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I have been having a hard time lately and I feel a bit depressed. I have a person that I admire and we are real close friends but I just am not sure whether or not to talk to her. She is the same age as my mother (54) and has a son that is my age also,(14) I just feel silly going to her and talking. But really, is it silly? She is the only person I trust with my feelings and the things I am having problems with, Advicenators could not help with.
She has told me I can call anytime I have problems but I guess I don't want her son to know that I call his mother. (He use to be my crush....Long time ago....idiot now.) I also feel that she has enough things on her mind, such as, her work (she and her husband own a whole bunch of gas stations in and around WA state. Her 4 other sons also are in the buisiness.) and her family.
Should I just call her and talk? would I be a annoyance? (link)
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She said you can call her, so call her. If she has too many things on her mind or can`t talk, I`m sure she would tell you. You can`t keep your feelings bottled up too long.
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i moved this summer and was really, really worried about not being able to make new friends. my friends said that i would make friends in no time, and i did. but last weekend, i called my freind, and when i said i had to go, she asks, "why?" and i told her that i was going over to my new friends house, and she got all huffy and mad. its like she doesnt want me to make friends! i dont get her! it is confusing me alot, so if anyone has any good advice, please tell me.
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Make sure she knows she is still your friend. She might be a little jealous because she might be afraid she will lose you or you won`t spend time with her. I feel that way sometimes, but tell her you can have more than one friend.
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i just told one of my best friends kelly im bi and now she is acting weird around me. I imed her and shes like ummm hi and im like whats wrong and then she says well idk how to act around u anymore, and im really hurt, she treats me like im not wanted, not intentional, but it still hurts, what do i do be honest (link)
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If she is letting the fact you are a "bi" ruin your frienship, she might not be worth it. You are still the same person as you were before. Make sure she knows that.
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Ok theres this girl in one of my classes named june (named change of course) but anyways shes always bragging about what she has saying that shes rich , and usually talks about how *awesome* her car is, and how its a brand new car but she doesnt like it. Anyways shes new this year and i dont know if she wants to be my friend or not? how do i know if shes just saying all this stuff to impress me, or just really doesnt like me? I mean she brags about how she knows so many people already yet, when i see her shes always around just the usual two people. So i dont know if she wants to make new friends or what? any help? Thanks so much (link)
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Sometimes when people do that, it`s to cover up problems they have. I wouldn`t really worry about it. There are unforchantly a lot of conceeded people out there, I would just get used to it. If it annoys you that much, I wouldn`t be friends with her, but don`t be mean to her. Maybe if it really bothers you, you could talk to her about it. Just when you are around her, act like you don`t really care. Maybe she will get the point you are not interested.
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ok so me n my friend have been hangin out with each other a lot since the beggining of the year. u can eve consider us best friends. now all of a sudden she never calls me anymore, or wants to hang out. ts kinda like shes ignoring me. what is going on? (link)
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Been there.. Talk to her about it. Maybe there is something going on that you don`t know about or she may not want to talk about. I was friends w/ someone for about two years and then we made other friends. It`s okay if you don`t stay BEST friends, you can still be friends though. It`s normal to move on.
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Next week im flying to Hawaii alone in an aircraft, but i have a phobia for planes and i don't want to panic during the flight or cry. I can go on airplanes thats not a problem but im just scared. Does anyone know how to get rid of the phobia (link)
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There is nothing to be scared of. You are more safe in a plane, than in a car. The chances of something happening is slim. While you are on the plane, keep yourself occupied so you don`t think about it.
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