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i am 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m we are both virgins and we are in love with each other.. for sure .. i know what hes in this relationship for and i feel like having sex with him.. not to just f*ck but to share something with him that neither of us have experienced.. do you think this is a bad idea? do you think ill regret it? will peopel look at me differently?
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stonecoldmystery

Alright- if you two love eachother, then you wouldn't lust eachother, wait for marriage. What if you two break up after you've had sex? Maybe he just wants sex. As hard as it is to believe it, it's true. A lot of girls your age go out and have sex then their boyfriends dump them. Just wait for marriage, it will be even more special then if you wait.

Em

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I made a promise with one of my cusins I dont know if I can keep it you know ... the promise is to keep my virginity till I am married what should I do I love the guy I am with right now

I think you should wait, seriously.. Wait until marriage, that night will be so much more special, and you won't have any regrets because you'll be with THAT person, for the rest of your life. What if once your boyfriend just wants sex, and once he gets it, he leaves you? This happens to a lot of girls, but you think it won't happen. You have to fight the lust, and move on, there's better things than you can do then worry about something like this, at so young in life. Wait until that one night, it'll be all worth it, trust me.

Em

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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(

Girl, it's just a guy, they come and go and if you do have sex with him, he will definately go and move to the next girl because once he's gotten what he wants, then he moves on. You are a virgin, stay that way until you get married, don't you want it to be special?

Hope I helped

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How old do u have to be to have sex?

You're suppose to wait until you're married, at least that's what I believe, but I guess if YOU are ready and you are willing to go against God's will and you think you've found the right one and you think it's the right time..then I guess you're ready. But it's a sin to have sex before you're married, so I would wait until marriage

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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do?

Explain to him that you're not ready, you would know if you are ready. And obviously you aren't. SO just talk to him about it, and if he can't accept that you aren't ready, then there's a problem with him, not you.

Hope I helped

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i had sex but im not preagnant i feel horrible

You might feel horrible because you lost a huge thing in your life, sex is a huge step, you only have a first time once.. Maybe it was an awful experiance for you..

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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?

Well I would wait for that one special guy, I mean you only have your first time once, you want it to be special. Im waiting until im married. Hope I helped

Best wishes

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I'm 13, and my boyfriend is too. we've been going out for an exact week, and we've already kissed. I know all guys a pervs, but he shows it more. Him and his friends always make stupid jokes on how he wants "a whole can of me" or how he thinks im so hot and he wants to have me for breakfast, lame stuff like that. but they also say he wants to stick me, and sleep with me, like how theres a "room in his queen sized bed". but he still always says im hot, and not how he likes my personality. so now im not so sure if he likes me for me. errrgh. what the hell should i do?!

It sounds like he just wants wants you in bed or do sexual things with you. He might have said that he likes your personality..But how would he really know your personality well after only a week? If this guy is really irrating you, then dump him. Tell him how you feel though.. And ask him why he likes you, and if he doesn't bring up something about your personality or something like that. Drop him like he's hot

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i went to a party at the end of skool in the middle of june. i got drunk n was unconsious. i've been throwing up and noticed a little bulge below my belly button. could some guy have fucked me while i was unconsious?HELP PLZ!

Yes he could have had sex with you, or raped you. You could have morning sickness which women ususally get when they're pregnet. And your starting to notice a bulge...I'd to see a doctor or take a test immediately, but no matter what anyone says..Don't have an abortion if you are pregnet. Hope I helped you out!

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me n mi boyfriend have been tagether for almost a year now nd we've done everythin but have sex and well tanight he was fingering me nd that nd it got a little out of control nd ima virgin nd hez lyke well jus let dem meet nd i waz lyke k nd he did nd there wasnt a condom nd it wasnt long but im really afraid that i culd get pregnant i dunt no what happen lyke with him 'down there' but im so scared can i get pregnant from that it was only like a minute but idunno is there a possibility ? PLEASE HELP im way to young ta get pregnant im so scared

You could be pregnet, it doesn't matter how long it's in there for. And second of all, you are no longer a virgin. Seems like you didn't really want to have sex with him? If you said no to him then thats rape also.. But as far as i'm concerned, i'd go to a doctor and see if you are, or go to a drug store and get a pregnacy test.

Best wishes...

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Ok like, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now. And I just haven't really been in the mood all that much anymore. I think it's because when ever he sees me he wants to do something sexual, and I don't really want to. So because of that I NEVER want to. And he gets mad and claims that he's forcing me to when he kind of is. It's really rare that I actually want to do something anymore. I would like to just spend some time together for once and not have nice things done for me without being expected for sex in return.

I don't really know what to do. It's really hard to talk to him and I have also been thinking about breaking up with him. I talked to him about taking a "break" but he got really upset and we argued for hours. But now we are still seeing eachother. And I can never talk to him because he won't listen.

He says that we could take a "break" from having sex but when I brought it up again he got mad...again. I'm just really torn and extremely confused. I'm glad I can finally ask help from somebody. Thanks so much.

Sorry it's long.

your boyfriend might be expecting sex now because you guys had been having it regularly.. But still. Every girl wants to be felt like shes needed, and not just pushed around. If he can't except the fact that you dont really feel like having sex anymore, it's his problem. Maybe he's addicted to sex, some people can be. You have tried to talk to him, just tell him maybe I really want a break, from eachother. Because face it, you've tried to explain yourself a couple times, he won't listen. So just move on, he isn't worth it if he can't even listen to you. Hope I helped you out in some way!

Best wishes

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