Do any of you have friends as backstabbers and know how to deal with them...I need help!
yes! my advice to you is to try to hang out with a different group of friends. Have you heard the saying "Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer"? You can still talk to them, but I would suggest that you don't trust them with secrets, or any piece of information that could be twisted around.
Hope I helped =].
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It's about a girl. What else? The backround story; we've been in the same insanely close group of friends since 2nd grade. I haven't liked her for THAT long. Some point last year I had one of those "whoa..." moments, and realized how I felt about her. I never really asked her out, per se, but at one point I had explained how I felt, blah blah blah, she didn't feel the same way but still loved me as a friend, etc.
Not that long ago I did ask her out, again, to find the same results. I only did it because she had been acting a little differently. "Interested", I suppose. I'm not too torn up about it, I moved on before and can do it again. But should I ever bother with asking her out again? Twice seems like enough, I mean, should I just wait for the impossibility of her "coming around" (while considering other girls, of course) ?
Mabye you could try a different approach...try acting like your not interested or mabye try acting interested in another girl. If that doesnt work then mabye you could just sit her down and explain, again, that you really really like her and at least want to give it a chance, that it won't ruin your friendship, and that you don't wnat to go through life without knowning what would have happened if you had the guts to ask her out, again. Asking her out only shows that you care enough to keep asking her out.
Hope I helped =]
Good luck!
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okay so i am so very bored right now and i have absolutely no where to go...and i have no friends to hang out with so could someone give me some fun ideas that i could do right now to rid my boredom? thnkx
Personally I don't like online games very much anymore, my advice is to either call someone, finish homework, listen to music, have a movie night***, and eat all u want!
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i know this is kinda stupid but how do i get closer friends ?? i want friends who i can trust and talk to and hang out like every day its just when i get friends they kick me to the curb i HAD these amazing friend((emma n iris)) and we hung out EVERY SiNLE DAY and i said lets never get into a fight i was us to be best friends forever and we did that secret box thing from crossroads((gay yeah i know rite lol)) well emma n iris one day hung out with this girl marissa and they became like BEST FRIENDS and i was just being left out and it happen like that i did not see it coming and then they started making fun of me and saying mean stuff to me and i said i wanted my stuff back from that secret box thing if your gonna keep doing this to me and they said that they through it out and i put my most favorite stuff in there...We are friends now but not that tight...how do i get REAL BEST friends? i will rate high for extremly good anweres
Friends like that are hard to come by. Sometimes it could take years to find a friend that you can trust, and call anytime, even at 3 in the morning. My advice to you is to keep looking, you will find that friend. You should try other groups. I had the same problem which was very very similar to you about 2 years ago. Trust me, it will get better =). Hope I help!
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