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*HeLLo!* My name is Amanda and iM a sophmOre iN highschool!


I really *lOve* giving people advice, which is the reason im here! I have loved it ever sence i was little =). If you ever need any help or wanna ask me any questions, im here! =)
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is this werid?
i take off my clothes and look at myself in the mirror and want to do stuff but i dont kno what? it feels good being naked what should i do. i like my boobs and others ppl's boobs. i want to have sex or something what is hapening
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Its normal, almost every girl goes through it. =)
♥ Amanda


ok so this might sound gross but i have had my period for like 2 years now and i am 13 and so well always after my period the WHOLE month till it starts again i have to wear a thick panty liner cause it all comes out like the goop does. the white goop. it dosnt smell or anything though please help i rate high (link)
that white "goop" isnt your period hunn, its discharge =). every girl gets it, its normal.

♥ Amanda


im am 13 i havent gotten im period and im afraid it will happen at the most embarrassing time like in class or something. i went to the doctor and she said that she etimated it would happen when im 17 but im scared that it will start and i wont knwo and ill be really embarrased :-( (link)
I kno periods are different for every girl but when I first got mine i was at home and i was in the 8th grade. It was so light i didnt even kno i had it. If your a small person (like me) yours will most likely be light at first & for a while.

♥ Amanda


Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
he popped ur cherry.
♥ Amanda


if your 16 and you slept with eight people is that slutty? my friend is 16 and she slept with like 8 people and i think thats pretty slutty because most of them she wasnt even going out with them..people call her a slut and she asked me sometimes if i think she is a slut but i dont want to tell her yeah your a slut cause i think thats rude. so whats your opinion on it? is she a slut or not? (link)
Sorry to say but *yes* she is an easy slut. 8 people is a lot of people to have sex with. 2 people is a lot! I hope she doesnt get an STD. Maybe you should sit her down and talk to her, face to face. Over the phone sucks because she needs to see your facial expressions. Your absolutly right, dont go saying "oh your a slut" because that will hurt her feelings and you dont want to do that. Try to talk to her about it. Tell her to go to a gynecologist and see if shes alright. hope i helped!
♥ Amanda


is it bad to masterbate? (link)
nope, perfectly natural


hiya
recently i have been getting deeper feelings for my best boy mate (liam) i want to do stuff with him like give head, kiss etc.... but i dont know how to seduce him what to say or whatever. any help would be good.
oh by the way we always talk about sex and stuff like that. (link)
the best thing i can say to do is ask him if maybe you can be friends with benefits? but becareful =).


well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??

signed: grossed out (link)
i kno how you feel, but the doctors have to look there. it grosses me out too :)


hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do (link)
I only gave head once and he wasnt wearing a condom but who knows if those 2 other girls have herpes or whatnot. i say a flavored condom.


Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either.. (link)
your probably bi curious


what does guys like when they finger a gurl...like hairy or shave it? (link)
All guys are different, do what you normally do and hopefully he'll respect you for that. There 'area' is hairy so why cant ours be?


i wanna give my boyfriend head and he wants me to do it too. well i really wanna do it but i dont neccisarily(sp?) know what to do during it.. so i need some tips on what to do! thanks! (link)
i only gave head once, and believe me it was different. start out slow, do a lot of licking and dont be afraid to get messy - the wetter the better! some sucking involved lol and inbetween give him a handjob. trust me, he'll love it!!


Is it normal for girls to have there period for 2 days.


-thanks (link)
completly normal


uhh..ok this is really dumb...Ok well a week ago I had a dream that I had sex with my teacher...he is like 48 or something and I'm in the 8th grade and now when I'm in his class day dream about it...I mean its gross because he is ...my teacher..but i dont want to tell my friend because they will think i'm crazy! what do i do and what does it mean? (link)
Wow, thats a little intense lol. I had a dream that my teacher made out with my old friend Hannah. (last year) im not sure if its a 'normal' thing but maybe your just thinking about sex. Dreams are memories or thoughts sorted in the back of your head and at night you dream and some of the things go together. Hopei helped a little!


Im 16 and recently been giving my bf a hand job
and sometimes his penis doesn't get hard straight away is this normal? What can i do? (link)
Yes, that is normal . sometimes it takes a guy longer for him to get hard.


okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
Thats ok that you dont kno how to have sex. Sexual intercourse is when a man puts his penis in a womans vergina. but in anycase, just go with the flow hun




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