so dont ignore her. But sooner or later she'll thank you and only you for caring about her.
But i hope it all turns out ok.
love always,
Bubble2Gum
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ok. most of the girls in my class shave(i think) i want to to. i think i need it now. well, my mom and grandma keep saying don't do it you will get stubs and it will look terrible. you are too young. WEll i triend it a couple of times and i think i know how to do it. should i? my mom only buys the cheap blades and no cream... should i use reg. cream after? if i chose to shave now, what should i do! HELP!
i have one more.... periods. I don't have mine yet, and it seems i should of gotton it a while ago. what should i do with that also? thanks! (link)
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Well 1st off if you decide to shave now you should wet your legs then apply soap. and be gental when applyen the blade on skin!
and about your period i have started mine and lets get one thing across it can hurt but dont worry you'll be ready.But anyways i hope i helped comment me back
Love always,
Bubble2Gum
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ive been to the doctor probably 4 or 5 times (the last time i went was on friday) becuase i had like a viral infection, got reinfected or whatever and blah blah blah. but, i need to go again i think but idk if my parents will take me. i bled after sex abouttt 8 months ago i think. then, about a week ago i bled again but it was weird. i bled, thought it stopped but didnt and i put a tampon in because i figured i had my period. that day and the day after it was really light, then the next 3 days it was really heavy. on friday it stopped and i had sex yesterday and i bled. it stopped but everytime we had sex again yesterday i bled again. i came home and i went to the bathroom and noticed dry blood in my underwear, wiped and their was blood on the toilet paper. so i went to bed with a pad and theres like a quarter sized blood spot on it. what do you think is wrong? my parents dont know we have sex, and they cant know. absolutely cann nott know. so, could i get away with saying, hey mom i think i need to go to the doctor because i keep bleeding inbetween my periods? but ive noticed ive only bled when we had rough sex and it felt like he was too deep. could that just be the problem and am i okay then? and no, its not my hymen breaking, ive been having sex with him for a year now, and oh yeah im 15 years old. (link)
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Okay well this happend to my friend about a year ago and she's 12 now. But i think the reason its happining is because he went in to deep or becuase ur like really young and this could possibly be why but you should go to the doctor and get this straightend out. if ur parents cant take you mabey a friend could or a friend's parent. think about it.
hope i helped and good luck!!!
bu-bey
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