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heey i'm allie , i'm 14, and i'm from the west coast [ not telling what state ] i love helping other people soo i maade an advice column! i also love shopping and hanging with my friends. i love animals [ especially my dog comet! ] and one day i want to be an actress. want to know more? ask!
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Let's call her Courtney. Well, Courtney's being such a bitch to me lately. She's my supposedly or used-to-be "friend" even though we were never really close. Anyway, I get this feeling she's trying to leave me out. If she's nice to me, I get a feeling that she's using me, which I bet she is. You see, she's my partner in Science. Today, at this academy that two of my other friends go to, she led us to this three-seat place and motioned for my other friends to sit there. A week ago, at a four-seat place, I almost sat next to her, but she was all " no no no, I want to tell Krista something,so sit next to Jenny." Even when we were taking pictures today, when Miss. Salinaek took us to this photo booth, she took sticker photos with my friends and completely ignored me. In Science, she says "you do all the work. " Also, she tries to make me give things to her. I'm in a singing part for a musical, and she didn't get any parts. Later on, she narrows her eyes at me and says sarcastically " did you have fun?" then she puts her arms around my best friend and starts talking to her. (they have the same set-design role.) Also, she keeps on talking about me like I'm not there. " I don't think Moana is right for the role, she gets so nervous and scared, and she doesn't sing well." My friends look at her like she's crazy and go " No she's not." She only acts reall phony-scary nice when she wants to go to a party I throw. At first, she was really kind when we first became friends. Now, she's like a total asshole. I can't "talk" because we aren't that close and she didn't do anything pointedly nasty except in class, when she begged me for candy, and I said I didn't have any, she said " I hate you" but she could very well have been joking. Ugh, get this bitch out of my life!
you need to tell her how you feel, and tell her to stop. don't let her walk all over you. stand up for yourself and tell her that if she wants to continue your friendship, she needs to realize you're not her toy. i had a friend like that, and it didn't work out between us, but my life is better now, theres less drama. i hope it works out for you.
ok so i have this friend, she's not that great of a friend but thats not the point. anyway, i have this boyfriend. they dont like eachother, whatever. So she gave one of her hot co-workers my myspace and he's telling me im hot and stuff and that me him my friend and her boyfriend should go on a double date. one day my boyfriend logged into my account because i had told him about this guy and he asked if he could read some of the messages the guy sent me. he said if the guy kept bugging me after i told him i had a bf he would get mad and at least message the guy telling him something. the guy sent me another message right now giving me his number. i dont want to hook up with this other guy but i wouldnt mind talking to him, i have a lot of guy friends. i think my boyfriend would be mad if i called him. what should i do?
calling this guy could cause some problems, especially if you get caught by your boyfriend. think about how much you like your boyfriend - if he means a lot to you then try to just stay friends with this guy , and if your relationship isn't right for you, then take the risk, just make sure you know what you want
hope i helped ♥
my 2 best friends have been
leaving me out. they dont do
it a lot and they aren't doing
it to be mean, but it still hurts.
they are making this movie for
school and i'm in their class and
they didn't ask me. i asked if
i could be in but they already
filmed it. all 3 of us hang out
alot but if i cant do anything that
day and the 2 of them hang out,
i miss so many inside jokes and then
they put it in their aim profiles and
i feel left out. they feel left out
sometimes too, i guess thats what
happens when 3 people are bffs but
i dont wanna feel left out and i wanna
know all the secrets or inside jokes.
Try talking to them together. tell them how you feel because maybe they have a reason that they're doing it.. also instead of waiting for them to ask you to do something, try inviting them over so there's no way you can be left out
hope i helped ♥
I have no idea what to do for my 16th birthday.. any ideas?
if you have some close friends, maybe you could all go see a movie and then go out to dinner. if that doesn't appeal to you, get some friends and have a party at your house or at a hotel, depending on how much money you/your parents want to spend.